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Gear, check. Back up memory cards and batteries, check. Run sheet, check. Set alarm, check.

Aside from ticking off your day-before checklist and checking in with your couple, you also need to decide on the outfit you’ll be wearing as their wedding photographer. Considering you’ll be on your feet all day and potentially getting into awkward positions to capture all the beautiful moments from their day, you’ll want to choose a comfortable, functional outfit that’s also on-brand.

As a general rule, you should opt for a smart-casual outfit to respect your clients and their guests on their special day. Whether it’s a black-tie extravaganza or a casual backyard wedding, looking professional also shows that you’re taking your job seriously and will help you make a positive initial impression on everyone – don’t forget, every wedding you attend is a chance for you to make new connections and encourage word-of-mouth referrals! Treat every guest and vendor as though they’re a potential client.

Simple guidelines/ consideration factors on what to wear when shooting a wedding

what to wear as a wedding photographer

  • Type of wedding – Is it a luxury black-tie event or is it a casual beach wedding? Are there any cultural, traditional or religious elements that you need to be respectful of?
  • Location & venue – Is it indoors, outdoors or a mix of both? If it’s a destination wedding or elopement, do you need to trek up a mountain or get into the water?
  • Weather – Will it be hot or cold? Will it be raining? Is there going to be a drastic temperature change from day to night?
  • Comfort & functionality – Choose fabrics that have adequate stretch or “give” when you need to climb, squat, kneel or bend over. Comfortable shoes are a must!
  • Avoid flashing anyone – The only flash we want is the camera flash going off! Steer away from short hemlines, low-hanging pants and plunging necklines.
  • Neutral colours – Don’t steal the show by wearing loud, distracting colours or patterns. It also prevents unwanted colour casts in your photos.

7 outfit tips from wedding photographers in our Six-Figure Business Map community

To help you pick your perfect wedding photographer wardrobe, we asked our Six-Figure Business Map community for their go-to outfit advice from experience!

From generous pockets to versatile jumpsuits and personal shopping picks, keep reading to see what they’ve said – you can also show them some love and connect with them by saying hi via their Instagram links. Meet our other sailors here.

👚Outfit Tip 1. Anything with POCKETS!

Whether it’s for your lens cap, batteries, tissues for teary couples or a protein bar for a quick refuel, pockets are convenient for stashing small important things throughout the day.

The deeper the pockets, the more stuff you can store and not worry about anything falling out or getting misplaced.

“Pockets all the way……..” – Nic Brearley from Place of Love Photography

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Place of Love Wedding Photography

“ANYTHING WITH POCKETS 😂 I have a few dresses that are my go-to because they have pockets 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 ” – Jess Manthey from Auburn Photography

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Auburn Photography

👚Outfit Tip 2. Don’t wear a white shirt and pants (and get mistaken for a server).

Laser-focused on getting “the shot”, the last thing you want is to miss a key moment because their wedding guests have mistaken you for a server, demanding more food and drink top-ups. Or if you’ve only got a quick minute to pop out for a much-needed toilet break.

While a shirt and slacks will always look professional, try your best to avoid potentially looking like the venue’s staff.

“Don’t wear a white shirt and dark pants. You will look like a server at the reception if you put down your camera. I speak from experience. 🤦🏼‍♀️
Also, dress up so you look like a guest. Not sweats or jeans or casual hooded sweaters. Just my opinion.
Black is nice so you blend in if you have a second shooter or another photographer doing video.”
– Jenn Roach from Jenn Roach Photography

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Jenn Roach Photography

“All black doesn’t work either from my experience. I got asked for more chicken wings once even though I was holding a camera. Lucky for him, I had one left in my pocket, so I gave it to him. We’re still friends today.” – Marcus Page from A Couple of Pages

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a couple of pages wedding photography

👚Outfit Tip 3. Dress smart casual or like a wedding guest.

There are two reasons for this. Firstly, you don’t want to turn up in a stained tee and flip flops out of respect for the couple. They’re celebrating what will be one of the most memorable days of their lives, so make sure you wear smart casual attire to not stick out like a sore thumb.

Secondly, you’re a walking billboard for your brand! Treat every single wedding as an opportunity to market yourself and every guest/ vendor as a potential client or referral. Dress investment-worthy sharp and make those first impressions count.

“Denim button-up shirt with black stretchy chinos and brown boots.. smart casual and comfy!” – Mark Evans from EVN Creative Weddings

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EVN Creative weddings

Blending in so I look like I guest, a nice long floral dress WITH POCKETS! ” – Claire McLean from Claire McClean Photography

Claire’s personal recommendation: Uniqlo V Neck 3/4 Sleeved Dress 

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Claire McClean Photography

“I go quite smart, not casual. For footwear, I almost always wear black RM Williams boots.– Nicole Johnstone from Nicole Gourley Photography

Nicole’s personal recommendation: R. M. Williams boots

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Nicole Gourley Photography

👚Outfit Tip 4. Factor in the wedding location and weather.

While you’ll always want to be wearing your finest smart casual attire, it’s essential to dress for the wedding’s location and weather. If it’s an elopement or destination wedding where you’ll be navigating tricky climbs and prickly bushes or getting wet, restrictive clothing and high heels aren’t going to cut it. Prepare a functional outfit that will allow you to capture those money shots with ease, even if it’s from difficult or precarious angles.

You’ll also need to consider extreme weather conditions or day-to-night temperature changes so you can stay comfortable throughout the day, without worrying about sweat stains or numb fingers and feet.

“For adventure elopements it’s all about being prepared with the right GEAR. Gotta know the terrain and weather to be prepped. Not so much about looking fancy because we are out trekking in the wilderness 😂” – Kayla Donelle from Northern Voyages Co

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“Totally depends where you live/work… a lot of the time in Perth we’re shooting in 35C-40C days outdoors and the question is more like “what to wear as a wedding photographer that will cover the sweat marks and not make me die from heatstroke” 💁🏻‍♀️ I have not yet cracked it. BUT a change of outfits for the reception goes a long way if it’s poss to schedule in 10 mins to freshen up and outfit change!!” – Cathy Stewart from Kitty Loves Love Photography

Cathy’s personal recommendation: Rollie Nation Shoes or Frankie4 Footwear

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Kitty Loves Love Photography

“Different looks for different wedding locations. But mostly I wear a black or tan jumpsuit.” – Jana Sauer from Jana Sauer Weddings

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“Board shorts and singlet all the way for adventure shoot so you are ready to jump into the water – G2G” –  Christian Miran from Paper Bear Photography

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Paper Bear Wedding Photography

“It’s currently 10000% degrees and about 90% humidity here in Hong Kong, so I need light, flow-y, loose clothing to get through the sweating (I wish I was exaggerating. I’d give anything for cold temperatures). I’m usually in a light cotton midi shirt dress that ties at the waist and most importantly, it has pockets! It’s the right amount of put together yet functional/casual.” –  Kasia Kolmas from Kasia Kolmas Photography

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Kasia Kolmas Photography

👚Outfit Tip 5. Choose comfortable shoes.

You’ll be running around all day so be kind to your feet! While it may seem obvious, we often overlook our choice of footwear. Skip the hobbling caused by painful blisters, sore feet and knees by choosing comfortable, supportive shoes. Avoid impractical high heels to save your arches and leave the slippers at home to avoid potentially nasty slips and trips.

If in doubt, invest in a pair of sturdy sneakers, flats or boots from your favourite brand. If they’re brand new, make sure you break them in well ahead of time too!

“For me it’s all about the shoes! These bad boys are waaayyy comfier than even my sneakers – got a nice lil support for arches 🥰 9-10 hours in this and I’m fine! ” – Laity Finlay from Jypsea

Laity’s personal recommendation: Reef Women’s Cushion Vista Slides

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jypsea perth photographer

“Ohh this is such a current thing for me. Just got my first pair of R.Ms” – Liam Burrows from Skylark Media

Liam’s personal recommendation: R. M. Williams Men’s Boots

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Skylark Media Wedding Photography

“Noskin Boots!! Keep it ethical and vegan 🤩🔥🌱” – Jai Long from Free The Bird Weddings

Jai’s personal recommendation: Noskin Boots

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Free the Bird Weddings

👚Outfit Tip 6. Wear neutral colours.

Try your best to stay away from vibrant colours and loud distracting patterns, unless the couple has requested otherwise. Not only will it make you stand out unnecessarily, but it might also cause an unwanted colour cast affecting your photos.

Your safest bet is to stick with neutral or solid colours.

“Neutrals. No colours that’ll bounce tinged light into a shot. White adds light.” – Jewel Chenoweth from Jewel Chenoweth Photography

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“This is pretty much my go-to outfit for weddings. I wear black trousers for pockets and just to elevate my outfit a little bit and a plain black top, which is essentially just a simple cotton top that I can move around in. The fanny pack is also key for me, it’s SUPER helpful! ” – Madi Ellis from Madi Ellis Photography

Madi’s personal recommendation: Blundstone or Allbirds for shoes

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Madi Ellis Photography

👚Outfit Tip 7. For the ladies, jumpsuits are a winner!

Jumpsuits were a no-brainer suggestion from many of our female wedding photographers. Easily dressed up or down, jumpsuits offered versatility and most importantly, stylish comfort throughout the day. They allow you to move around quickly and easily, climbing up and down between shots, without the risk of accidentally flashing someone.

Despite minor bathroom inconveniences, most jumpsuits also come with handy pockets for storing items while you’re on the go.

“I love wearing jumpsuits of varying color to weddings!! First for functionality because I want to be able to move quickly and easily, get up on chairs, and handle all kinds of weather conditions without fearing that my clothing limits that. Secondly, I believe it’s important to look put together – I’m attending a wedding so I want to blend in with guests without calling a ton of attention in the front of the ceremony!!” – Lily Notz from Lily Notz Co

Lily’s personal recommendation: Free People Lennox Jumpsuit and Kohl’s Sleeveless Woven Jumpsuit

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Lily Notz Co Wedding Photography

“Old Navy Jumpsuits do it for me! I have this same linen (and other fabrics but same style) jumpsuit in 4 colors and a bunch in black, I wear them ALL THE TIME for all types of weddings! They can be dressed up or down very easily, you can toss a blazer or vest over it for instant upscale, and the black always looks great. Works so well with a fanny pack or a belt holster and is a super affordable option. ” – Renata Rose from Renata Voci Photography

Renata’s personal recommendation: Old Navy Sleeveless Linen-Blend Tie-Belt Wide-Leg Jumpsuit

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Renata Voci Photography

“For me…jumpsuits! All of the jumpsuits. Dressy, casual, adventure. There’s all kinds. And it’s the most comfortable for me to move around in. I do what needs to be done for the shot.” – Corinne Jackson from Corinne LaLoba Photography

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Corinne Laloba Photography

“Literally just bought a black jumpsuit that would have to be the absolute comfiest thing I have ever worn to shoot a wedding, or anything for that matter.
The only downside to jumpsuits is basically undressing to go to the bathroom 😂
But other than that I’m now converted from black pants/jeans and a blouse to a jumpsuit wearer!”
– Renée Rametta from Two Wild Hearts Photography

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two wild hearts photography

“I usually wear a jumpsuit! So comfy and easy to move in! Can get a very professional looking one, or more laidback look!” – Sailor Hinegardner from Sailor Breez Photo + Film

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Sailor Breez Photo + Film

“My top two go to wedding jumpsuits for the ladies 🥰” – Berkley McGaughey from Berkley McGaughey Photography

Berkley’s personal recommendation: Lulus Black Strapless Jumpsuit and Nasty Gal V-Neck Wide-Leg Jumpsuit

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Berkley McGaughey Photography

Dress for the occasion and have fun!

When in doubt, it’s always helpful to consult with your clients and seek their opinion. This is particularly important if there are any cultural, traditional or religious aspects of their wedding that you need to be mindful of. For example, black is often considered an unlucky colour in Hindu ceremonies, while both black and white symbolise death and mourning in Chinese culture.

Dress to impress, stay comfortable, and prove that you’re worth every penny of their investment!

With so many talented photographers out there hustling to make their break, the wedding photography industry is getting more competitive with each passing day. Couples are being overwhelmed by all the available choices, spending days researching online to find the right person for their day.

So if you’re new to the industry, it’s no surprise that you might be doubting your abilities or worrying if there’s enough room for you at the table. Without a solid portfolio, you’re probably stressing about how you can get your foot in the door by securing your first lead. You want to prove to yourself (and all the naysayers) that you have what it takes to build a successful career in wedding photography. All you need is that first paying client!

I feel you…trust me, I’ve been there. Looking back on the time when I was first starting out, I can’t believe the number of mistakes I made. I was a second shooter at my first ever wedding and accidentally shot the entire day in JPEG instead of raws. Needless to say, I was immediately fired. When I finally got my first paying client at $500, I had no idea what I was doing. Rather than staying for the whole day, I left at the start of their reception, thinking that the wedding was “over”. But hey, no one’s perfect and we all learn and grow from our mistakes, right?

I know how scary it can feel when you’re just starting out. That’s why I invited Joy Zamora onto the ‘Make Your Break’ podcast to brainstorm and chat about how we did it back in the day and how you can get your first lead!

Our 12 biggest tips and ideas for getting your first lead

While I’ve collated the main points from our chat below, you’ll quickly notice a common theme – get out of your comfort zone and go out there to find your dream clients. They’re not going to come knocking on your door, begging you to shoot their wedding if they don’t know you exist. Rather than sitting at home, stressing over launching a perfect website or attracting more Instagram followers, find out how you can get in front of them. Life happens in the real world, not in the safety of your home.

how to get your first lead

Every day is a new day to take action on new opportunities, you just need to make them happen. You’ve got nothing to lose! If anything, you’ll be finessing your people and sales skills every time you get uncomfortable and put yourself out there.

1. Don’t make things easy for yourself

The day you decided to become a wedding photographer is the day you chose to pursue your passion and create a new lifestyle. Nursing your creativity, you need to push yourself to stay hungry and inspired. Taking the easy route is the quickest way to lose sight of your ‘why’ and purpose.

Sometimes, you need to deliberately corner yourself so you can fight your way out of there. For example, if you’re relying on the security of your “day job” or part-time job, you’ll never treat wedding photography as a real business. Having a backup will keep you playing it safe in your comfort zone and you’ll never explore your full potential.

2. Be disruptive by setting new trends

There’s a huge competition in the wedding photography industry and you’ll never stand out if you’re just following the trends. Do whatever you can to create something new and unexpected. Become the new trendsetter. Experiment and have fun with it!

As I always say, “Don’t let something in your industry surprise your business. Instead, surprise your industry.”

3. Work on your social skills so you can truly connect with people

At the end of the day, people will book you because they want to work with YOU – not because of your portfolio or how many Instagram followers you have. Grow your network like you’re spreading a spiderweb.

Be nice and focus on building real, meaningful connections with people, rather than selling your services. Become a master problem solver and they’ll see your value.

4. Find the people who are at the centre of the community

Think of the people in your community who have the most conversations or are the most widely connected. Whether it’s your hairdresser or the barista at your local cafe, these are people whose jobs revolve around interacting with other people.

They’re the ones who know everybody so tell them what you do! Give them your business card or ask them how you can help them spread the word about your business. Their next customer might be someone who’s newly engaged and looking for a wedding photographer.

5. Edit in public places

This may sound silly but people are naturally curious beings. Change things up by working in a cafe or a public space for a day. As you’re editing photos, people might strike up a conversation because they’re curious about what you’re working on.

You can even put a sticker on your laptop that says something attention-grabbing like “Hey, talk to me!” or “I’m a wedding photographer, wanna chat?”

6. Connect with wedding venues

Wedding venues need photos to promote their space AND they want to have trusted photographer recommendations to share with their couples. Drive around to all the different venues and introduce yourself in person to the venue’s team. Ask them how you can provide them value or how you can help them better serve their couples.

7. Attend wedding photography workshops and conferences

Workshops and events aren’t just for levelling up your knowledge. Often it’s the in-between moments where you chat and network with the other attendees that count! It’s a great way to meet like-minded people and open yourself up to new opportunities.

8. Join community groups on Facebook

Besides wedding or photography related Facebook groups, you can join local community groups to expand your network. Whether it’s a buy, swap, sell group or a group for local parents, the more you spread awareness about your business, the more you’ll get in front of the right people. They might not be looking for your services but they may be able to refer you to a family member, friend or colleague.

9. Offer to second shoot for more experienced photographers

Taking the first step to shoot a wedding on your own can be scary, especially if you have no idea what to expect. Connect with more experienced photographers and offer to second shoot weddings for them so you can gain first-hand experience and learn from them.

10. Submit your work to magazines and blogs

Create work that you’re proud of and submit it to wedding magazines and blogs. Don’t be disheartened if your submission gets rejected. Keep submitting because all you need is one ‘yes’. If you want 1 feature, submit your work to 10 publications. A single feature can lead to 10 enquiries.

11. Join online wedding directories

This one can be a bit of a hit and miss, depending on which wedding directory you’re joining. If you’re desperate to gain visibility and earn some money, wedding directories are a starting place as they often rank high on Google. While you may have to field a lot of “low quality” enquiries, you’ll still be getting the opportunity to expand your portfolio and online presence.

12. Organise styled shoots

Your photography style will evolve as you grow. If you want to create work that’s on-trend or if you’re looking to set a new trend, styled shoots are a great way to experiment with new styles.

On the other hand, if you’ve never booked a destination wedding, you can organise an epic styled shoot overseas to help you attract more of those clients. You can also offer to shoot a dream destination wedding for free. A free shoot can attract paying clients in the future.

Do it for the passion, not the money

Never get complacent – your clients are not responsible for paying your bills. You aren’t entitled to their money. And the fact is, there are plenty of easier ways to make money.

Keep nurturing your commitment to self-growth and showing up with relentlessness. That’s how you’ll build a sustainable business where you can keep making money from doing what you love.

Don’t give up, you’ve got this!

P.S. If you haven’t watched my Jack Short documentary yet, make sure you head over to my homepage and watch it for extra motivation!

Joy zamora Joy Zamora is a destination wedding photographer and educator.

Follow him on Instagram @darkmaito

Learn more about his course: (for Spanish-speaking creatives)

how to get your first paying client
why money mindset matters

Money is a subject most of us feel uncomfortable talking about. Whether it’s our current income or addressing our financial goals, we get squeamish and prefer to avoid the conversation altogether. Your money mindset is influenced by a myriad of factors including your personal experiences with money. From your upbringing to cultural norms, simple things like the way your parents handled or talked about money have all influenced your deeply ingrained beliefs from an early age.

Plus, in today’s go-go-go culture, we’ve grown impatient. We hate waiting for money and rarely play the long game. And when we don’t get results right away, we feel disheartened as though we’ve failed.

That’s exactly why you need to heal your money mindset. Your money mindset is your conscious and subconscious set of beliefs and attitudes about money. It matters because your self-limiting money beliefs are the biggest thing holding you back from making money and becoming your best self. Making changes with your money mindset will help you better serve yourself and those around you.

changing your money beliefs

Here are some common money beliefs that may be holding you back:

  • Money is the key to happiness. Success won’t bring you happiness. Happiness will bring you success. Reverse the process and focus on finding true happiness.
  • Money is the root of all evil. How you choose to pursue or spend your money doesn’t automatically make you “evil”. You have the power to be the kind of person you want to be.
  • You need to work harder to make more. There’s no point in working hard if it goes unnoticed. Seek new ways to share and implement ideas that will help to serve you and others.
  • Money doesn’t grow on trees. There is an abundance of money, you just need to find the right idea, people, product/ service, and be in the right channel.
  • More money leads to more problems. It’s also hard to be broke. The only problems you’ll have are the ones you create for yourself.
  • You don’t deserve to be “rich”. Feelings of unworthiness lead to self-sabotage. Open yourself up to opportunities by practising a healthy mindset.
  • Money needs to be saved. If your savings sit idly in the bank, you’ll never give it the chance to grow. Make wise investment decisions to outweigh the risk of losing it.

Don’t get me wrong, money shouldn’t be your #1 focus in life. But if you want to regain control of your finances and successfully achieve your big-picture goals, you need to start with your mindset.

Good or bad, your beliefs drive your behaviour. It shapes the way you feel about people who make more or less money than you, how giving you are, how you feel about debt and navigating perceived risks. It filters into your everyday life by impacting all your financial decisions.

Develop a healthy relationship with money and allow your mindset to evolve as new opportunities come your way.

6 ways to start shifting your money mindset

how to shift your money mindset

1. Develop an awareness and understanding

Pay attention to your thoughts, behaviours and actions around money. What negative or self-limiting beliefs have held you back? Write those down.

2. Turn those limiting beliefs into positive affirmations

Rewrite your limiting beliefs as positive affirmations in the present tense. Train and rewire your subconscious mind to embrace this new reality.

3. Identify the money problems you want to solve

To find the solution, you first need to identify the problem. Whether you want to pay off debts or get a pay raise, write it down so you can tackle it.

4. Start forming new money habits and set clear goals

If you’ve never looked at your financial statements or have turned a blind eye to your spending, start tracking your expenses. If you’re already tracking your spending, then set a financial goal or budget and stick to it.

5. Read personal finance books to educate yourself

If you haven’t read ‘You Are a Badass at Making Money‘ by Jen Sincero, do yourself a favour and get on it TODAY! This book will push you forward in leaps and bounds when it comes to your money mindset. Taking a creative/ spiritual approach to how we think about money, it’s relatable, easy to understand, and entertaining. Highly recommend!

6. Stop comparing yourself to others and practice gratitude

When you start being grateful for the things you do have, you start focusing on the positives and being proud of your small and big wins. It also prevents you from taking shortcuts for instant gratification.

Make the choice to start changing your money mindset TODAY.

Regardless of where you’re from, what you grew up with or what you’ve experienced, you have the power to change your story. Late is better than never. You need to intentionally shift towards a healthier mindset around money, finance and wealth building.

One small action can lead to big rewards. Believe in yourself and allow your money mindset to flourish.

For more money mindset tips, tune into my ‘Make Your Break’ podcast where I dish out tips, inspiration and interviews to help you level up personally and professionally.

Here are a few to get you started!

For some reason, it seems like many creatives freak out when asked about their marketing and/or advertising strategy.

“There are too many marketing trends to keep up with!”

“I struggle with finding the right clients and getting their attention.”

“I am clueless about SEO.”

“Social media is so overwhelming…”

As a photographer, you probably spend most of your time finessing your craft and procrastinating on the business side of things. It’s natural that we want to focus on the areas we’re already good at, rather than tackling the areas we struggle with…“because there’s always tomorrow”. But you can’t grow without getting uncomfortable and challenging yourself to upskill your weaknesses.

That’s exactly why I decided to host my 3-day ‘Marketing with Purpose‘ workshop! At just $9 a ticket, we had over 1000+ attendees from all over the world join us. Live training aside, we also had a guest speaker each day, dedicated Q&A sessions, and a workbook to put the learnings into practice.

What did we cover in Marketing with Purpose?

marketing with purpose for creative entrepreneurs

Split across 3 days’ of two-hour training sessions, we broke it down using a simple 3-step approach.

Day 1: Reset for 100% goal clarity

We learnt about what’s hot or not in marketing and brainstormed ways to blow up our businesses in 2022.

Day 2: Build for irresistible omnipresence

On day 2, we dived into how we can create and implement a 3-dimensional marketing strategy. Focusing on how we can create one weekly piece of pillar content and split it across all our channels, this was a massive hit amongst the attendees!

Day 3: Scale for predictable profit

And on the final day of our workshop, we talked about how you can scale beyond your inner circle by attracting a new audience through paid advertising. However, it’s important to note that your sales funnel should be watertight if you don’t want to waste your time and money!

So, how did it all go? Was the workshop worth it?

I was beyond stoked to see our Facebook group blowing up with comments and ideas. From blogging to social media, everyone was brainstorming together and supporting one another. That’s the power of bringing a sea of creatives together – we’re all sharing the same journey and dedicated to levelling up our businesses. Community over competition, we grow as one.

Here was some of the amazing feedback from the community!

But let’s take a few steps back and focus on how YOU can level up to the best version of yourself!

You want your dream clients to find you and book you, without feeling like a try-hard salesperson. You want to have the freedom to create art that YOU love, without conforming to tacky trends.

Basically…you just want to do YOU.

how to become the best version of yourself

Forget about splashing out on fancy camera gear, toying around with filters, or spending thousands on a brand new website, for a second. Serving our clients wholeheartedly, how do we make sure we’re the best we can be?

1. Learn to listen 👂

You might be thinking “but I’m the expert, people should want to listen to me”. Here’s the thing – you might have photography expertise, but your clients are the experts on what they want for their wedding!

“Most people do not listen with the intent to understand. Most people listen with the intent to reply.” – Stephen R. Covey

Practise not taking unless you’re invited to share your opinion on the matter. The more you listen, the more you’ll open yourself up to new perspectives and opportunities by allowing others to talk.

Listen to what they are not saying and read between the lines.

2. Let go of your pride 😌

If you feel like you’re going nowhere with the back-and-forth debate, it’s likely that the other person doesn’t feel seen or heard. They’re struggling with a problem and you’ve yet to provide a solution.

Whether it’s negotiating their budget or discussing their timeline, realise that you don’t always have to “win” and let others enjoy the taste of victory.

Exercise your emotional intelligence by practising self-control and showing empathy. Learn to serve others and create a space where they can feel good and walk away feeling like they’ve won.

3. Be relentless 🔥

If you truly want to change your life, you need to stop playing it safe or playing the victim game. Get out of your comfort zone, take back control and take the risk on yourself. If you don’t show up for yourself and your biz, who will?

Spend time writing down your goals every day. Whether it’s one on self-development, financial or biz growth, your daily reminder will keep you accountable and on track.

That’s it from me today, folks!

If you’d like to continue your journey with me, make sure you tune into my podcast for creative entrepreneurs ‘Make Your Break‘. Here’s a recent episode on how you can elevate your marketing!


Dropping weekly episodes, you’ll find loads of helpful tips, practical advice, and inspiration to help you level up your business.

marketing with purpose workshop for photographers

After 2 years (where the hell has the time gone) of global pandemic madness, I know many of us were hit with more lows than highs. We’ve been waiting, wishing, and hoping for things to change.

“Surely this HAS to be the last lockdown?”

“Hopefully things will settle down soon…who knows”

“When’s life going to go back to like it was before?”

I’m sick of being stuck in this awkward limbo of uncertainty.

The reality is it’s already been 2 years and it isn’t going away any time soon. And the more time we spend waiting around, the more we’re letting our time and money go down the drain.

I know you’ve done everything you can to keep it together for yourself and your clients – re-organising your calendar like a game of Tetris as yet another postponement/cancellation comes through, staying on top of the latest Government restrictions, updating your COVID-19 policies…waiting to see a faint light at the end of this long, dark, treacherous tunnel.

But I’m tired of being patient. I’m tired of waiting.

It’s time for us to quit surviving and start THRIVING!!

jai new year

Spicy cough or not, your dreams and ambitions are worth fighting for. Regardless of where you’re at right now on your journey, I want you to go all in and make this your comeback year – no matter what the party poopers around you say.

Let’s stop being reactive to what’s happening right now and start being proactive about the end goal.

Ask yourself:

  • By the end of 2022, I want to be…
  • Where do I want to be in 5 years’ time?
  • In 10 years, I’ll be…
  • What actions do I need to take and what changes do I need to make?

Be honest with yourself, don’t pre-emptively sabotage yourself by playing it safe.

Once you’ve answered those questions, start making a plan. Write it all down and hold yourself accountable for ticking off each action and goal.

What you choose to do over the next 12 months will set the tone for the next 5/10/15 years of your life.

You hold all the power to change your life script. It starts and ends with you.

And I know that can feel hella daunting.

Sometimes the best decisions are also the scariest and hardest ones we have to make – more often than not, it’s a sign that you’re making the RIGHT decision. Because nothing great ever came from easy.

So don’t let the fear of making a “wrong” move paralyse you in place. Embrace the fear and turn it into fiery energy because it will push you to grow.



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Now that the holiday season’s festivities are over, January brings us the promise of a new year and a shiny new slate.

So many ideas to explore, so many possibilities to discover…we just need to stop daydreaming and actually make them happen!! Forget the dumpster fire that 2021 was because 2022 is YOUR year to take charge.

With that being said, I want to make sure you kick off the year right by busting a few tired, old myths about marketing. Times are changing and we need to make sure we’re staying on top of what’s in/ out to give ourselves the best chance of blowing up our businesses.


Let’s debunk and leave these 5 marketing myths behind in 2022!

2022 marketing myths

Myth 1️⃣: You have to have loads of money for fancy ads and campaigns.


Busted! There are plenty of ways you can promote your biz for free or with a small budget.

If you understand who your ideal clients are and what they’re looking for, you don’t need to have a million-dollar ad campaign. You can create a buzz with a little ingenuity and strategic targeting.


Myth 2️⃣: You need to dedicate lots of time brainstorming new marketing strategies.


Nope! The most time you’ll ever spend is when you’re in the beginning stages of creating a new strategy and having to experiment until you find something that sticks.

Once you’ve found a strategy that works for you, just repurpose it (with an optional freshening up) each time you’re ready to market again. Why fix something that ain’t broke?


Myth 3️⃣: You must be present on every single social media platform.


Nuh-uh! When you try to attract everyone, you’ll win no one. You should only devote your time and energy to the platforms that align most with your dream clients and marketing strategies.

Find out where your ideal clients are hanging out, which channels are getting you the best results and spend your time there! Spreading yourself too thin minimises your impact and will only lead to you burning out.


Myth 4️⃣: You have to create heaps of content all day, every day.


False. When it comes to content, you want to focus on quality rather than quantity. Would you rather read 1 epic novel or 10 shitty, pointless stories?

Spend your time creating valuable and impactful content. Once you have that single piece of content, you can then break it up and strategically share it across your different marketing platforms!


Myth 5️⃣ (and the biggest one): Your work isn’t good enough to market yet.


Ahhhhh. If only I had a dollar for every time someone’s said this to me. This “not being good enough” self-limiting belief plagues almost every creative. We’re artists and we want to be proud of what we share with the world, I get it.

But the truth is, opting for perfectionism will inevitably lead to procrastination. The longer you put off promoting yourself, the longer it will take for you to reap the rewards of your hard work. If not now, then when?!

You ARE good enough – and it’s only upwards from here! You are already better than you were yesterday. Believe in yourself, even when it feels like no one else does.

Remember, betting on yourself is never a gamble. Stop standing in the way of your own potential. You’ve got this!


Explore Marketing with Purpose with me


If you are feeling pumped and ready to market the hell outta yourself so you can fill your books and hit those big goals, I’d love for you to join me at my upcoming live workshop ‘Marketing with Purpose’.

marketing with purpose workshop for photographers


Melbourne (GMT+11) 10AM – 26, 27 & 28th January

Los Angeles (GMT-7) 3PM – 25, 26 & 27th January

Each day will run for approximately 90 minutes. And 24-hour replays will be available for you to catch up on.


The workshop will be hosted live via our private Facebook group. You can level up with us while staying in your PJs!


The Marketing with Purpose workshop is designed for photographers and videographers across all niches. We’ll also have some killer guest speakers including Asha Bailey!


Marketing Confidence + Bullet-Proof Sales Funnel + Abundant Mindset = Exponential Growth




3 days. 3 steps. $9. Even simpler.


Make 2022 the year you purposefully focus on making the biggest impact and aligning yourself with what brings you the most happiness.🏴‍☠️❤️🥂

marketing myths to debunk in 2022
productivity tips

Being ‘busy’ is over celebrated and glorified in our culture because we think busyness equates to hard work. And as creative entrepreneurs, it already seems like there’s never enough hours in a day. From keeping up with client communications to social media upkeep, our to-do lists get longer by the day. But being mindlessly busy will inevitably cause you to burn out instead of the success you long for.

It’s time to change your mindset.


1. Rather than wasting time on low-value tasks, shift your focus to areas where you can create the biggest impact. 

You don’t have to do EVERYTHING yourself. Let go of the old, comfortable way you do things and find new ways to simplify and streamline your processes. The first step to becoming more productive is by determining which tasks are low-value versus high-value, as well as their dollar value.


For example:

Low-value task:

Designing a wedding album that’s already been paid for


High-value task:

Selling more albums by promoting them via Instagram and your website


Assigning a dollar value: If your VA can design your client’s wedding album in an hour and you pay them $40 per hour, then that task is only worth $40.

You can also use the impact/ effort matrix to help you prioritise your tasks.




For example:

High impact + Low effort = Tasks that you can do now (e.g. setting up an ad campaign)

High impact + High effort = Schedule these tasks (e.g. creating a new lead magnet)

Low impact + Low effort = Tasks to fill your spare time (e.g. scheduling a few social media posts)

Low impact + High effort = Eliminate these tasks (e.g.  cold-calling prospective clients)

Here’s a practical challenge for you:

  1. Write down a list of daily tasks you do within your business.
  2. Assign a dollar value to each task.
  3. Separate the high-value tasks from the low-value tasks.
  4. Prioritise the impactful tasks and outsource the low-value tasks accordingly.

2. Work smarter and harder for short amounts of time to skip the risk of burnout. 


Don’t be ‘busy’ or force yourself to work a 9-5 day just for the sake of it. Before you start each day, write down a list of tasks that need to be completed. Whether it takes you 2 hours or 6 hours to complete the list, once you’re finished, you’re FINISHED for the day. Go for a walk and enjoy some fresh air, or do something that makes you feel happy.

how to become more productive

The road to becoming more productive also begins with having a clear end goal. By spending a little bit of time beforehand to figure out the fastest route to your destination, it’ll save you a huge amount of time over the whole journey. And with the time you do have, focus on making an IMPACT!


Use the 80/20 rule:


80% of your output (reward) comes from 20% of your input (effort).

By using the 80/20 rule, you can move the needle quicker and closer to your end goal. The same concept also applies to your clients – 20% of your clients (dream clients) will make up 80% of your income. They’re the ones that don’t waste your time, spend more and spread the word about your business. Start saying no to the 80% of clients who are detracting your time and energy from the 20% dream clients.


Bonus tip: Spend 5 minutes writing down your goals every day. 

Don’t wait for New Year’s to write down your goals! Your goals are what keep you accountable to your dreams, so you stay on track and make consistent focus. Take 5 minutes each day to write down your goals, think about the moves you need to make, and reflect on how you’re going.

This easy hack will give you clarity and remind you of what your mission is every day. Motivating you and adding momentum, you’ll stop doing the things that distract you from your goals and will focus on taking goal-oriented action instead.

Too busy to write personalised email responses to every enquiry that lands in your inbox?

jai long co email templates for photographers

Start setting up canned responses so you can reply on the go!

Streamlining your workflow, check out our ‘done for you’ email templates for wedding photographers:

Can you believe it’s been over two years since I started my ‘Make Your Break’ podcast?! The first-ever episode was released on the 6th of September, 2019 and since then I’ve recorded a total of 137 episodes! It’s been a wild ride and I wouldn’t change it for the world. Reflecting on the original blog I wrote back in the day, detailing my WHY for launching Make Your Break, it’s crazy to think how far we’ve come.

I realised that if I wanted to wholeheartedly commit to helping my community push their businesses to new heights, I had to step out of my comfort zone and push myself to grow. As an introvert, the thought of recording a conversation and potentially making a mistake “on-air” is always slightly terrifying. With listeners tuning in from all over the world, you’re opening yourself up to everyone’s opinions, inviting both positive and negative reviews. And let’s face it, unless it’s constructive criticism, the latter always hurts. But I’m incredibly grateful for all the kindness from the community so far – 169 5-star reviews!🥰

make your break podcast reviews

Thanks to Anja Kathryn Photography for this most recent review:

“Where do I even begin?? I mean, wow! Jai really puts in all of his effort in literally everything he does and the podcast is nothing short of that. I binge every episode as soon as they come out. I have learned so much about business but he’s also taught me a lot about life in general and different ways of thinking, and I’m so grateful for that. This podcast is such a huge value to me and my business; I don’t know what I would do with it!”


Why YOU should tune into the Make Your Break podcast


While most people will identify me as a business coach within the wedding photography space, the Make Your Break podcast is for ALL creative entrepreneurs. It doesn’t matter if you’re a wedding photographer, videographer, florist or designer, all creatives at any stage of business will learn something from each episode. Full of business tips, creative inspiration, mindset training, and interviews with industry leaders, my goal is to help you level up your business and hit your goals.

Taking you backstage, we chat about anything and everything including:

  • How to start a new company
  • Attracting your dream clients
  • Breaking limiting beliefs
  • Building confidence & staying motivated
  • Marketing & advertising
  • Productivity & workflow
  • Scaling to 6 or 7 figures
  • Setting goals & seizing opportunities

…and so much more! I never have a script prepared so I just go with the flow and let inspiration reign.



Here’s a peek at some of my all-time favourite podcast episodes so far


It’s amazing to have the privilege of interviewing some of the biggest names in our space including the likes of Jonas Peterson, Chuy Photo, Stephanie Fisher, Fer Juaristi, Kaley from Kansas, and the list goes on. I am so appreciative of everyone taking time out of their day to come onto the podcast and share their best insights.

Please know that I’m using the term “favourite” very loosely here because to be honest, each and every episode has a special place in my heart.


Attracting high-end clients with celebrity wedding photographer: Jose Villa



The 10 rules of scaling a 7-figure lifestyle business with wealth coach: Jackson Millan




What it takes to become a successful entrepreneur with the founder of Together Journal: Greta Kenyon



Getting your finances in order with award-winning wedding photographer: Dan O’Day



Finding more opportunities on social media with wedding photographer & educator: Joy Zamora



Hard work meets luck with wedding photographer & educator: India Earl



Thank you for joining me on the Make Your Break journey 🧡


Before setting up a “proper” recording studio in our new HQs, I was recording the podcast in my bedroom, the Noskin warehouse, and even in my car! It’s been all over the place but I’ve never failed to show up because progress is always better than perfect. And like I said 2 years ago, I know that the show will only get better.

make your break podcast episode

Here’s the truth – I’m passionate about levelling up as much as you are. That’s why I’m always hustling to get the industry experts to guest star on Make Your Break because I myself have so much to learn! Every new person you meet will teach you something new – you don’t know what you don’t know, right? With every episode that gets recorded, I note down what to fix or improve. I’m just thankful for the opportunity to facilitate a platform where we can all grow together!

So, big love for allowing me to learn and grow alongside you. It’s been a real honour and I can’t wait to do another Make Your Break throwback in a couple of years to come.

Tune into Make Your Break:

Say hi to me on IG:


With Apple’s iOS 14 update, you may have noticed a change in performance across your Facebook ads due to conversion tools like the Facebook pixel being directly impacted. More specifically, Apple now requires all apps that use “tracking” outside the platform to show a prompt that requests permission from its users. This will apply to anyone who uses the Facebook app on an iOS device with the iOS 14 update.


facebook ads ios 14 update prompt

Image: Insense

Considering Europe’s GDPR update back in 2018, it’s no surprise that data privacy measures are becoming more prevalent than ever – and it should be! This gives consumers more control over the data they willing and/or unwillingly share with advertisers and publishers. This power shift will greatly impact any and all small businesses that rely heavily on social media advertising.

If your audience opts out of tracking on their iOS 14 devices, it will have a negative effect on the targeting, reporting and optimisation of your Facebook advertising campaign’s conversion events. Essentially, the key areas that can make or break the success of your paid advertising campaigns.


How will the iOS 14 update affect your Facebook ads?


The iOS 14 update will have a domino effect, starting from inaccurate reporting on conversions through to ineffective remarketing campaigns.

  • If Facebook can’t track your audience’s behaviour outside of the platform, it will severely impact how your pixel performs.
  • You won’t be able to personalise Facebook ads to a specific audience, such as retargeting and lookalike audiences, reducing your specific targeting options.
  • With inaccurate reporting and fewer targeting options, you’ll be risking poor ad copy and wasted ad spend.

In a nutshell, Facebook ads will start costing you more to get a qualified lead or new client.


4 steps to navigate the iOS 14 update and adapt your Facebook ads accordingly


facebook ad ios 14 update tips


1. Verify your domain with your Facebook Ads account.

Let Facebook know that you’re a legitimate business! You can verify your domain with your Facebook Business Manager – follow these steps.

2. Run your ads to a wider audience to help your FB pixel find the right people.

As more people opt out of tracking, you’ll need to broaden your ad targeting so your Facebook pixel has a better chance of aggregating more information on your audience. You can also test targeting expansion to let Facebook reach a broader group of people than you defined in your original detailed targeting selections.

3. Let your ads run for longer to measure results.

With the iOS 14 update, you’ll experience delayed reporting, up to 3 days. To maximise the efficiency and effectiveness of your campaigns, you’ll need to let your ads run for a longer timeframe. If you cut it short, you risk limiting the learning that you and Facebook can gather from the data collected.

4. Track and measure your own results!

Make sure you have a sales page that’s only dedicated to your Facebook ad/s. This way, you can use Google Analytics to track the traffic that’s coming through from your ads and measure it against your Facebook ad spend. For example, if you had 1000 people visit your sales page and you spent a total of $5000 on advertising, you’ll know the conversion was $1 per click.

Bonus tips:

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🧡 New challenges present new learning opportunities.

Don’t let increasing advertising prices deter you from showing off your magic! New challenges present new learning opportunities. Get creative with how you can make the extra money to recoup the expenses. 
For example, you could run an ad and sell an engagement shoot for $200, to cover the cost of advertising and then upsell them a full wedding package.
So if it costs $200 to get a new client, that money is now covered and you’ll make all of it back (and more) via the higher ticket service you sell.

🧡 Make sure your sales funnel is leak-proof!

It’s crucial that you assess your current sales funnel and your success at converting leads. If it’s not working well, you’ll need to take a step back to fix any holes before you proceed with advertising. Analyse and strengthen the weakest links in your funnel before you launch any ad campaigns.

🧡 Convert every lead with confidence.

If your Facebook ad successfully leads them to visit your website and send an enquiry, YAY! But that doesn’t mean you’re automatically entitled to their booking. You’ll now have to focus on responding efficiently and preparing for your first meeting – first impressions count!

Discover how you can create the best client experience.


Final 2021 enrolments for the Six-Figure Business Map opens up on 22nd November!


Doors open from 22-28 November. All details will be updated here.

If you’ve bought your ticket to the Wedding Photography Summit, you’ll also be able to sneak peek at what’s exactly inside the Business Map by logging into your summit portal.

See you soon!


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As the saying goes, “you are only as good as the company you keep”, it’s incredibly important to be selective with who you spend your time with. As a photographer and business owner, your time and energy are invaluable resources. You shouldn’t be wasting time with people who are not contributing to your growth! As you find your bearings and double down on your goals, know that it’s okay to outgrow people. Be brave enough to let go of those who are weighing you down.

While everyone has their unique way of tackling life and business, you also don’t have to do it alone. Yes, you’ll always have your family and friends’ unconditional support, but you also need people who understand the “business” aspect. Your best friend might not understand why Instagram’s ever-changing algorithm is disrupting your content strategy or why you’re so obsessed with rebranding. However, you can create future opportunities and accelerate your success by surrounding yourself with the right people!

Plus, did you know that the most successful people want others to succeed? They’re not intimidated by your success or upcoming talents because it challenges them to work harder – and it elevates the community and industry as a whole.

Meet the 5 different types of people you need to grow your business

5 people you need to grow business

Let’s put it this way…you should be seeking out motivated people – not people who need to be motivated. You want to get into a room with like-minded goal-getters and those who are already successful. They’re the ones who will match your energy, or even better, push you to reach unprecedented heights across your business.

1. The Co-Achiever

This is someone who shares your values and has similar goals – essentially, your business BFF! Perhaps they started their business the same time you did or they’re at a similar stage of growth. When you’re on a similar journey, it’s easier to brainstorm pain points and goals.

2. The Cheerleader

As solo business owners, we often celebrate wins and struggle through losses alone. You want a person who is always ready to hype and re-energise you! Whether this is your mum, your partner, your best friend or a community peer, they’re your biggest cheer squad.

3. The Mentor

Whether this is a professional coach or simply someone you look up to who has found their own success, you need a mentor to guide you on what to do and what common mistakes to avoid. They’ve been there and done that which means you can always benefit from their experience.

4. The Accountability Buddy

This is the person who holds you responsible for your goals and checks on your progress. For example, inside the Six-Figure Business Map community, many of the sailors rely on accountability to keep them on track and focused on their goals. There’s always going to be highs and lows but no matter what, you need to keep progressing forward.

5. The Divergent

The ‘divergent’ is someone who isn’t afraid to challenge your thinking and provide honest feedback. They’re the ones who will think outside of your self-created “box” and push you to dig deeper with unbiased suggestions. Never let yourself get complacent or settle – a fresh perspective is always powerful!

Reciprocate their efforts – don’t be a ‘taker’

There are givers, takers, and matchers. Always working towards their personal gain, takers put their own interests ahead of others’ needs. Matchers balance their giving and taking. Givers are focused on others and tend to provide value to others with no strings attached.

be a giver not a taker

In the long run, givers are usually the ones who succeed because their generous nature often results in quality relationships. However, it’s important to note that you don’t want to be constantly dropping everything to help others all the time. You’ll end up falling behind in your own work and sacrificing your own success. Rather, you can opt to be smart and strategic with your giving, so other matchers and takers don’t take advantage of you.

Remember: it’s a two-way relationship. Show up for the people in your corner as much as you expect of them!

For more biz and life tips, make sure you’re following my Instagram and tune into my ‘Make Your Break’ podcast for creative entrepreneurs. ❤️

5 people you need in your corner

With over 400 million people using Pinterest every month, it’s a platform for people to seek inspiration and serve creative content. However, due to the dominance of Facebook and Instagram, Pinterest is a marketing tool that’s often neglected by wedding photographers.

As business owners, we all know how social media is considered a must-have for promoting your products and services. It’s an avenue where you can connect with your audience on a deeper, more meaningful and “human” level. From fun reels to behind-the-scenes sneak peeks, most of us have our Instagram game covered. Due to the “needy” nature of Instagram relying on your constant activity to stay present, and their constant algorithm updates, it’s important not to put all your eggs in one basket! Why? If you decide to take a sabbatical from the ‘gram or the algorithm changes, you run the risk of losing all traction.

What does this mean for you and your business? It means you need to diversify your business and marketing strategies, ensuring you’re investing your time and energy wisely. Remember: 80% of your results often come from 20% of your efforts. So, know where to channel that 20% to create maximum impact.

Let’s discover how you can use Pinterest for your photography business!

Most people think Pinterest is just another social media platform but it’s more than that. Pinterest is also a search engine, catering to those that are searching for inspiration and ideas. And it’s not just for fashion, crafting or home renovation ideas either! A Pinterest study revealed that more than 40 million people use it to plan their weddings, proving just how powerful this underutilised platform can be for photography businesses. Think about it…even if you managed to only attract 1% of that 40 million wedding planning audience, wouldn’t that be a huge benefit for your business?!

Podcast: How to turn Pinterest into a traffic machine with Carolina Guzik

carolina guzik pinterest

Image: Carolina Guzik Photography

I have to admit that I’m far from a Pinterest expert – I’m guilty of not using it enough myself! That’s why I’m so glad that I crossed paths with Carolina Guzik through Clubhouse back in the day. With over 10 years of experience, Carolina is a wedding and lifestyle photographer based in Miami, Florida. She also hosts a podcast called ‘The Tog Republic‘, sharing her marketing tips and strategies for photographers. Carolina is also deeply passionate about all things Pinterest, with her very own self-paced Pinterest course ‘The Art of Pinning‘ for wedding and lifestyle photographers.

In this podcast episode, Carolina walks us through some of her biggest Pinterest tips for wedding photographers. It’s a must-listen!

Carolina’s top 5 Pinterest tips for wedding photographers

Before we get stuck into it, I just want to emphasise that marketing isn’t about using the same cookie-cutter strategies over and over again! Don’t add to the “noise” with constant selling – you need to get creative with it and make it fun. Explore how things work and make them work for you. Find new opportunities that other people overlook and use them to your advantage. Be impactful, not busy. Even if you don’t see immediate results, be resilient and maintain consistency. Don’t give up. There are so many ways you can show up with intention, create real connections and give value to your audience!

Tip #1: Use a Pinterest Business account

Carolina strongly recommends that every wedding photographer should have a Pinterest Business account, not just a personal account. With a business account, you can run Pinterest ads to grow your audience, increase website traffic and drive conversions. More importantly, you’ll be able to track your analytics and use the data to figure out what works and what doesn’t.

Tip #2: Optimise your account name

Don’t just put your business name! Think of Pinterest as a search engine – you’ll want to include relevant keywords that will help you attract more search traffic. For example, rather than having “Free the Bird” as your account name, you can update it to say “Free the Bird – Melbourne Wedding Photography”.

Tip #3: Optimise your Pinterest bio

If you want to maximise your chances of being found and attracting followers, you need to have the right search phrases in your Pinterest bio. But don’t just mindlessly throw in keywords without rhyme or reason, otherwise, it will sound spammy! Carolina recommends writing as though you’re talking to a friend and naturally weaving in the keywords where relevant.

You’ll also want to include a link to your website. It’s much better to link to your website rather than your Instagram because you have full control over your website’s client experience. On the other hand, if you send traffic to your Instagram, your potential clients will have other distractions fighting for their attention.

Tip #4: Create specific Pinterest boards based on your ideal audience

Be intentional when creating your Pinterest boards. Think about your dream clients and what they might be using Pinterest to search for. Are they looking for wedding venue ideas? Are they seeking inspiration for new wedding styles and trends? Solve their problems by providing solutions that match their search intent.

Carolina mentioned that you can niche down as much as you like! For example, if you have a favourite venue that you love shooting at, you can create a Pinterest board dedicated to it and title it ‘Venue Name Wedding Photography’. That way, if a potential client is searching for more photos of a venue they’re interested in, it increases the chances of your Pinterest board prompting them to visit your website.

Don’t forget to give your Pinterest boards good titles and descriptions with keywords to maximise your exposure!

Tip #5: Optimise your Pinterest images for search indexing

If you want your Pinterest images to be indexed, you’ll need to write appropriate image titles and descriptions. Similar to working on your website’s SEO to rank in Google’s search results, you can optimise your pins to rank in Pinterest’s search by adding helpful descriptions that include relevant keywords. You can also update the image alt-text.

Once you’ve done that, make sure you also link each photo to a specific page on your website. Don’t make the mistake of linking all your pins to your homepage – you want to lead visitors to helpful content that’s relevant to their original search intent. For example, if you have a venue-specific Pinterest board, you can link the image/s to a gallery or blog on your website that features the venue.

pinterest course the tog republic

Image: The Tog Republic

Carolina’s bonus social media tips & thoughts…

  • Pinterest ads – Unlike Facebook and Instagram ads, your post doesn’t disappear when you stop allocating the budget. Once your Pinterest ad stops, other users can still use your ad image as a pin, carrying on the momentum!
  • Evergreen strategy – Form a strategy and be consistent with it. Not all content will stick but stick with it! Unlike Instagram, your pins and boards don’t date. You could pin 1-2 images a day and as long as they’re aligned with your strategy, they can deliver qualified traffic to your website forever.  They’re evergreen! Carolina had pins that successfully took off a year or two after they were posted, so don’t be disappointed if you don’t see immediate results.
  • Choosing the right social media platform – Take the time to understand who your ideal clients are and whether they’re part of the audience that each platform attracts. You can then nurture the audience accordingly, empowering their purchase and/or decision-making process. For example, Pinterest has been shown to attract highly-educated people who are actively looking for inspiration or preparing for a purchase. They’ve also seen a spike in usage among Gen Z and millennials in recent years. On the other hand, Facebook has seen an influx of boomers and older demographics with more money to spend.
  • Always network – Share the love around! For example, every week you can share an Instagram story or post that shout-outs another local vendor. You can even go the extra mile and create a blog specifically about them. This can create the boomerang effect, knowing that your kindness will be returned in some way or another.

Looking for more marketing inspo? Check out Stephanie Fisher’s 5 marketing tips for photographers!

Let’s show Carolina some ❤️

Check out:

Instagram @carolina_guzik

Podcast The Tog Republic

Pinterest course The Art of Pinning


If you haven’t already heard, we’re launching the WPS Awards ahead of this year’s Wedding Photography Summit! For years, this has been a huge unrealistic goal of mine and I can’t believe it’s finally happening.

When I first started photography, I remember feeling like most of the awards were geared towards ‘old school’ photography…and judged by old school photographers! The available awards didn’t represent our modern community. As time goes on, trends, art, and culture change and photography awards should reflect that.

While we were planning the Wedding Photography Summit, and true to my reckless “let’s f*cking do this” nature, I decided to stop procrastinating and make the awards happen. Thanks to my team, we hustled around the clock and launched the WPS Awards in only FOUR WEEKS. It’s blowing my mind how much we’ve accomplished in such a crazy-short timeframe.

wps awards

That meant creating a NEW website, client experience, branding, contracts, payment gateways, systems, judges, etc…all in 4 weeks. I truly believe that business needs to be an adventure – even if the awards are a massive flop. Keeping us uncomfortable as we risk it all. Dream big, take action and make the impossible possible, right?

We know there are photography awards of all shapes, sizes, prestige, and experience levels out there. But just like your ever-evolving creative vision and style, we wanted to start afresh and create space for artists who create from the heart.

Entries are now open! Submissions close at 11.59pm 19th November 2021.

Open to wedding and elopement photographers of all experience levels, we’d love to celebrate you and your heartfelt craft! Recognising rising talents and modern creatives, this is an opportunity for you to share your best work and/or vote for your peers.

Uniting over passion and innovation, our overarching goal is to empower community over competition. Keeping it authentic and free of cliches.

You can submit as many photos as you like across 8 exciting categories:

  • Emotive
  • Elopement
  • Light
  • Untamed
  • Location
  • GIF
  • Film
  • Creative

Learn more about the WPS Awards and submit your entry today!✨

Meet the WPS Awards judging panel

There will be four award-winning photographers reviewing your submissions. We have chosen them based on their dedication to levelling up their craft and our community.


Voting will also be open to the public so you can show your favourite wedding or elopement photographers some love too!

Get to know the judges

WPS Awards winners & prizes

We will shortlist 10 entrants from each category and officially determine a category winner.

The overall WPS Awards winner will be named the ‘Wedding Photographer of the Year 2021’.

Winners will be announced at our Wedding Photography Summit awards night

The Wedding Photography Summit will be taking place over 2 high-vibe days, 22-23 November (PST). Attracting thousands from across the globe, we’ll have 10 industry-leading speakers sharing their insights and wisdom! Make sure you check out the lineup and save your spot!

Purchase your WPS ticket

To wrap up the epic experience, the awards night will take place from 5pm on 23rd November (PST). India Earl will be announcing the winners, so you’ll want to be at the summit! From just $7 for general admission, it’s the most affordable, value-packed investment you’ll ever make.

All shortlisted entrants and winners will receive a digital media pack to feature across their website and socials. Winners will also receive a WPS Awards trophy – delivered to you for free.

The overall winner will also get an exclusive feature in Hello May! Hello May is one of Australia’s biggest wedding publications.

All profits from the 2021 WPS Awards will be donated to charities against domestic violence

I think it’s incredibly important to support not just our industry but also the wider community. Through lockdowns and restrictions, the world around us is changing. Even if it’s behind closed doors, many are quietly hurting and struggling to see the light.

Worsening already heartbreaking situations, domestic violence has soared since the pandemic. This is why we’re donating all profits from the WPS Awards to Berry Street and Futures without Violence, charities that fight domestic violence and spread awareness.

I hope that in some small way, the love and respect we have for one another can extend beyond our creative community. If you are a victim of family/domestic violence, please speak up and seek help. Don’t suffer in silence.

You are worthy, you are loved.❤️ 

Submit your images to the WPS Awards today! Good luck!


WPS Awards

Are you ready to AWAKEN YOUR INNER FIRE? Join us at the Wedding Photography Summit!

Over two high-vibe days from 22nd to 23rd November, you can get into a room with 10 of our industry’s best icons and connect with like-minded creatives across the globe. With general admission tickets starting from just $7 USD, this is your chance to invest in yourself, your biz,  your clients, and your FUTURE.

For less than a fancy deli sandwich, you can experience two days’ worth of workshops, level up your game, and tackle your most-dreaded pain points! It’s going to be f*cking EPIC!

What are you waiting for?

Purchase a ticket and save your spot now!🤩

Meet our 10 trailblazing speakers

And here are just some of the topics we’ll be covering this Wedding Photography Summit…

  • Mastering the art of storytelling
  • Elevating your client experience
  • Building your personal brand on social media
  • The power of editing and nailing your style
  • Creating multiple lanes of income
  • How to create an emotionally driven website
  • Finding your creative voice
  • The 101 on organising styled shoots
  • How to enhance the depth and meaning in our images

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Choose your summit experience from just $7 USD

At this summit, we’ll be offering three different tickets so you can personalise your experience!

Here’s a quick breakdown…

General admission – $7 USD

  • LIVE access
  • 24-hour replay only
  • Summit workbook

VIP Experience – $47 USD

  • LIVE access
  • 12-month replays with Spanish & English subtitles
  • Summit workbook

Front Row Seats – $297 USD

*Strictly limited to 300 spots*

  • LIVE access
  • Plus + LIVE behind-the-scenes footage
  • ++ Hang out with Jai in real-time over zoom
  • +++ Exclusive afterparty invite
  • 12-month replays with Spanish & English subtitles
  • Summit workbook

Summit-Exclusive Bonus: Hardcover WPS Journal

The first 1000 people to sign up for the Wedding Photography Summit will receive an exclusive hardcover WPS journal for FREE! This sweet bonus will be delivered straight to your door, no matter where in the world you are.

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Valued at $65USD, our team has worked hard to custom design this journal just for our summit community. That means it’s not just some boring, blank-lined journal either. We’ve filled it with heaps of pages for:

  • Daily journalling
  • Monthly goal setting
  • Habit tracking
  • Motivational tips
  • To-do lists & ideas

Don’t miss out – purchase your ticket today!

Announcing the WPS Awards 2021 🏆📸

Celebrating Art from the Heart 

I’m so excited that I can finally share this HUGE announcement with our awesome community!!!

Brought to you by the Wedding Photography Summit, the WPS Awards recognises rising talents and modern creatives.

Learn more about the WPS Awards. 

A must-enter for any wedding photographer, this is an opportunity for you to share your best work and/or nominate your peers.

Open to all experience levels – available categories:

  1. Emotive
  2. Elopement
  3. Light
  4. Untamed
  5. Location
  6. GIF
  7. Film
  8. Creative

Entries will open from 25th October 2021, closing on 19th November 2021 (PST).

Your judging panel: India Earl, Fer Juaristi, Cara Mia, and me (Jai Long)!

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Voting will also be open to the community so you can show your favourite wedding photographers some love too!

Winners will be announced LIVE by India Earl on the 23rd of November, with an awards night to officially conclude our Wedding Photography Summit. 

All profits from the WPS Awards will be donated to charity. ❤️

I think it’s incredibly important to support not just our industry but also the wider community. While many of us have experienced our fair share of tough times, 2020/2021 haven’t been the kindest of years.

Through lockdowns and restrictions, the world around us is changing, and though it may be behind closed doors, many are quietly hurting and struggling to see the light at the end of the tunnel. Worsening already heartbreaking situations, with new victims requesting support, domestic violence reports have soared since the pandemic.

This is why we’re donating all profits from the WPS Awards towards charities against domestic violence. To spread awareness and do what we can to support those who are suffering.

Submit your photo/s now!


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If you’re ready to wrap up 2021 with a bang and step into 2022 with a renewed mindset, you’ll be glad to hear that…the Wedding Photography Summit is back! Just under 2 months away, we’ll be hosting the next summit from 22-23 November, and we’ve got yet another all-star lineup for you – make sure you sign up to our waitlist to get the bonuses before everyone else!

✨Sign up to the waitlist and be first in line✨

For those who have yet to attend our summit, here’s a quick rundown. Bringing the community together over two days, The Wedding Photography Summit (WPS) is a bi-annual virtual summit with presentations from industry leaders. Our first-ever summit in 2020 attracted over 8000 attendees from all over the world…how mindblowing is that?!

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It’s all about “real talk” and empowering you to take your business further than ever before. This is your chance to learn from, and be inspired by, trailblazers who’ve built their businesses from the ground up, wholeheartedly serving their clients and community. Our last summit in May saw the likes of the marketing phenomenon Gary Vee, celebrity wedding photographer Jose Villa, and the ever-popular Dan O’Day.

Some of the game-changing topics we’ve covered included: Personal Branding, Booking Your Ideal Clients, Social Media, Building a Great Website, Advertising, just to name a few. No stone is left unturned!

Why YOU need to join us for November’s Wedding Photography Summit

Despite its namesake, the summit isn’t just for wedding photographers. It’s been created to serve photographers and videographers across all niches, as well as visual creatives. Challenging your mindset, and equipping you with strategic know-how, you can get into a room with the best of the best.

Now more than ever, considering the current global climate of uncertainty, many of us have been forced into survival mode.

Stop reacting, start proacting!

Forget surviving, we want you to THRIVE. Regardless of what’s happening right now, or how saturated the photography industry may seem, YOU can focus on levelling up yourself and your business. Focus on your unrealistic goals and dreams, and start saying ‘yes’ to getting out of your comfort zone to turn the unrealistic into your reality.

As a creative entrepreneur, it’s important to remember that you don’t have to journey alone either. Our community revolves around love and preserving meaningful moments…So, why can’t we start banding and rising together as one? There will always be enough business and customers to go around. You are your only competition – no one else is. No one can replicate your authenticity, nor can they steal your inner mojo.  Let your fire burn brighter than ever before.

Meet Camden and Hailey from CRTVDUO

The husband-and-wife team behind CRTVDUO, Camden and Hailey are wedding photographers from Charlotte, North California. Having attended the previous two Wedding Photography Summits, they’ve been kind enough to share a little of their story, as well as their summit experience.

Prior to launching their own business, Camden and Hailey were working as content creators for another business, managing their videography, photography, and graphic design. Having been in the creative world for a long time, they had the chance to shoot two weddings and fell in love with the experience.

While on their honeymoon in February 2020, Camden and Hailey talked about their future and goals, as all newlyweds do. Everything kept pointing back to wedding photography. Biting the bullet, they decided to “go for it”, quitting their jobs upon return.

Unfortunately, COVID-19 hit within a week and everything shut down. Living off their savings, they persevered by taking the time to dive into where they wanted their new business to go. With no idea of where to start or how to make it all happen, they started designing their brand and building out their website.

Playing the comparison game

Falling into the comparison trap, they battled with their lack of confidence, feeling like “we’re not good enough” – no doubt a pain point for many new photographers! 

But as luck would have it, Hailey chanced upon one of our Wedding Photography Summit Instagram posts and signed up. Hailey and Camden were so inspired after hearing from India Earl, Kaley from Kansas, and myself (haha), they decided to put 110% into moving their business forward. Backed by the amazing support they experienced within the WPS community, they started believing in themselves more.

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Image Credit: CRTVDUO

Having loved the first summit, they purchased VIP tickets for the May 2021 summit to enjoy 12 months of replays. Inspired by Asha Bailey to “be yourself”, they gained even more newfound confidence and creativity which showed in their work and to their clients.

While they are still learning and growing, they reflected on how every WPS summit pushes them to “make a big jump”. Rather than just talking about things, they figure it out and “just do it”. For an extra motivational boost, they often go back and watch the replays to feel inspired all over again.

“We’re just so excited and super thankful honestly for the photography summit for letting us kind of take our business, our dream into almost a reality…Best thing that’s ever happened honestly.”

Follow @CRTDUO on Instagram and show them some love!

Are you ready to change YOUR story?

The story you tell yourself, the internal monologue, has a huge impact on your success. Mindset is one of the biggest reasons behind your wins and fails. If you’re ready to unlock your fullest potential, you need to break free from limiting beliefs. Where you are today is exactly because of the decisions you’ve made in the past.

When faced with new challenges, start asking yourself “Would my future self thank me for this decision?” and take action.

The Wedding Photography Summit is your perfect opportunity to:

  • gain insights from the industry’s most respected movers and shakes
  • learn new strategies for levelling up your business
  • liberate your mindset
  • remind yourself of your ‘why’
  • connect with like-minded, ambitious creatives

Write a new story, change your future. Step into the best version of yourself.

Do it for you, do it for your family, do it for your clients.

🎉Wedding Photography Summit – 22-23 November 2021.

Starting on 22nd November, 10am PST timezone.

Tickets are on sale soon.

👉Sign up to the waitlist today! 

CRTVDUO Camden and Hailey

The key to converting leads and earning customer loyalty is by delivering a bang-on client experience from the get-go. This starts from your response to their initial enquiry right through to sending off their final gallery. If they’ve gotten in touch with you, you know that they’ve stalked your website and checked out your portfolio – your work has resonated with them. BUT that doesn’t mean that you’re entitled to their booking…

You now have to get your foot in the door by:

  • Responding with personality and in an efficient timeframe
  • Showing genuine enthusiasm and care about their wedding day
  • Preparing for your first meeting

Don’t start the discussion by asking what their budget is – that’s the quickest way to kill a sale! How can you provide the right solution if you don’t even know what they want? Without a clear understanding of their pain points, you won’t be able to provide an effective solution or convince them to book you as their wedding photographer.

Your clients should feel like they’re your number one priority, not just another transaction. Rather than talking their ear off about your albums or talking about your photography style, focus on delivering value.

Here are the 3 main decision-making factors that your clients will consider

  1. Perceived value – This is your client’s own perception of your service’s ability to satisfy their needs and wants, and its associated monetary costs, especially in comparison with a competitor’s offering. To influence this, you need to clearly identify your service’s unique selling points, benefits and create desirability.
  2. Tangible differentiators – This revolves around visible, quantifiable factors that differentiate you from your competitors. For example, this might be the number of photos that come with your packages, the speed of your gallery turnaround times, the array of choices for album designs, etc.
  3. Emotional connection (intangible differentiators) – Intangible differentiations centre around your personality and reputation. People buy with their emotions and subconscious motivations. From creating FOMO to making them feel excited, you want to show up and make them feel seen and heard by letting them talk about their goals and listening to their ‘problems’.

The fact is people like to spend and they value different things for different needs and situations. The keyword is VALUE. Remember: Your customer is the hero of the story so always spin your narrative from their point of view. The more value your prospective clients can sense about your offering, the lesser it is for money to be the primary concern.

And if you get it right, their question will change from “Can we afford this?” to “Can we afford to pass up on this opportunity?”

TIP: Your personality and energy is something that no one else can copy! Always show up as yourself and connect with your clients on a meaningful, ‘human’ level.

You don’t have to wait until your initial client meeting to start showing value. You can start building rapport and gaining their trust from your email response to their first enquiry! Not sure how? Our in-house copywriting coach, Melinda Harcourt, has written 17+ high-converting email templates to guide you! These cover everything from initial responses to enquiry follow-ups and post-wedding updates!

Shop the email templates now.

Preparing for your initial client meeting

Inside the Six-Figure Business Map, I have an entire module dedicated to creating the best client experience! In one of the videos, I step you through all the must-know tips for smashing your client meetings including:

  • Making it super easy for clients to book their meeting with you
  • How to research and prepare for your meeting
  • Tips on how to dress on brand and body language
  • Choosing the best location
  • How to set expectations by leading and listening
  • Solving client’s problems and over-delivering
  • Post-meeting follow-up emails

All that and more! You’ll have to enrol into the Business Map if you want all my juicy secrets. 😉 But don’t worry, I won’t leave you hanging…

Meet your all-new Client Meeting Journal

To make sure you have the blissful confidence you need to convert 9 out 10 of your client meetings into bookings, we’ve created a Client Meeting Journal just for wedding photographers! The first of its kind in our industry, it’s not just a pretty notebook. This journal will keep your client meetings on track and all your notes in one place.

Perfect for in-person and online meetings, it’s loaded with proven how-to tips including:

→Meeting prep – before, during & after
→Building instant trust & rapport
→Powerful conversion language
→Handling discount requests
→Upselling your packages, albums & add-ons
→Creating an efficient workflow
→Mindset & meditation

You’ll also have note-taking pages for pre-meeting client research and reminders, meeting prompts and must-ask questions. PLUS, space for post-meeting reflections.

jai long client meeting journal

Prepare, Plan & Structure → Meeting → Booking ($$)

“I used the Client Journal for the meeting today and it helped soooo much in navigating through that call. The client’s budget was $1700 below my package options, but she ended up booking my 2nd highest package without hesitation!” – Jasmin

“It’s not only beautifully designed, but also full of helpful tips to get you prepared. It has guided questions you can use during the meeting and lots of space to take notes and reflect after.” – Bo

To see the magic for yourself, shop the client journal here.


You could have the most amazing photography portfolio in the world but if clients don’t trust your brand, it amounts to nothing.

When buying new products, 59% of shoppers prefer to buy from the brands they trust. When asked which brand attributes matter the most, 31% stated ‘trustworthiness’ over creativeness, intelligence, authenticity, and confidence.

Think about it – if you’re a wedding photographer,  most of your clients have probably never worked with a professional photographer before. They don’t know what to expect, they’re relying on you to be their guide.

So, what is brand trust?

Brand trust measures the level of confidence clients have in your business. From consistently delivering on your promises to staying true to your core values, it’s the experience you create for your clients. Whether it’s your products, services, or behaviour, it’s when their expectations match your promises.

With every client interaction, you should be building or protecting your brand trust to secure your clients’ confidence.

This trust and confidence then turns into brand loyalty and advocacy, leading clients to become your biggest fans and FREE marketing sources. Ultimately, brand trust, loyalty and advocacy work together to drive new business.

8 ways to build trust with your clients

1. Get to know your target audience inside and out

Before jumping into your branding and marketing strategies, you should focus on who your target audience is. Your clients are unique so there isn’t a one-size-fits-all approach. By understanding their needs and pain points, and speaking their language,  you can tailor all your communications to create more impact. This allows you to proactively solve their problems and deliver added value.

2. Use your ‘about’ page to tell your story and put a face to the name

If you’re going to play a major part in their wedding day, your potential clients want to know who you are and what you’re about. They want to know the human who’s behind the business. Don’t hide behind a screen or a long list of accolades – your ‘about’ page isn’t a boring resume! Have fun with it, invite them into your world and write a meaningful story that your dream clients can emotionally connect with.

3. Be honest and transparent with your pricing and packages

Honesty and transparency are core values that every business should have. You should only make promises that you can consistently deliver on otherwise it comes across as misleading. In your clients’ best interests, always be upfront about your pricing and packages. Be clear about standard package inclusions versus extras that come at an additional cost. This helps to set your clients’ expectations so they can make informed decisions and also prevents any misunderstanding.

4. Always prioritise the client’s experience over the transaction

One of the most important ways to gain clients’ trust is by committing to next-level customer service throughout every interaction. Value your clients’ time by being personable, professional and efficient. When you focus on listening to their concerns, you can then provide the best solutions.

5. Share client testimonials and social proof

Real clients’ experiences and word-of-mouth referrals will always add a higher level of legitimacy to your marketing claims. Often, clients don’t have an agenda when they’re writing a review which makes their feedback more credible. Client reviews and testimonials form a huge part of the decision-making process.

6. Make it easy for your clients to contact you

It’s so important that you’re easily accessible. Whether it’s sticking to a 24-hour response time or a 2 business days’ timeframe, consistent customer service is key to building trust. It shows you care and minimises any potential friction. State your expected response times clearly on your contact page and consider adding alternative means of contact, such as an email address or phone number.

7. Ask for and act on feedback

Aside from reading your 5-star reviews, you should always consider asking for feedback.  A relationship goes both ways. By allowing your past clients to contribute their feedback and listening to what they’ve got to say, you’re showing how much you genuinely value them. If enough clients are raising similar issues or insights, you’ll have a clear idea of which areas can be further improved on.

8. Create ‘introduction’ videos

Rather than serving your clients with a slab of text, consider recording and uploading a video where you introduce yourself and talk through your offerings. Much more compelling and engaging, a personalised video is a powerful way of building an authentic and memorable connection from the get-go. Depending on the context, you can add this video to your ‘about’ page or on your form’s post-submission ‘thank you’ page.

Trust is essential for building a sustainable, profitable business 

No matter how long you’ve been in the game, trust and loyalty will always be the building blocks of a successful long-term business. Remember: Every client you book is a privilege, not an entitlement. 

“Overall, because branding is about creating and sustaining trust it means delivering on promises. The best and most successful brands are completely coherent. Every aspect of what they do and what they are reinforces everything else.” – Wally Olins

When in doubt, always:

  • Put your clients first and let them know that they’re your top priority over everything else
  • Focus on educating your clients rather than selling
  • Be authentic in your communications and personalise your services
  • Show consistency across every touchpoint of your business

Commit to serving and delighting your clients across all interactions and allow reciprocity to work its magic.

Want to level up your personal branding? Listen to this podcast

We see this over and over, and today, I want to share with you a little case study.

Do you know the story behind Jay-Z funding $56M into his own music streaming platform, back in 2015? The platform was called Tidal.

Haven’t heard of it? Can’t say I’m surprised.

The problem with Tidal was, Jay-Z was banking on his name, music, and reputation to sell a platform that best served the artists.

Did it best serve the audience? No.

I’m gonna be honest – even though he was trying to make a social change for artists, it was hard to have empathy when he complained about losing money to pirated music…considering he was already making millions.

Sure, we know almost every musician was losing big money in 2015 (and still are), but that story didn’t move us enough to hand over our own hard-earned money to his cause.

He framed it as “It’s so cheap, and it’s your duty to support artists”.

Look, I can see where he was coming from, but no one likes being told what their ‘duty’ is. Helping artists is a privilege, not a duty.

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Image Credit: The New York Times


Entitled to the concept, Jay-Z made the whole Tidal campaign about the artists, not the listeners.

We don’t move and pay someone because they are entitled. The choice is ours to make, not theirs…We grab our wallets when it best serves us and when value is perceived.

You’d think how could Jay-Z, along with his killer lineup of artists involved in the project, fail?! With his celebrity status and financial power, surely it’s impossible!

It doesn’t matter who you are, entitlement will kill your biz.

Let me put this into perspective for our wedding photography world.

We often portray a sense of entitlement when we think people are privileged to have us at their wedding. Because you know…we have a lot of Instagram followers, or we have a few awards hanging on our walls, or we take the BEST destination photos in the most amazing locations.

And that entitled attitude filters through to our pricing. 

“Take it or leave it”, we say. Creating and pricing our packages, we don’t budge or discount for anyone because we DESERVE to be paid what we are worth.

Doesn’t that sound like entitlement?

It doesn’t matter how many followers you have, whose weddings you have shot, which publications you’ve been featured in, or what awards you have…

Every client you book is a privilege, not an entitlement.


And with that privilege comes responsibility.

To commit to your work at the highest level, to create everlasting memories, to deliver on your promises, to serve and serve some more.

Your self-worth goes beyond your introspective mindset, it’s also determined by the market you’re serving.

So, how do you do that without burning out?

✔️Know your value.

✔️Increase your prices.

And let reciprocity work its magic.

Quit second-guessing your ‘worth’.

You can do what you love AND make money. You don’t have to be a struggling artist, you don’t have to lower your prices in hopes of filling your books. I can show you exactly how to raise your prices AND book your dream clients.

➡️ Join my LIVE 3-day online pricing workshop – Pricing with Purpose. ⬅️

Melbourne (GMT+11) – 10AM – 23,24 & 25th August

Los Angeles (GMT-7) – 5 PM – 24, 25 & 26th August

3 days. 3 steps. $9. 

pricing with purpose virtual workshop

We’ll cover how you can:

  1. RESET for 100% goal clarity
  2. BUILD for sustainable profit
  3. SCALE for work-life freedom

For the full breakdown and to get your ticket, click here.

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Hosted by the legends, Eric Floberg and Steven Schultz, Rally Caps is “a podcast for creative entrepreneurs who are ready to double down and build a business for the long haul.” With a tagline like that, there was no question about how aligned we were in how we viewed business and I was stoked to be invited onto their podcast as a guest, which happened just before the last Wedding Photography Summit.

Talking about business, money, goals, life – all the usual stuff – we dove straight into what it was like growing up in poverty and how that affected me personally as a business owner and educator.

P.S. Make sure you watch until the very end for my answers to their ‘Batting Practice’ rapid-fire questions.

P.P.S. The next Wedding Photography Summit will be in November – stay tuned here!

Many of you will know by now that I wasn’t born into money. Our family grew up in government housing, surrounded by domestic violence, fuelled by the lack of money and education. At Christmas, we lived off charity handouts. We were far from society’s ‘cream of the crop’. I’ve even been homeless twice.

And I think we often get caught up with looking at other people who’ve found success and assume they’ve been handed everything. “It’s easy for them, but not me” kind of deal. Quite contrary, nothing’s ever been handed to me! We don’t realise that most of the people who really succeed are the underdogs with nothing to lose and everything to gain. When you’ve gone through pain,  experiencing the lowest of lows, you get hungry to push more. Grasping opportunities, you don’t want to go back to the old life.

The fact is, we all have the power of online presence and opportunities…the difference is, you’re scared.

You’re scared to take the risk and step into the unknown. You’re scared of losing your comfortability, financial security and ego. It doesn’t help that most people also hate talking about money and success because it feels ‘dirty’.

You can wish and hope all you like but at the end of the day, you need to put yourself out there, get into the right room and work hard. There is an abundance of opportunities waiting for you. There’s never a ‘good’ or ‘right’ time to take the leap. Find the door, push it open and create your own abundance. The more you embrace a mindset of abundance, the more lucky you become.

This is exactly how I made my own opportunities and found success.

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Breaking all of society’s conventions and expectations, I quit school at 15. All I wanted was to get a job and start making money. Cold-calling everyone in the phonebook, I moved out to live in a sharehouse where we all struggling to make ends meet. I wanted to change my life. Finally landing my first-ever job as a site labourer, I went out and bought a TV for the sharehouse. Didn’t stop there though…the hustling for a real apprentice job continued. When I heard about an electrician who was looking for an apprentice, I quit my labourer job without hesitation, banged on his door and literally gave him no choice other than to say yes. I worked my butt off, finished my apprenticeship and used all my savings to buy a car and started a cafe (which went bankrupt).

But I genuinely believe if you focus all your energy on the things that excite you the most, the things that light you up, you can’t go wrong.

If I had to pick the one thing that excited me the most, it’d have to be the Six-Figure Business Map. It’s a space where I continually learn how to communicate with people and how to meet them where they’re at. This allows me to unlock their liming beliefs and smash their glass ceilings – seeing what everyone is personally achieving never fails to fill my heart! You can check out one of my recent blogs on ‘What’s Inside the Business Map‘ to learn more about the course.

When you’re genuinely passionate about what you’re doing, you don’t allow yourself to have excuses. You focus on all the things you have rather than what you don’t have, self-generating the energy to maximise every single day.

I’m not one to half-arse anything in life. And that goes for my philosophy of reinvesting money too. Rather than saving for a rainy day, I focus on making new money. To blow your business up, you need to go ALL IN. If you want to hit your unrealistic goals, you need to show up all the time. Time is worth more than anything! Stop running your business like you’re the only person that can do all the things. When you have a team to support you, you’re not only saving time, you’re also leveraging off their knowledge and passion in areas that you don’t have.

I can’t emphasise it enough. There’s never a good time and you’ll never have enough money. You’ll never feel truly ‘comfortable’. There’s no perfect moment!

We need to be relentless and get comfortable with working under pressure. Keep pushing and you’ll see all the possibilities.

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For more Rally Caps podcast episodes, you can check out their YouTube channel or follow them on Instagram.

To start all over again, from the ground up…What does that mean and how would that look? 

If I looked in the mirror today, would I recognise myself? I’m 99.999% certain that I’d see and feel the same hunger that radiates out of my core. The innate drive and hunger that forces me awake at 5am, the lack of an ‘off’ switch which keeps the non-stop ideas pinging back and forth inside of my head.

Six years ago, I managed to hone in and take action on the blurry vision that my imagination had been nurturing. From the millions of ‘good ideas’ I had, I decided to single out the best one and buckle down. Together with my ever-supportive and talented wife Leelou, we built our first successful business, Free the Bird Wedding Photography

It wasn’t without sacrifices – I gave it all up to get this business off the ground. It wasn’t easy but I knew, in my heart, that this step would move the needle closer to my unrealistic goals. That meant saying goodbye to my six-figure salary as an electrician, selling my brand new top-of-the-range dream ute, and leaving the security of the ‘normal’ 9-5 grind that I’d been brought up to believe was the only way. 

Why did I have this faith in myself?

Why did I think wagering my comfortable way of life and my relationship with Leelou was worth the risk? 

Did I even see it as a risk? 

I guess I wasn’t too scared to jump again because I’d already seen all the way to the bottom. The lowest of lows. And despite it all, I proved to myself that I had everything I needed to not only survive but to THRIVE. 

Every dream requires an element of risk and sacrifice.

Shoved out of your comfort zone, you’re forced to step into the unknown and the challenges that come with it. 

And more often than not, the bolder the action, the bigger the reward. 

Everything I’ve done in my career has started with an idea, with zero clues of how and when I’d get to the ‘destination’. And not gonna lie, the lack of control and ‘knowing’ always leaves me feeling uncomfortable every step of the way.

But still, I bit the bullet and gave it all up to pursue my passion, my calling. 

Free the Bird Wedding Photography was started from the ground up. We sold my car, travelled to the States with barely any money and shot for free. Hustling to pour the foundations that would support the growth I had hoped for, we eventually built a website, got featured in notable publications and won awards.

Enquiries started pouring in from every avenue. From dreams to reality, Free the Bird quickly gained momentum and became a six-figure business within the first 12 months (fact check).  

Maybe it was luck. Perhaps it was just good timing. Have times changed since then? Could I do it all again? 

Go undercover and start a business from scratch with no clients, no portfolio and no gear?

What’s there to lose besides my ego? And as they all say, you don’t know unless you try. So, I did.

Join me as I hustle a new wedding photography business ‘from the ground up’, in only 5 days, with just $2,000 to kick-start it all. 

This one’s not to be missed. 

Reflecting on the big stuff, I look at my WHY. What makes me the hustler I am today. Have a peek through the curtains and see the intricate pieces that put me together.


I hope that this documentary and my story can inspire you to chase a life that’s meaningful to you. 

Are you ready to write your own story?

The Six-Figure Business Map online course is for photographers and videographers who are ready to transform their biz over their 12-month enrolment. But it isn’t just about learning sales/marketing tactics or hitting six figures.  You also need to be ready to invest in your personal growth and commit to your unrealistic goals – it’s about becoming the best version of yourself and becoming the author of your life.

We’ll do a deeper dive into what’s inside the Six-Figure Business Map shortly but before we do, I want to answer one of the most popular questions people always ask:

“Why is the course limited to 12 months? Can’t I get lifetime access?”

It’s a great question and I understand that you want to get the most bang for your buck!

Long story short, the 12-month ‘time limit’ best serves the sailors (a.k.a. students) in the course while sustainably growing our business. It’s so important that I can be 100% present, serving you wholeheartedly and consistently showing up in the community. I’m not here to waste your time and/or money – from creating new content to 1:1 mentoring sessions and group calls, I want to empower you with more value than you can ever imagine.

Here’s the thing, the 12-month duration helps us to:

  • Set expectations – Time is worth more than money. If you have all the time in the world to take action, you wouldn’t take action. If you just dropped in and out as you liked over a lifetime, you wouldn’t be as committed to actively making your goals happen. You wouldn’t be prioritising your education and that means you’re leaving your business know-how on the backburner. I want you to be serious about your business and personal growth.
  • Maintain an active community – Our private Facebook group and group coaching calls are next level! As a global community, we can all learn and grow together. Reciprocity is a thing. The more you give, the more you receive. Whether you’re celebrating a win, asking for advice, needing to rant or wanting to brainstorm, you’ll always have fellow sailors supporting you and keeping you accountable. They are ‘your people’, many of which you’ll become lifelong friends with.
  • Serve you at the highest level – For us to be sustainable, we need to constantly grow. More money means I can hire more people to help you, record more modules, hold more masterminds, create more workbooks, organise more workshops, etc. Throughout your 12 months, you’ll notice we’re always adding new content to complement and expand on the ‘core’ modules.

I practice what I preach. This isn’t a ‘get rich quick scheme’, this is a real business that is dedicated to your success. This means I value my community. My time, my services, my reputation, my knowledge.

Fun fact: More people sign back up for another 12 months rather than leaving. It’s incredible and I’m so grateful that sailors see the Business Map not just as a one-off enrolment but a lifetime community they want to be in. I’ve had so many tell me that they’ve resigned just because of our super-active Facebook group!

Business Map enrolments open 23rd August – join the waitlist!🔥

It doesn’t matter where you are right now on your journey. Whether you’re wanting to quit the corporate grind and go full-time in photography, wanting to achieve more financial freedom to support your family, wanting to transition from weddings to elopements…The Business Map is designed for sailors of all levels, stepping you towards your personal goals.

We have photographers and videographers who are full-time, part-time, and just starting out! From weddings to lifestyle, branding, and a bit of everything, our sailors specialise in different niches and target markets. Stronger together, we’re here to learn from each other and help keep one another accountable.

On the sales page, we talk about the Business Map course as the golden ticket to:

  • Building a sustainable, six-figure business with 100% clarity
  • Overhauling a scarcity mindset and embracing abundance
  • Reigniting your creativity to create and serve with heart

But you’re probably wondering “what are the TANGIBLE things I can expect?

So, let’s break down what you can expect when you join the Six-Figure Business Map…at the very least

Complete roadmap to power up your business

14+ core modules, self-paced learning over 12 months. Each module is broken down further into multiple videos, workbooks and downloads. For example, ‘Sales Mastery’ is one of the base modules and within it, you have access to 5 separate videos. This is how it stands currently – always ahead of the trend, we are continuously expanding the content to make sure you have everything you need!

Monthly group coaching calls

Group learning is an invaluable education tool! With sailors at different stages of their business, there’s always going to be a topic or question you’ve never even thought of. Submitting your questions to me directly, we’ll discuss and answer them LIVE over Zoom. Every single group coaching call is recorded and all replays are uploaded into the Business Map. That means endless brainstorming gold!

Exclusive access to our private Facebook Group

Here’s where you can freely share your wins and struggles, discuss ideas, and ask for help. Great for local catchups, organising styled shoots or referrals, you’ll network and make lifelong friends with sailors from all across the world. From Melbourne to New York, Paris, London, Madrid and beyond, we’re an awesome global community!

Live masterminds & check-ins

Staying true to my word, I’m more ‘present’ than any other business coach you’ll ever come across. Whether it’s via a Facebook live video or a scheduled Zoom group catchup, I want to support you beyond the business aspect. Addressing topical issues like how to make more money during COVID or how to stay creative when you’re in a slump, I’m always here to check in on my community.

Business Map journal

As creatives, many of us like putting pen to paper to solidify our ideas and plans. Made just for the Business Map course, you’ll receive a beautiful journal that’s loaded with business journey advice, goal setting tips, mindset check-ins, calendar pages and more. It’s a must-have that will keep you inspired and on track towards hitting your unrealistic goals.

Milestone awards

We want to celebrate your big milestones! If you’ve hit $100k, $250k or $500k, we’ll send you a Business Map milestone pin as a tangible reminder of how far you’ve come.

Opportunity to become an affiliate

You can sign up to be a Business Map affiliate and score commission for every successful referral. The more creative content you create to help us spread the word, the more you’ll be rewarded.

This is the bare minimum you can expect – there’s seriously so much more but I don’t want to overwhelm you. If you’re still umming and ahhing over whether the Six-Figure Business Map is worth your money, feel free to reach out to me via Insta DMs and we can chat honestly about whether the course is the right fit for you!

Business Map Q&A with Jai Long

After attending the Wedding Photography Summit, Peter and Natalie expressed interest in joining our Six-Figure Business Map community so I jumped on a Zoom call with them to chat about their goals and address any questions. Giving them a sneak peek into what’s actually inside the course and how the content is designed to level up their business, we talked openly about why it’s worth the investment.

If you’re curious or on the fence, I highly encourage you to watch the Q&A video.

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Who doesn’t love FREE stuff? Social media is a fantastic outlet for you to leverage your (current and future) audience’s desire to get something for nothing. If you’re interested in building your Instagram fanbase and attracting new potential clients, an Instagram giveaway can help you create buzz!

I have done Instagram giveaways since the beginning of IG! Gifting a print to my 500th follower – #instafamous – I ran my first one back in 2012. You can check out my most recent one here. Since then, I’ve tried every different way possible and long story short, the simpler you make your giveaway, the better it will work.

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3 easy steps for hosting a successful Instagram giveaway

1. You need to have a single goal

Whether you’re a photographer, florist, graphic designer or in another creative industry, I’m sure running your day-t0-day business while staying on top of your ‘life’ to-dos keeps you busy enough. This is why it’s so important that you spend your time wisely to avoid the risk of being overwhelmed which can compromise your productivity and trigger procrastination.

According to the author of ‘Atomic Habits’, James Clear, scientific research has discovered that implementation intentions only work when you focus on one thing at a time. By sticking to a single IG giveaway goal, you can double down on your efforts and maximise your impact. It will also allow you to tailor your strategy more specifically and better monitor the success of your giveaway.

Examples of Instagram giveaway goals:

  • Book a client
  • Grow your Instagram following
  • Get more engagement on your profile
  • Increase your number of email subscribers
  • Acquire more leads/traffic for your website
  • Create user-generated content (UGC)
  • Populate your Facebook Pixel

Choose a goal that will have the biggest impact on your business, with the potential to influence not just one area but many.

2. Choose a simple, clear call to action

One call to action is more than enough. This determines how users can enter your Instagram giveaway and the simpler you make it, the better. Requesting too many actions from users will discourage them from entering (limiting the size of your entry pool) or not enough users meeting the correct entry criteria. Don’t make people work for it otherwise, they won’t enter.

Call-to-action ideas for your Instagram giveaway:

  • Fill out a form to enter
  • Tag 3 friends
  • Share on stories
  • Follow me
  • Save this post
  • Comment below

Your call-to-action should correlate directly with your single giveaway goal. For example, if you want to grow your IG following, your call-to-action should be ‘tag 3 friends’ or ‘follow me’ and not ‘fill out an entry form’.

Despite my single goal recommendation above, there’s also the option to use bonus entries if you have another mini-goal. This will allow you to still maintain a simple entry method while incentivising users to complete additional tasks to benefit your overall goal.

3. Collaborate with friends and others in your industry

You can partner with your industry friends to host a viral and more marketable giveaway! By collaborating with more people, you can effectively further your reach and make your value more enticing. For example, if you’re a wedding photographer giving away a package, you could possibly partner with other relevant industry vendors that couples could benefit from for their wedding day. For example, a videographer, celebrant, florist, stationery shop, hair and makeup artist, and the list goes on! There are so many possibilities for you to get creative.

As long as you stick to a theme, it’s a great opportunity to help your friends get seen and share the love!

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BONUS: 6 more Instagram giveaway tips

🖤 Add a time limit on your giveaway

Make sure you provide users with a clear deadline for entering your giveaway. This will help you to create a sense of urgency and boost engagement rates quicker. You should also state where, when and how the winner will be announced so users can stay in the loop.

🖤 Choosing your winner

To ensure fairness, you should randomly select a winner for your giveaway. Google “Instagram winner generator” or “Instagram giveaway picker” and you’ll find lots of free and paid options to help you pick a random winner. Once you’ve got your winner, make sure you double-check that they’ve followed your giveaway qualification rules.

🖤 Instagram terms & conditions

Aside from determining your own entry rules, you’ll also need to factor in Instagram’s promotion guidelines and your country’s applicable legal guidelines.

🖤 Launching & promoting your giveaway

Your giveaway won’t go viral after creating a single Instagram post, so you’ll need to put in some extra effort to promote it. Check your audience insights for the best posting times to maximise your initial post’s reach. Create ‘reminder’ posts to share throughout your giveaway. Utilise all your online marketing channels such as your Facebook page, email list, and/or a blog post.

🖤 Reviewing your giveaway results

You’ll want to consistently monitor the progress of your giveaway from start to end. This way, you’ll be able to gauge if more effort needs to be put into certain areas. The data you track will be dependent on your giveaway goals. Once your giveaway has concluded, use your analytics data to learn more about your audience such as demographics, geographical location and peak activity times. You’ll gain valuable insights for future giveaways and your overall social media efforts.

🖤 Following up on your giveaway

People will be waiting for the winner to be announced so make sure you adhere to your promised announcement date and share accordingly. Get people hyped and make it exciting, especially for your winner! Remember to also thank all the other entrants for participating and if relevant, give them a heads up on upcoming sales or future competitions.

It’s your turn!

Instagram giveaways are an awesome way to promote your products or services amongst new fans, grow your following, and boost your engagement. As long as you keep it relevant to your business and goals, it’s also a heap of fun! If you’re just starting out, you might also want to read my blog on how to make better use of Instagram.

I hope this post has given you some inspiration for things to try during your first/next Instagram giveaway. Good luck (no pun intended).

As a photographer or videographer, you know you’re a bit of a magician when you’re behind the lenses. Whether you’re a wedding, lifestyle, branding photographer or other, you’ve dedicated years to finessing your skills, capturing your clients’ gorgeous moments for their lifelong safekeeping of memories. You’re more than just a photographer, you’re their trusted artist and storyteller. Beyond the financial transaction, there’s another reason why your clients have put their faith in you…

It’s YOU.

Your personality, energy and style have resonated with them. While your work might be at risk of being replicated but your authenticity? Never! That’s why it’s so incredibly important that you’re showing up across all communications as your 100% self – including but not limited to your website, pricing guide, social media, emails, text messages, and any other platform where there’s client interaction involved. There’s no point trying to copy someone else’s persona when you have your own light to shine…Plus, competing with others is exhausting. While it may offer great learning experiences, you should always focus on competing with your past self, rather than living up to other people’s idea of success.

Complete your visual storytelling with on-brand copywriting

Sure, you’ve worked hard to develop a rock-solid portfolio that sells itself. But what about your selection of words when it comes to describing your business’s ‘Who’, ‘What’, ‘Where’, ‘When’, and ‘How’? Are you doing yourself justice or a disservice? Beyond spelling and grammatical accuracy, your clients will be reading your copy to picture who you are and imagine what it’s like to work with you.

Perhaps you’re thinking “Yeah OK, but they’ll get to know me once I’m on the phone or Zooming with them…” Nuh-uh. What’s the point in having an online presence if you’re solely relying on those initial phone calls to win potential clients over? What if they don’t follow through with your phone call or meeting request? That leaves you back at square one.

Or maybe you’re thinking “Don’t clients choose me based on my portfolio anyway? I’m a photographer, not a writer…” Fair point, BUT while your work is a wonderful reflection of your photography style and talent, it doesn’t portray the essence of who you are and your personality.

Don’t take it from me, here are a few thought-provoking quotes from Seth Godin, a.k.a. the ultimate entrepreneur and marketer. 

“Marketing is no longer about the stuff that you make, but about the stories you tell.” 

“Every interaction, in any form is branding.”

“A brand is the set of expectations, memories, stories and relationships that, taken together, account for a consumer’s decision to choose one product or service over another.”

“People do not buy goods and services. They buy relations, stories and magic.”

Bringing us forward to the point of this blog…This is where your copywriting comes into play – you can nurture your online presence to ‘sell’ the moment your dream clients land on your website.

Still doubtful?

Review your website copy, price guide and/or recent emails and answer the following questions honestly:

  • Am I confident with the words I’ve chosen?
  • Does it do justice to my passion and reflect my one-of-a-kind personality?
  • Do I truly stand out from the masses or has it been hastily slapped together as an afterthought?
  • Does it sound on-brand and conversational, or am I just talking ‘at’ them?
  • Am I effectively connecting with my dream clients by speaking their language?
  • Does it inspire and draw out emotion, or is it dry and transactional?

If you were not confident or answered ‘no’ to any of the above questions, it’s time to review your copy.

To maximise your lead conversion, your copywriting should be as compelling as your portfolio

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Turning visitors into enquiries and converting leads into bookings, you should be investing in your copywriting as much as your camera gear. If you’re time-poor, doubtful of your own writing skills or have a tendency to procrastinate on the hard tasks, acknowledge that copywriting is potentially an area for outsourcing. Why ‘wing it’ when you can leave it to an expert who can craft copy that will align with your overall business goals?

Good copywriting reflects your authentic personality, effectively communicates your business values, creates a lasting impact, and drives people to engage in the action you want them to do (e.g. send you an enquiry).

8 reasons why copywriting is important for your business

  1. First impressions count
  2. Connects with your target audience by speaking in their language
  3. Successfully addresses your clients’ pain points and decision-making resistance
  4. Keeps your branding strong and consistent across all marketing fronts
  5. Evokes the right emotions in a creative, engaging way
  6. Persuades and prompts people to take the next steps
  7. Boosts conversions and sales
  8. Optimises your organic presence (SEO)

TL;DR: Poor copywriting is detrimental to your audience and business. 

Need help with copywriting for your business?

Melinda Harcourt is our in-house copywriter and coach. Trust me when I say she’s an absolute gun at whipping together the right words for your business. If you’d like to learn more or would like Mel to help you with your copywriting requirements, you can email her via and she’ll sort you out!

P.S. Here’s (just some) social proof!

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For more inspiration and tips on copywriting/words, check out these blogs:

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Hey guys, here’s another episode of my Make Your Break podcast – chatting with none other than our wonderful Stephanie Fisher from ‘From the Daisies‘.

Stephanie is an insanely talented, nationally published wedding and elopement photographer from the US. If you check out her work, you’ll see that she hits so many genres with her unique style, from bridal to editorial, couples and boudoir. An all-around beautiful human with over 10 years of industry experience, I knew we had to have her in May’s Wedding Photography Summit speaker lineup. Pulling all the stops, she presented “Best Bang for Your Buck When Advertising” and over-delivered! From the 101 marketing basics to effectively leveraging the different social platforms, Stephanie taught us all things on spending money and time wisely to make the biggest impact.

I invited Stephanie onto the podcast so you could all get to know Stephanie a little more before the summit and we also dived into her top five marketing tips for photographers.

It’s so easy for us to look up to our favourite successful photographers, comparing ‘luck’ and wishing it’s as easy as they make it look. Focusing on the ‘highlight reel’, we tend to forget that they also had to hustle hard, overcome countless setbacks and relentlessly chase their goals to get to where they are today. Success doesn’t come easy, things don’t just happen. It takes hard work and passion.

How Stephanie made her break as a photographer

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Image Credit: Stephanie Fisher

Did you know that Stephanie originally went to school and completed a bachelor degree in Biology? She was only doing photography on the side for fun and was planning on going back to grad school. Grad school was expensive, influencing Stephanie’s decision to take a year off and book more shoots to save money for it. Despite her Instagram being mostly selfies, a girl reached out with a wedding shoot opportunity and that’s when fate played its hand.

New to the Instagram game and needing work, Stephanie stalked hashtags (marketing tip on that later), found an engaged couple in Arizona and commented her congratulations on their post. The bride-to-be followed her back but didn’t reach out till two months later. Stephanie successfully booked the couple for their wedding AND she’s also completed a maternity session and other lifestyle shoots with them since then. Building on their newfound friendship, this girl also referred Stephanie to all her bridesmaids and family members, which resulted in another seven wedding bookings. How crazy is that?!

Needless to say, Stephanie fell in love with wedding photography and never went back to school. Learning everything from scratch, she said nothing beats the reward of owning her own business, the freedom of spending time with her family and opportunities to travel all over the world.

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Image Credit: Stephanie Fisher

Facing the reality of ‘down days’

Despite her continued success, Stephanie wasn’t shy about sharing her down days. Likening it to a modelling career, she noted that she wasn’t getting any younger and with most newly engaged couples being in the 20 to 30-year-old bracket, she was aware that they’d likely relate to younger, upcoming photographers. At times, she struggles with ‘staying relevant and on top of the game’ but that’s where her marketing know-how comes in.

Stephanie Fisher’s top #5 marketing tips for landing your ideal clients

A mix of free and low-cost marketing tips for photographers, Stephanie still uses these strategies to this day, so read on!

1. Be present on Instagram and creep on relevant hashtags

This is exactly how Stephanie got one of her first wedding clients (now a raving fan), as covered above! By stalking hashtags like #engaged, you can find and comment your congrats on posts by newly engaged couples, opening up opportunities for potential bookings and styled shoots.

2.  Engage with vendors

Whether it’s a popular wedding venue, florist or wedding planner, you can grow your community by authentically engaging with vendors on socials. Aside from becoming one of their recommended photographers, you’ll also be building your brand and getting your name out there into the world.

3. Become a preferred vendor

Following tip #2, reach out to your favourite vendors and see if they’re open to having you on their list of preferred providers. To get your foot in the door, you can also offer to organise a styled shoot where they’ll get photos to post on their socials, putting your work in front of their audience.

4. Boost your Instagram posts

At an affordable cost, you can boost your Instagram posts to your target audience and retain control over who can see your content. Don’t boost blindly, make sure you keep the photos relevant to your target audience for maximum effectiveness.

5. Reach out to editors

From blogs to magazines, think about all the place where you want your work to be seen. Editors are always looking for new content – you can do their job for them by asking what they want for their feature pieces and sharing your work accordingly. Even if you keep getting noes and aren’t getting featured, don’t give up, keep hustling. Submit to another publisher.

To reduce the overwhelm, choose your editorial features based on the target audience and overall outcome you hope to achieve. For example, if you want status, you can push for a feature in top rung publications like Vogue or Harper’s Bazaar. If you’re after more bookings, consider reaching out to smaller publishers and local wedding blogs. Either way, the more features you score, the more backlinks you’ll accumulate for your website which increases its traffic and authority.



Instagram: @fromthedaisies

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Image Credit: Stephanie Fisher


If you’re just starting out as a new photographer or are struggling to make your break, here are some quick ideas that I personally abide by:

  •  Give value – Adopt a giver mindset and offer value generously. Whether it’s approaching a vendor to set up a styled shoot or responding to a potential client enquiry, think about all the ways you can deliver value upfront, without expecting anything in return. You need to give before you can receive.
  • Don’t wait for permission – Many of us wait for ‘permission’ to do something different, especially when it removes you from your comfort zone. For the summit, I went undercover as Jack Short to film a documentary about launching a new business in 5 days with just $2000 – and SO MANY attendees said that it inspired them because it gave them permission to just get out there. Watch it here.
  • Get uncomfortable – Along a similar vein as not waiting for permission, there will be many times where you’ll be forced out of your comfort zone when building your community and chasing your goals. From cold contacting vendors to having difficult conversations with clients, you’ll achieve more success when you overcome your fears. Get uncomfortable so your future clients can feel comfortable when engaging with you!
  • Keep it simple – Don’t fall into the trap of overcomplicating things because of self-limiting beliefs (e.g. fear of failure or success) or perfectionism. Business is a living, breathing thing that you can finesse as you go, as long as you have clarity on your vision and goals. Procrastination prevents progression, so stop giving yourself reasons not to succeed.

***Bonus tip: Aside from being featured on a vendor’s recommended suppliers list, why not create a preferred vendors directory of your own? This way, you can offer a shout-out swap and offer upfront value when networking.


This episode is brought to you by the guys over at PepperStorm, an awesome copywriting team who I have used across all my businesses for years. If you need some killer copywriting, get in touch and use the code: MAKEYOURBREAK to get $100 off when you buy one of their packages.



The phrase ‘unrealistic goals’ may seem like a contradiction to some – after all, isn’t it important to devise realistic, achievable goals to set yourself up for success? So, why are we encouraging you to overhaul your mindset and opt for not-so-realistic goals?

Oxford Languages defines ‘realistic’ as having or showing a sensible and practical idea of what can be achieved or expected.”

While sensibility and practicality are essential for keeping you on track with low-value tasks and everyday to-dos, such as completing your cleaning chores or meal prepping for the week ahead, you need to amplify your purpose and energy when it comes to your business goals. You can’t play it ‘safe’, risk mediocrity, and just cross your fingers hoping for an overnight miracle.

If you’re new to goal setting, I encourage you to a podcast and blog I did – ‘Goal Setting with Jai Long‘.

Big wins demand bigger action

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If you want to accelerate your success, you’ll need to pluck up the courage to set lofty, rule-breaking goals that push the limits of your imagination and buckle down your entire being to accomplish them. Big wins call for even bigger action, spurred by visionary dreams that defy rationality. And the reality is, you and your business have the uncapped potential to reach unprecedented heights – there’s always something brighter and better that’s waiting for you to make it happen. 

Maybe you’re thinking that the concept of unrealistic goals is easier said than done. Take the time to dig deep and consider what’s truly holding you back. Perhaps you’re worried about failure, stepping outside of your comfort zone or you’ve grown accustomed to conforming to other’s expectations and conventional norms. Perhaps it’s all of the above.

As a society, we often try to fit in with the people around us, business and personal goal setting included. You shouldn’t have to lower any of your goals or downplay your ambitions and dreams to match the people around you. 

Getting featured in Forbes was one of my personal unrealistic goals…

One of my personal ‘unrealistic goals’ was to be featured in Forbes this year and on May 3, 2021, it happened! They interviewed me and published an article on ‘Why Setting Unrealistic Goals For Your Business Isn’t A Bad Thing’ – how ironic is that?!

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We all have unique trajectories, marked by different milestones. Whether it’s a financial goal of hitting six figures within the next quarter or a strategic goal of pivoting your business to attract more dream clients, your only competition is your past self. Don’t fall into the trap of chasing someone else’s idea of success, living by the rules or blindly following trends. Forget the haters and naysayers, focus on what you want to achieve and proactively set your gears in motion. Be the game-changer that inspires (and surprises) those around you to come up to your level. 

Transform your mindset to develop healthy habits for ongoing success

Without being cliched, success doesn’t come easy, you have to dig deep and work hard for it. While there’s no silver bullet to rely on, you can hone in on your efforts to think large, take bigger actions and be motivated by the power of your unrealistic goals. As you overcome self-limiting beliefs and tackle the unknown with clarity, you’ll develop an abundance mindset that liberates you to conquer even more.

With perseverance, practising those goals will naturally transform into habitual behaviour that’ll see you through the long run. Your achievements, small or big, will become the ‘realistic’ benchmarks for your next set of ‘unrealistic’ goals, giving you the momentum to keep pushing the boundaries. Celebrate and reflect on every win to maximise your learning opportunities.

Practice makes perfect, so take the initiative to set your unrealistic SMART goals today. Your future self will thank you.


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Entitlement is the killer of a good business

Though I’ve now been in the game for years, let me tell you, the learning never stops. As a business coach, I’m so grateful to have the awesome Six-Figure Business Map community that’s always growing and levelling up alongside me, inspiring me to dig deeper and push harder.


Entitlement is the killer of a good business. Earn your attention. Earn your customers. Earn your business.

The minute we get complacent and think we’re ‘good enough’, that’s when we stop creating a business that disrupts and demands attention. That’s when we stop giving 100% to our clients. That’s when we stop chasing our goals.

The learning never stops.

I truly believe that you can build the business of your dreams, one that’s soulfully aligned and feels authentic to you.

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I want to help pave the way for you. I’ve done it, I do it, and I want to show you the next steps to scale up your biz.

Let’s take Kate as an example.

The face behind ‘Wilderness Weddings Tasmania’, Kate and her husband Harley are a husband-and-wife wedding photography duo. She joined our community in April 2020 with “a great feeling about this whole thing!

She enrolled in the Business Map last April and I’ve been following her journey closely. I’ve grabbed some of her posts to create a little ‘highlights’ reel and case study for you.

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Her first goal was to launch a new elopement business on the 8th of June 2020, so she dove straight in – everything from reaching out to our community to bounce ideas, to 1:1 mentoring, finessing her workflow for maximised efficiency, honing in on her dream clients, networking within the industry and setting up a dedicated working studio.

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Kate hustled and hustled some more.

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And what do you know…Kate hit 100k in sales in December 2020, just 6 months after launching her new elopement business! And exactly 8 months after joining the Business Map.

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But most importantly, one of her major #wins was embracing a mindset shift of saying no to jobs that weren’t right for her, creating a business that gave her more time and energy to attract and serve her dream niche.

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I’m sharing Kate’s journey with you because she’s just one of the many Business Map sailors who’ve believed in their dreams and went all in, guns blazing.

When you choose to invest in yourself, that’s the moment you tell yourself and the world that ‘f***k yeah, I can do this!’ It’s game-changing.

Check out the Business Map page for more inspo. You can’t make up social proof, ammiright?!


I’ve got an exciting one for you today! Quick throwback to our Wedding Photography Summit last month in May, I wanted to make sure that with every summit, the lineup keeps getting bigger and better. As creative entrepreneurs, it’s so important for us to get into the room with industry experts and icons who are already making the impossible happen. Challenging your mindset and equipping you with strategic know-how, empowering you to take your business further than ever before.

As many of you know, Jose Villa is a celebrity wedding photographer and I’ve admired his work for years. Having shot A-list celebrity weddings including Justin Bieber’s and Nick Jonas’s, Jose has been named one of the most influential photographers of our decade and is seriously a force to be reckoned with! A massive inspiration for many, including myself, we hosted a Q&A during the summit where Jose talked to us about ‘Attracting High-End Clients’. If you purchased a VIP ticket for the summit, you’ll be able to access a replay via your portal.

Keeping things real, I invited Jose to join me on one of my latest ‘Make Your Break’ podcast episodes to chat about his beginnings and how he made his break.

Here’s a quick recap of what Jose and I covered during the podcast!

Making his break

With over 18 years of experience, it may be hard for us to believe that Jose once started at the very beginning, just like the rest of us. He just started assisting people and networking via commercial and fashion work. Though his ultimate goal was to shoot weddings, he began small by doing little portraits with families and children.

Jose Villa

Image Credit: Jose Villa

Figuring it out as he went along, Jose gained momentum through client referrals and he caught his first big break when he got the chance to photograph Martha Stewart’s niece’s wedding in Las Vegas. Teaming with Martha Stewart’s designers and stylists, he learnt little tricks about photographing the small details. With a six-page spread in the magazine, more inquiries naturally started flowing in and the magazine would hire Jose to photograph particular weddings, landing him covers and features.

Relentless determination over instant gratification

It definitely didn’t happen overnight, maybe seven or eight years into his business. Jose was working 24/7 photographing and editing as many weddings as possible, and relentlessly submitting them to publications for feature opportunities. Despite endless rejections, he never gave up and continued submitting until someone took notice.

Creating with intention for longevity

Whether you’re photographing or showing personal work, it’s super important that you only show what you want in return. You need to ruthlessly cull your Instagram photos from years ago, only keeping what’s on-brand. It’ll take time but you want to get to a point where people are identifying your work just by looking at it and not by reading who the photo is from.

Even if it takes reinventing yourself, you need to strive for consistency and achieve a specific look that you can consistently replicate whenever you create. This ensures the longevity of your success in the industry.

Don’t fix what’s not broken

There are so many trends that will come and go. You don’t need to blindly follow what’s trending or second guess yourself, stick to your vision and your brand vision. Don’t get distracted by the noise – find your edge, establish your market and stay true to who you really are.

Jose VillaImage Credit: Jose Villa

Dealing with ‘copycats’

The reality is you can’t be bothered by it. As an artist, it’s natural human instinct to feel like someone’s copying you but try to see it in a different way. It’ll push you beyond your limits to stay competitive and ahead of the competition. We will always source inspiration from other famous photographers – don’t just copy it exactly, build onto it and make it better. Whether it’s lighting or posing, find a way to make it yours.

Jose Villa

Overcoming personal insecurities

We tend to hide ourselves and the things that make us unique, which really, we should be leaning into. The second you don’t try to fit in is the second that your business will blow up. As artists, we all have some sort of thing that bothers us or we’re embarrassed about. Even though it’s hard, we need to practice just getting things out there that may make you or other people uncomfortable. Get yourself out of your own head and don’t be too afraid of your own shadow, and focusing on establishing your confidence and finding your people.

Follow Jose Villa


Instagram: @josevilla

You can also purchase his book on ‘fine art wedding photography’ here.

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It’s time to take charge of your business

As photographers, videographers and visual creatives, we work endlessly to share our craft with the world. To authentically connect with your clients, it’s essential that you build a personal brand from the heart and create an experience that’s not only beautiful but also emotive. While your images will reflect your natural talent, your business will only thrive if you’re able to successfully take your clients on a heart-filled journey that transforms casual browsers into enquiries, enquiries into bookings, and bookings into lifelong fans. 

All good things take time and you want to make sure that you’re putting your best foot forward because first impressions count. From the website navigation experience to your branding visuals, the language you use, your info and pricing guide, and your call to action, your website is your shopfront – every element needs to be considered if you want to effectively fill up your sales funnel and convert leads. 

Remember: People can copy your strategy, your creativity, your ideas. But no one can copy your energy and positivity. No one else can replace you!

Your website is a living, breathing document that grows alongside you and your business. Whether it’s niching down your services, updating your packages, adding new testimonials, whipping up fresh blogs or tweaking your booking process, make sure you’re regularly checking in on your website to see how you can make it even better. 

Don’t let procrastination take over, focus on making an impact and prioritising progress.

Business Highlight: By Leelou

By Leelou is a branding and design studio that creates bespoke digital products for photographers and videographers. Empowering you to take charge, grow and thrive, they’re your go-to for ready-made website templates and digital info and pricing guides. 

Where design meets heart, every single line, colour, font and element has been carefully considered to align with your story and purposefully connect with your dream clients. 

Based in Melbourne, Australia, the By Leelou team has collaborated with photographers and videographers worldwide on all things custom design and branding. Leelou is the founder and creative director of By Leelou and you’ll always be in safe hands with her. Once a wedding photographer, she now uses her in-depth knowledge of the wedding photography business, industry and market to create branding and digital resources that can be easily customised to suit your business and deliver results. 

P.S. Leelou also happens to be my gorgeous soulmate and wife! 

Showit Website Collection for Photographers & Videographers

Regardless of your website know-how, By Leelou’s beautiful website templates are built for your success. With all the core pages already built out on a Showit template, all you need to do is:

  1. Choose a design – the team will teach you how to install it
  2. Customise to your liking – you can personalise everything including the fonts, colours, logo and layout to suit your brand
  3. Launch – follow the detailed instructions to launch your new website simply and painlessly

Showit is hands down the best platform for photographers, I highly recommend it!

Price & Info Guides – Digital PDF & Print

By Leelou

Super easy to customise in Canva or InDesign, By Leelou’s digital PDT and print ‘Price and Information Guides’ have been thoughtfully created to help you book your dream clients. Complete with help guides and video tutorials, these professionally designed guides will encourage your clients to step over the line and book. 

Play with it as much as you like or keep it simple, these high-converting guides include ‘done for you’ copy that sells. Use the placeholder copy to inspire your own writing and make it yours. 

If you’ve already purchased or are thinking of investing in one of By Leelou’s website templates, these price and info guides are the final piece of the puzzle. 

Price & Info Guide – Secret Web Page

By Leelou

Alongside your digital PDF and printed guide, you can also add a secret page to your Showit website. This price and info guide won’t be linked in your menu and only clients who have the direct URL address will be able to access it – for example, if they’ve sent you an enquiry and you’ve responded by providing them with a link to your secret pricing page. 

Compared to a PDF, a web page is specifically designed to be desktop and mobile-friendly, ensuring your clients get the optimal viewing experience. It’s a great option to have together with your PDF and printed guide. 

By purchasing a By Leelou secret ‘Price and Information’ Guide web page, you can ensure that it perfectly complements your template, just like your ‘visible’ pages. 

Get in touch with the By Leelou team!

For more information on any of the templates or to get started on your own custom branding and design project, please reach out to the By Leelou team directly.


Contact: Fill out the online form or email 

Instagram: @byleelou

Hey guys and welcome to another episode of Make Your Break! I wanted to do something a little different this week. Because the year’s been so tough on a lot of people, I noticed that no one’s really stepping up and helping their communities. I wanted to change that. Today, I’m going to talk about five reasons why we launched our wedding photography summit as well as give a little bit of inside scoop on it.

I’m always trying to step up my game and I like to push myself into uncomfortable spaces. The same was true for this wedding summit. I had to push myself; I think that’s really important.

Our Goals with the Summit

So what exactly is a wedding summit? Basically right now, live events are not an option. There are practically no workshops or conferences. But people still want to be entertained, be inspired and learn. A summit is an online conference, a really big workshop that brings together a lot of top industry speakers.

Our primary goal is to create the biggest online wedding photography workshop in the world. We’re aiming to get 10,000 people signed up and sell the tickets for $7 each. People are often scared about telling people their unrealistic goals. But you need to put those things out there. If you set realistic goals, you won’t push yourself and if you don’t make those goals, you won’t feel good about yourself. I want to overpromise and then overdeliver on that promise. The summit is only $7 and I’m packing so much value into the two day summit for that small cost.

Putting yourself out there is hard. You’re going to get a lot of hate for doing even the smallest thing. But it’s worth it in the long run to put yourself in that mentality.

Jai Long and Gary Vee

1 – I Want to Take a Chance on Myself

The first reason I’m doing this is to take a chance on myself. I’m going to invest around $75,000 into this summit. When I do something I want to be 100% in it, no half measures. There are so many reasons why this won’t come together in five weeks, but I know that will make me work harder towards my goal. When I teach wedding photographers I tell them to dream big and invest in themselves. This advice is only worthwhile if I’m also doing that for myself. Take the advice from people who practise what they preach. I’m all in 100%.

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2 – Helping the Community

When Morgan and I sat down we realised that there was nothing out there that helped people who were really struggling. Our original idea was to make it free, but we decided we needed a small barrier for entry so we attracted the right people. 2020 has been hard for a lot of people. But me and the speakers believe we have a lot of value to give back to the community.

3 – Changing Workshop Culture

This is specifically around getting paid. I’ve talked at so many workshops all over the world, and I don’t think I’ve ever once been paid. But the fact that the organisers think they can’t pay their speakers is just laziness. I’m paying each one of my speakers, but I’m only charging $7. If you’re charging $500, like some of the workshops I’ve spoken at, there’s no reason at all why you can’t pay someone. You’re selling speakers’ knowledge but you’re not paying them for it.

I really want this to change. I always pay my speakers at my workshops, even though people often tell me not to. I know I don’t have to pay, but if someone’s going to show up to learn something from someone, I want the speaker to be invested. To be able to make this work, I obviously need a different business model; recently I signed up to a business coach to help specifically with this summit. That was a great help in coming up with a way to make sure all the speakers got paid while maximising exposure and revenue.

I genuinely believe that transparency around payment at these events is important. This kind of shady stuff has happened my whole life. I encourage people to ask questions around these workshops. I was immediately transparent with the speakers I invited to the summit, from the first email. Everyone was paid the same.

4 – The Challenge of Becoming the Biggest Summit on the Planet

I’ve been filling knowledge gaps every day in the lead up to the summit. My marketing and advertising skills are being taken to a brand new level. I’ve got to sell the summit out in four weeks; there needs to be tickets being sold every single day. 10,000 is my goal; I know there are 10,000 eager wedding photographers out there, we just need to find them.

I need to be the best that I can be at all times. I want agencies to reach out to me and ask me to sell out their conferences. That’s the level I need to be on. I want to be transparent with this too, so that I can inspire my community all the time. Again, it doesn’t make sense for me to be preaching this stuff at my students and not following through on my side. When you set yourself the challenge, you start thinking differently too. I’m coming up with new, inventive ways to make that investment back every single day.

5 – A Stepping Stone to my Long Term Goal

My long term goal is to become one of the most prolific wedding photography business coaches in the world. That’s my own unrealistic goal; I know it’s impossible, but I’m still going to shoot for it and I know I’ll be happy with where I end up.

This workshop is a way for me to get that plan into action. Until I get people results, they won’t trust me. I need to provide value at every opportunity. If someone gets a good tip from my podcast for free, there’s a good chance they’ll get even more value from my paid content. In fact, I know they will. The summit is a way for me to get in front of people and show them my teaching style. I’m here and available to help people propel their business to the next level. They just need to know I’m ready.

If you have big goals, put them out into the world. Aim bigger. Make such a huge goal that you’ll start thinking differently. If this has resonated with you, hop on to Instagram and let me know!

Thank you so much for listening guys, as always I really appreciate it.

wedding photography summit Jai Long

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Hey guys, today I want to chat to you about the new Clubhouse app currently blowing up social media channels across the world! We’re going to talk through what exactly it is, what it does, why it’s gaining so much traction and, most importantly, how you can utilise it to promote your authority in your space and further your business goals.

What is the Clubhouse App?

If you hang around social media a lot, you may well have heard of Clubhouse, a buzzy new app that’s got a lot of people talking. However, it’s unlikely you’re part of Clubhouse; at least not yet! So what exactly is this thing that’s come hot out of Silicon Valley and got everyone talking? Essentially, Clubhouse is an invite-only, audio-based social media app. Heavy on the ‘social’, light on the ‘media’. It lets people chat in real time, whether they’re sharing stories, collaborating, brainstorming or simply catching up.

How Does Clubhouse App Work?

Think of it like a live, free-flowing, communal podcast. You can jump in and out of various chats, covering a whole range of subjects. You can add your voice to the discussion, or you can simply sit back and take in the conversation at your own pace. It’s the social media equivalent of a soirée; you can drift between guests, stop and mingle a while, or jump around on until you find a conversation that interests you. The word ‘soirée’ is also apt as it suggests some form of exclusivity; ClubHouse is exactly that. Exclusive. As it stands, you can only get onto Clubhouse with an invitation. Predictably, it’s this exclusivity that has got people to sit up and take notice, with the limitations of invitations only increasing the app’s allure among celebrities and the entrepreneurial elite.

What is Clubhouse App Used For?

This brings us on to the next topic. Clubhouse might be hot, but what exactly is it used for? Well, there are a few ways to make the most out of ClubHouse, and there’s a damn good reason why it was worth $100 million last May, despite only having around 1,500 members. ClubHouse could redefine social media as we know it. And if you’re a savvy entrepreneur, you’ll want to pay attention, as getting in on the ground floor of the next big thing could prove invaluable for your business in the future.

For starters, Clubhouse is used for high-value conversations, as opposed to produced content. This allows the format of the app to be consistently exciting, dynamic, unpredictable and engaging. Real-time content has been explored in social media before, in the form of Instagram and Facebook lives. But never has it been front and center of a platform. This focus on a conversation over one-way produced content could be defining. The lack of algorithms effectively stops the app from devolving into an ‘echo chamber’, as other platforms have in recent years.

On top of that, the conversations themselves are exciting. Clubhouse offers people the chance to connect and interact with professionals, both inside your industry and outside it. It levels the playing field like no other social media app has before. And it’s doing it in the most natural way possible; by using audio. Twitter favours the written word. Instagram likes pictures. Facebook likes them both, especially when they’re promoting a crackpot conspiracy theory or two. But Clubhouse makes audio king, which means it makes conversation king. It’s as close to real-life interactions as you can get on a social media platform and there’s major value in this, for clients and entrepreneurs alike.

Opportunities with Clubhouse

My mind is already racing with different ways I can use this app to further my business and bring value to my clients and followers. As chats can be private or massively public, networking and collaborating are equally easy. Want to host a massive free-for-all conversation about your particular industry? You can. Need to chat with a collaborator one-on-one about a specific project? You can do that too, all from the same app. You can even hop into a discussion focused on another industry that you might not know anything about, but immediately get value out of hearing an expert in that field chat through their experiences. The possibilities are mind-blowing. I can’t imagine firing up this app and not being excited every time I get involved.

Unlike Instagram, which is often very reactive, Clubhouse is way more proactive, encouraging you to seek out topics and conversations which interest you, roll up your sleeves, and dive right in.

How Do You Get Invited to Clubhouse App?

As of right now, Clubhouse is an invite-only affair. This has done wonders for its reputation in the early stages, but as it grows and grows I expect it will become far more open, much like Facebook did with its trajectory. On top of being exclusive via invite, it’s also only available to iPhone users.

There are two ways to join Clubhouse right now; both require a personal relationship with someone who’s already on the app. First off, when a person joins the app, they’re automatically given one extra invitation that they can pass on to someone using their phone number. You can earn more invites the more time you spend on the app, but with that initial invite, they’re probably going to give it to a close friend as opposed to a business acquaintance.

The second option is to download the app now and reserve your username (I recommend you do this right away!). This won’t give you access to the club itself, but it will put you on a waiting list of sorts. If the app recognises that you have a few friends already on there, they might offer one of them the chance to ‘wave you through’, granting you access. Don’t worry; the app will almost definitely open up to everyone in time; it’s a very new platform and is essentially still in the testing stages, so this kind of ‘dam breaker’ is to be expected.

How Can Clubhouse Benefit My Business?

The first thing that springs to mind is, well, exclusivity. What do you need to do to get in a room with the richest person on the planet? With a Clubhouse invitation, you can hang out with Elon Musk (OK, OK, in a virtual room) without having to solve nuclear fission or gatecrash Tesla HQ. This is an extreme example but it gives you an idea as to the gigantic potential for connecting your business with the top dogs in your industry.

Think of it as a massive (virtual) building in which you can wander around and meet the type of people who can advance your business through advice, information, referrals, collaborations and recommendations. So kind of like a…clubhouse 🙂

Why is Clubhouse Good for Podcast Owners? 

Short-form content is great. So is one-way content. This blog allows me to write in as few (or as many) words exactly what’s on my mind and share it with my audience. But it’s also pretty limited in terms of actually engaging with my audience in an interactive and truly meaningful way.

The dialogue, the back and forth, the generation of new ideas that can only happen in live conversation – that’s what Clubhouse brings to the party. With ‘one-way’ communication, content creators are really only taking the temperature of their audience and cutting out content that they think will engage, inspire and connect. But in a conversation, you can go off on wild tangents, head on a deep dive on a subject that no one ever thought of before the chat and discover new things about the way you, your guest or your audience thinks about, well, everything!

If you are a fellow podcast host then Clubhouse is an awesome way to promote and grow your followership and brand. No one knows how insanely useful podcasts are more than me, but the space between episodes is, let’s face it, dead air. Clubhouse lets you interact with people between episodes in real time, so you can: 

  • Go deeper on subjects you’ve covered on your shows 
  • Discuss new ideas for future shows with the very people who will be listening to them (your audience)
  • Promote your show to a wider audience in other peoples ‘rooms’
  • Recruit interesting guests for upcoming interviews

How To Use Clubhouse For Networking

If you take your business on Clubhouse, you’ve got a whole new platform on which to make new connections, expand your network and get in contact with people who you simply would never meet in person…or who wouldn’t notice you on Twitter or Insta. Imagine meeting a life coach on Clubhouse and getting the opportunity to ask this business mentor a question that you’d usually have to pay thousands of bucks…for this type of access. (Elon, you’ve got my contact details: Clubhouse @jailong.)

How To Use Clubhouse For Collaborating

If you want to grow your business with Clubhouse then use it as a collaboration tool as well as a way to reach mentors and coaches. If someone’s made it into Clubhouse then they’re already at a certain level in their career, so your pool of contacts has already been filtered down to people who probably know how to achieve a decent level of success. These people will understand the benefit of cross-promotion on Clubhouse, so reach out and create a club or room together so that you can talk to each other’s audiences.

Growing Your Brand On Clubhouse

A business’s brand is arguably its most important asset and Clubhouse gives you the perfect platform on which to showcase your skills and knowledge. As I just mentioned, Clubhouse was built for deep dives – so if you want to connect with your audience on a deeper level (and maybe bust any limiting beliefs about hiring or collaborating with you) then start conversations that display just how much you know about your specialist subject. This will add so much value to your audience and will build trust in your brand amongst the people who will be talking about, sharing and potentially working with your brand.

How Can I Improve My Presence On Clubhouse?

The platform is in its very early stages but what I would recommend is putting a lot of thought into filling out your Clubhouse bio. This is going to decide whether most people connect with you…or don’t. Keep it short, impactful and to the point. Visitors should be able to scan your Clubhouse bio and know what you do within a second. Maybe two.

Create clubs! This is essential. We’ve talked about how the platform is interesting from a user perspective but from a business owner on Clubhouse, you want to be hosting a few parties. Create a club for your brand so that people can sign up and get to know what you’re all about on a more profound level.

How To Succeed On Clubhouse

OK, you’re through the door. The rush of getting past those (virtual) bouncers and into the main event is still with you, so harness that energy and start adding value to other members. Be consistent! Just like Google and most of the other tech giants with social platforms, Clubhouse values consistency. Show up at the same time each month/week/day and people will know when to find you, wherever you are in the world. Consistency is key to building a loyal following on Clubhouse.

Take advantage of the Clubhouse ping function, so if you’re confident that you have something valuable to talk about, ping your friends to invite them to join the room.


I don’t know about you guys, but hearing about new social media tools I can use to further my business gets me so excited! I can’t wait to get involved and start adding that extra layer of value to my clients and followers through Clubhouse. I hope you found this article helpful and more importantly, I hope you’re as stoked as I am!

Don’t forget to find me at Clubhouse!

When you login, you can find me by my username: @jailong

See you over there!


Clubhouse app with Jai Long

Our story so far – By Morgan Vandermark

It’s impossible to start our story without mentioning the person who brought us together. Who in a quest to chase his dream, died not long after. To us both, his last gift.


Dwight was Jai’s best mate & my cousin, who died on the other side of the globe racing sidecars in the deadliest race in the world.


June, 2016: Dwights Funeral

After an emotional funeral where my sister braved the audience with a speech & Jai and Leelou preformed a beautiful song. My mum, after a few drinks to send off Dwight, approached Jai without my knowledge to tell him that he has to give me a job. This is where the conversation began & a week later I started.

Dwight Beare

Dwight Beare.


It was Jai’s film photography that drew me into his work and is what I respected & loved so much. I was in ore of his photography. I remember showing my housemates when he would put up a new image; “How is this even possible?”.  I was desperate to learn from Jai. Apart from a love for film photography I really walked into Jai’s business a wee little pawn.

I started just watching. Soaking up everything that was in front of me. Editing, slideshows, album design, branding, marketing, photography. It all started small, with me asking question after question & taking way longer than you think Jai & Leelou would have the patience for. I had a spark for all things creative & our conversations always ended in great bursts of inspiration.

I’m always asked what it’s like to work under Jai so here it goes… Mayhem.

Jai has a unique perspective on all aspects of work, business & creativity. It’s an idea to action in the same breath. If it’s a good idea then “yep, get the gear, let’s do it now”. There is no dwelling on ideas or trying to ‘figure it out’. It’s just getting into it.

Jai doesn’t look at outside influence as something to peg your own abilities against. He only looks at what we create as a business & pegs it against our last work. Which is constantly improving. This view of Jai’s is insane and I believe why he is so profound at creating impact in all he does. His ability to only focus on our tasks at hand and what we are doing allows him to experience little to no doubt with more triumph as we celebrate in everything we create.

But, it’s not always cheersing a pint down at the local bar…

Sometimes it feels as though you are constantly being thrown in deep end; where if you stand on your tippy-toes & crank your neck to 90 degrees, you can just get enough air to move on with the task at hand. As soon as manage to tiptoe to a comfortable position I am ripped out into deeper water.

October, 2020: Phone call from Jai (Midway through Covid 19 lockdown)

Jai: Hey man, I want to make the biggest wedding photography summit in the world with the best speakers America has to offer.. I want you to run the whole thing. Are you up for it?

Me: Far out… Sounds incredible. Yes, let’s do it.


November, 2020 4:00 am : Summit Day 

Walking up the stairs of the building where we are broadcasting the summit. A team of four. No idea if all the planning would pull off and I really was ‘up for it’. Hearts pounding, using gear I have only tested a handful of times in a situation we have never experienced. Completely in-charge of tech, camera’s, audio, DJ, lights, internet and streaming to over 8000 people from around the world. ‘One minute until live’. Jai’s doing push up’s to up the energy & shake out the 4am feels. I am running over every situation that could go wrong with doubt creeping in. What if the internet cuts out, streaming platform has been set up incorrectly, audio sounds horrible, and on…

3…2…1… LIVE

Jai’s talking, but can people see him? hear him?

Chatbox opens and is going at a rate I can barely read. 2,000 people live. No one mentions an issue. Everything is working. (Exhales)… Thank fuck.

Our story so far has been one of growth, friendship, success & failure. From business to business, task to task. We have adapted & changed through anything in our way. My rolls are forever changing and adapting as our business grows and we aim higher taking on more complex tasks.

Through Heartbreak Hotel I helped Jai bring a business from paper to reality, from no work to booming, and from owning to selling, all in the space of four years.

Now, after almost 5 years after starting to work for Jai, I shoot all our video & photography content, edit everything, run our online workshops/summits, design, copywriting, directing & work alongside Jai in all aspects of the business.  Thanks to this wealth of knowledge I have attained from working under Jai I have also shot weddings, both photo & video, under my own name.

Every day I am excited to walk into work not knowing what crazy idea we will come up with & execute not long after. Jai & myself work together extremely well. We disagree rarely and when we do it’s usually on what we can do to make a thing we are creating as amazing as they can be. Even then we are able to sit back & listen to the other person, ready to be convinced and for our ideas & perspectives to merge into one complete super power.

I’m proud of all the things I have learned & overcome whilst working for Jai and I’m ready to say yes to whatever insane idea pops up next.


To work in this company alongside both Jai & Leelou is incredible.  Or as Dwight would say “living the dream”.

I hope you enjoyed a peak behind the curtains.

Morgan x



Working with Jai & Leelou at a shared studio in Cremorne, 2016. 

Morgan Vandermark and Jai Long

First time out shooting film with Jai + a model, 2017. 

Morgan Vandermark on film

Moved to a bigger shared studio in Collingwood, 2018.

Morgan Vandermark with Jai Long

Moved into our very own studio, 2019.

Morgan Vandermark

Preparing for the Summit, 2020.

Celebrating a successful summit, 2020.



Morgan Vandermark
Oli Sansom Wedding Photographer

Hello guys and welcome back to another episode of the Make Your Break podcast. All my guests are very special of course, but today I have an extra special guest on the show. His name is Oli Sansom, he’s a wedding photographer but also a bit of a director, filmmaker, designer, web developer; anything and everything creative! I’m going to talk to him about the friction between bad feedback, good feedback and how we can grow creatively. I’m lucky to call Oli a good friend and I can’t wait to chat with him on the podcast.

Oli’s Career So Far

Oli photographs humans in all different sorts of contexts. He shoots weddings, documentaries and has a passion for design and illustration. I think with Oli’s creativity, he hasn’t restricted himself to any labels, which is awesome. He’s always pushing himself. He describes himself as having a maniacal desire to bring out the best in all his projects. He’s a little bit of a perfectionist. He likes taking a craft approach to everything he does.

The Pros and Cons of Perfectionism

I’m the opposite of Oli when it comes to perfectionism; I just blast stuff out without checking it over too thoroughly, because I want to make the most impact I can all the time. Oli agrees that when you’re working towards impact, you can’t be too focused on perfectionism because it holds you back. He has only recently got back to a project he put off and has learned to loosen the reins a little when it comes to perfectionism. It can be a brick wall. Being able to define whether you’re being obsessive or careful is very useful. Oli thinks I jump into stuff quickly, but because I’ve been doing it for so long I’ve built up the background capital. That’s hugely important and people often don’t see it.

At the end of the day, it is a slow process, whether you’re being a perfectionist or not. You still have to put in the hours. If you’re a musician for example, it’s better to practise for ten minutes a day rather than an hour a week.

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How We Deal with Criticism

I think we all react differently to criticism, whether we experience it online or from someone close to us. I was interested in Oli’s take on this. He thinks that there’s an ongoing tension between needing that validation from our inner circle and needing the total opposite in our craft.

Oli studied multimedia design at Uni, where the teachers called things like they saw them. This helped the students not to attach their identity to their work, but it is quite different today when we’re used to constant validation from our social channels. You have to have a desire to show the world you can do what you set out to do. You need a fire. Oli thinks that these days, we have a culture of toxic positivity, which can be detrimental to the work we produce. You don’t want people constantly trashing your work, but at the same time you do need those kind of figures in your life, for the benefit of your craft. You need that underdog spirit, but you need to find it gracefully.

The Role of Positive Reinforcement

Studies have shown that the opposite is also true; there is a place for criticism, but if someone is creating something and you give them positive reinforcement, they will get better. Social media gives so much positive feedback, that I wonder if it has anything to do with the recent rapid development of some photographers online. Oli wonders what the metric is for artistic development these days and I think we may be moving further away from the artistic slant and more towards business.

Art vs. commerce will always be a tension, and in some ways you have to define which community you want to be a part of. You also want to decide whether you want to be loud or quiet. Oli’s recent work that’s interested him could be described as boring; the work he wants to do is not work that’s probably interesting to a lot of people. He wonders where that’s going to lead in the near future.

Dan o'Day and Oli Sansom

Validation Works Both Ways

I once received an email from someone who systematically criticised my work. While the person who sent it didn’t mean to be encouraging, it really fired up my underdog spirit; I was able to look at what he said objectively and learn from it. In-depth feedback is valuable, whatever it says. Oli agrees that validation works both ways; our industry is a luxury industry and it’s also very new. You can’t get too caught up in people’s opinions at the end of the day.

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Support Networks and Haters

I was wondering if Oli has a support network, and what kind of advice and feedback he gets from them. Oli says it starts with his business partner, which is a completely transparent friendship. They say what’s on their mind all the time. He doesn’t take anything that comes through Instagram too seriously; he has about ten people around him whose input and opinions he values.

In terms of haters and trolls, Oli has seen his fair share. Being online in and of itself means you’re open to haters. If you get them, at least you know something you’re putting up is having an impact one way or another. In terms of my own career, I think the last six months have been the most instructive and valuable. I feel like I hold myself back sometimes because I listen to the haters. No matter how strong you are, it can be hard sometimes to tune them out. But I’m actually enjoying my haters these days.

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Staying Positive in 2020

I find it’s hard for me to grow when things are going well. It gets comfortable and there’s nothing new to learn. I was excited to come up with new solutions when COVID hit, because the whole landscape changed completely. Oli agrees; the only way to look at this scenario from a business point of view is as an opportunity. It’s the mental fight you have to engage with on a daily basis. You have to wake up and get on with it, despite how you may feel.

Oli views it like a marriage; it’s not a one time deal, you have to work on it every day. I think that’s a great way to look at it. You can look at it as a fun thing or a bad thing. Either way, there will be rough times in business. It’s how you deal with them that counts.

I want to thank Oli for coming on the show, it was so awesome to talk to him. If you want to check Oli’ work out, you can find him on his official Oli Sansom website or Instagram.

Thanks for joining us as always guys! See you next time!

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I believe in setting big goals and taking big risks to get the success you want in life. I am a Business Coach and mentor and it’s important to me to be inspiring people with not only what I have done in the past, but with what I can do right now.


Do what others won’t to get the success others don’t have.


I seen so much negativity in the wedding photography industry and people really struggling throughout 2020 and for good reason, it’s been bloody hard for most of us. I didn’t want the year to end that way though and I said to Morgan (my right-hand man) “F*ck it, let’s do something big”.

I told him that I am willing to invest $75,000 (my savings) into something and bring some positivity to the industry and help those people that really need it most right now.

Now as a business coach, many people thought I was crazy. Why would you do something that could lose money? But look, I am an entrepreneur, not a business owner. It’s not always about money and a return on investment and all that other boring stuff that doesn’t make my life fun. It’s about pushing to see what is possible. Inspiring, motivating others, and lifting people up.

Life is too short to just be chasing a “return on investment”.

But as we all know… Those that are willing to do something for free, with love and passion, often received the greatest rewards. And that to me, is the definition of a ‘Creative Entrepreneur’.

Wedding Photography Summit Behind The Scenes Documentary

12-speakers, 2-days, 8159 attendees, over 50 countries, over 10 hours of live streaming. Watch the video to see how it went down!

Jai Long speaking live

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Obviously, I got a lot of push-back and skepticism and we got a lot of love and support at the same time. It was a risky move, but one that I knew was important right now.


Morgan and I did the simple maths and worked out how affordable we could make this event so people that need it most will have access.


I had $75,000 to invest so we figured, why not make the tickets $7 and try to get 10,000 attendees. I know…. That’s a bit of a stretch and literally, no one in the world has done something like this before. But I thought f*ck it, why isn’t it possible? Who says it can’t work?


Getting 10,000 to a workshop is a mega task for any marketing and advertising agency and Morgan and I did it on our own, bootstrapping the whole way and using all kinds of marketing hacks under the sun to make the dream work.


The risk for this was huge. I know I could have failed massively in front of the whole industry and I could have lost a lot of money. But you know what, life is too short to worry about a scenario that doesn’t even exist yet. So we went guns blazing and put 100% into everything.


All in or nothing. ALWAYS

Jai Long Wedding Photography Summit

This event pushed my comfort zone and what I thought was possible. I had to reach out to the industry leaders to try and pitch them the idea, often waking up at 3 am to jump on a zoom call to make the time difference work. I had to learn Facebook ads and new marketing strategies that I haven’t done before, and Morgan and I had to learn all the hardware and software to make it all work.

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We gave ourselves 5 weeks to do all of that.


Fast forward to the Wedding Photography Summit 2020 and we hit some milestones. One of them being we created the biggest wedding photography workshop in the world and we impacted so many lives that needed help at this exact moment.


8159 Attendee
10+ hours of live streaming


All I can say is, dream big. Have unrealistic goals that inspire people. Because why not go in 100% into what you love and feel alive.

Those that would take on big risks for the love of what they do, will always see big returns from the universe and I believe this 100%.

Now we are looking towards 2021 and how we can bring it back. Even bigger and even better. So If you enjoyed the ride so far, don’t worry, more to come.

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The speaker lineup included:

🌟 Jai Long
🌟Jonas Peterson
🌟 India Earl
🌟 Fer Juaristi
🌟 Dawn Jarvis
🌟 Kaley From Kansas
🌟 Elizabeth Austin
🌟 Olivia Markle
🌟 By Leelou
🌟 Igor Demba
🌟 Dylan Howell
🌟 Anni Graham

Inspiring the Sailors inside the Six-Figure Business Map Course

This is the post I put into the Six-Figure Business Map Facebook group, to help inspire those building their own business and really teaching from example.

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That’s it! Let me know in the comments below if you were apart of this workshop! I want to hear from you!

Jai x

Wedding Photography Summit 2020

Hey guys and welcome to another episode of Make Your Break. Today I’m talking with destination wedding photographer and master story teller Jonas Peterson about the importance of narrative in art. You’ve probably heard people talk a lot about the importance of storytelling, both in your craft and in your business. Stories are the core of connection; they also help you create desire and value around what you do. Your story will make you unique and more importantly, authentic.

How I Met Jonas Peterson

Before I became a full-time wedding photographer, I spent a couple of weeks in Thailand with my wife. I remember not being happy with my job; I didn’t want to leave Thailand and go back to it.  Photography had always been a passion of mine, so I thought that might be a good place to start. After scrolling through some photography blogs online, I came across wedding photographer Jonas Peterson and I was absolutely blown away by his work. He inspired me to pursue wedding photography.

A year or so later, I saw that Jonas Peterson was holding a workshop. I was barely able to afford it, but I knew I had to get in that room. Attending that workshop was the first step that got me where I am now, so I am thrilled to be able to talk to Jonas on the podcast today and show you all why I was so inspired by him when I was first starting out.

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Getting Creative with Wedding Photography

Jonas Peterson is a destination wedding photographer whose work has taken him all over the world. Jonas started out as a copywriter in advertising, where he had a successful career for years. After a while, he found himself getting burnt out and decided to transition to his passion, photography. He initially saw wedding photography as the lowest form of the craft, as he didn’t think it promoted creativity.

But he found the challenge of reinventing a form appealing. He knew he wanted to do it differently to everyone else; he just had to decide how. Jonas realised that the majority of wedding photography fell into two categories; high-end, precise shoots or cheesy, poorly-executed snapshots. He found there was a lack of story in both and decided that’s where he would make his mark.

This approach paid off; he went from shooting one wedding for his friends to shooting 40 weddings in his first year and 65 in his second. Very quickly, Jonas became one of the top wedding photographers in the world thanks to his narrative-based approach. He extended this focus on story-telling to his website and social channels, ignoring the traditional wedding photographer website format and designing his own. The response was immediate and overwhelmingly positive.

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The Importance of Standing Out

Jonas thinks that standing out from your competition is crucial. He thinks you should get nervous if your work starts to look the same as everyone else. I agree; if I scroll through a social media hashtag, I often find amazing photographers, but I can never remember their names because they blend in with everyone else. As competition increases, I think it’s actually easier to identify gaps in the market and ways to standout from other photographers.

Jonas thinks that wedding photography is inherently formulaic. But that gives creatives a chance to really break out of the mould. Especially nowadays, as wedding photography has become kind of cool; there are many ways to reinvent the wheel. You have to do what makes sense to you. For example, Jonas doesn’t shoot ring shots, because it made no sense to him. This doesn’t mean that nobody should do it. It just means that it’s not part of his identity as a photographer. You should always question why you’re shooting a specific shot and if it makes sense to you. This will help you stand out in the long run.

The Power of Storytelling

Jonas Peterson’s storytelling skills are obvious in his work. But I was interested in how he integrates storytelling into the rest of his business. Jonas believes anything and everything should be a story, even the ‘About’ page of a website. As humans, are brains are wired towards stories; we try to turn everything into a narrative. If you can tell a story through each and every interaction your work has with the public, people will connect more with your work, and more willing to pay money for it. The goal should always be to make people feel something.

I totally agree with Jonas. I was doing some research the other day, and came across a guy in Hollywood who has a hand in every big script that gets made. He has a step-by-step process inspired by Joseph Campbell’s The Hero’s Journey, which informs most films and stories. These basic steps can be applied to anything from a major Hollywood film to a wedding photographer’s website. Jonas even employs storytelling in his emails and urges others to do the same. ‘Story’ doesn’t mean that you have to create some elongated narrative; it just means you have to link it back to something personal.

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Making People Feel

The goal of good storytelling is to make people feel something, so that they can attach themselves to your story. When people look at Jonas Peterson’s wedding photography, they imagine themselves feeling the same way on their wedding day. That’s why they hire him. His storytelling inspires emotions in his prospective clients, who project themselves into the same kind of story. They want to feel and look the same way.

One of the biggest mistakes I see people making on their website is making the story about themselves. Jonas thinks that sometimes people are afraid to share their own journey and include anything about themselves. You have to strike the right balance between opening up about yourself and also taking yourself out of the narrative. For example, Jonas’ father passed away when he was 25, so he finds himself connecting more deeply with stories about absent parents. He also finds that he produces his best work when he connects with people and experiences. He cares more deeply about it.

Carve Your Own Path

Jonas wants to underline that this is his approach, and it might not apply to everyone. There are plenty of other successful photographers who do things differently. You don’t have to be the type of photographer who’s digging for the story at every opportunity like Jonas. Highly aesthetic-focused, editorial styles that look amazing on the surface are totally fine too. Do whatever you want, just do it the best you can. Decide on who you are and what you believe in. Then run with it. People will always respond to how you see the world if you’re being authentic.

If you’d like to say hi and share your own story with Jonas Peterson, you can get in touch with him on his website, on his Instagram or on Twitter.

I want to say a big thank you to Jonas for taking the time to chat with me. It’s always so refreshing to hear his take on the business and I hope people realise how valuable his point of view is.

Big thanks to you guys too for listening! I’ll catch you next episode!

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Jonas Peterson Photographer

I believe that what we put out to the world creates our own reality. Even in trying times like now, with COVID-19 dominating our lives, how we react to the pandemic will define our existence.  Someone who has really adopted that optimistic mindset is Justine Missen, a student of mine from my six-figure business map course. So today I’ve invited Justine on to the show, to have a little chat about her experience with both the business map course and her own entrepreneurship.

Listen to the full episode on the Make Your Break Podcast.

Starting Out

Building a six-figure wedding photography business is no small feat. While Justine Missen has only been in business for two years, and she’s already making massive strides towards her goals. After she had her first child in 2017, Justine was trying to figure out what to do with her career, after feeling her current job left her unfulfilled. She didn’t know how to use a camera at that stage, but she borrowed her husband’s camera and started snapping shots of friends and her new baby.

After a couple of friends asked Justine to shoot their weddings, she committed totally to photography and fell in love with the craft. She didn’t have a background in business or photography, so she had to learn a lot in a short space of time. Fortunately, she was extremely dedicated and worked hard.

Justine Missen Photography

Overcoming the Fear of Failure

Justine said there were times in the beginning where things were pretty scary, and the fear of failure loomed large. She was very conscious of how people perceived her, especially after having a baby. But she soon put that negativity out of her mind and followed her dream. She worked a lot on her mindset, which helped negate the fear of failure. I know for myself, I have to work daily on my mindset, training my habits and thoughts. Justine has only been practising this for a couple of years, but says she feels like a totally different person.

Identifying Opportunities

Justine listened a lot to me and other creative entrepreneurs when the coronavirus hit; instead of getting depressed over the state of the industry like many of our peers, she began to see opportunities instead. I was interested to see how Justine believed in herself enough to listen to the message that I was putting out. She thinks it hit her at the right time. Before COVID-19 hit, the work diary for Justine Missen Photos was full for 2020. While she did initially feel put out by the way the year turned out, she soon realised it was an opportunity to listen to people who were making the most of the situation. My message came along at the right time. The end result is that her Justine Missen Photos business has grown beyond her wildest expectations this year. She’s now in a position that she didn’t expect to be in for another three or five years.

I know for myself, when coronavirus hit, I was already expecting some form of recession in 2020. I had one or two days of self-pity in March, but then I snapped out of it and started looking at the opportunities it presented.

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Celebrate Your Wins

If you want to build a six-figure wedding photography business, having a community behind you that supports your work is key. Lifting each other up is a major game changer. Justine agrees; she used to feel like she was being arrogant when she talked about things she was doing well, but now she’s excited to share her experiences online and maybe inspire someone else in the same position. It can be hard to find this kind of community, but once you do, everything clicks into place. It’s so important for our growth to celebrate our wins. They don’t just come out of nowhere, they are the result of tons of hard work and graft. They deserve to be shared and celebrated,

Booking Her Biggest Package So Far

Justine Meissen Photos recently booked their biggest package ever and I was interested to know how Justine felt about it. She said that while she strives to be valuable to all her clients, she realised that she was selling herself a bit short in some areas. She used to have a standard package, but decided to offer her clients more options. This is one of the key steps I talk about when it comes to building a six-figure wedding photography business. People like to go shopping. When Justine’s clients booked that top package, they expressed how pleased they were that it contained everything they needed. People aren’t always looking for the cheapest option. They want the most value for their money.

Invest in Yourself Too

Investing money in yourself is important. You need to check your ego at the door and listen and learn from people who know better than you. This is one of best shortcuts to building a six-figure wedding photography business. Yes, your photos have to be great, but so does your website. So does your copy. Justine is rebranding next month and overhauling her site; this time last year she would have been terrified to spend money on something like that, but now she sees the inherent value in it.

Connecting with People

Connecting with other people is so important. As a photographer and an educator, it’s one of the most important things for me. The more you share, the more you relate to people, the more people will love and believe in what you do. They’ll want to invest in you, your ideas and your business. I love connecting and providing value to people; I don’t love business in the abstract. Justine feels the same. For the first time ever she has people paying in full, because they’re aware times might be tough right now. She feels this is a result of giving up her time for people, and it makes her more inclined to keep giving. She tries to always be there for people, connecting with them and adding value to them.

My brother-in-law Kyle Lionheart is a pretty famous musician. I was doing a few mentoring sessions with him, and advised him to bring as much value as possible to his live shows. Even as a musician, you have to treat it like a business. How do you create the most value for people? Once you offer that, people won’t care what they pay you; they’ll be grateful for the experience. Justine never liked talking about money before, but now it’s one of her favourite subjects. Whenever anyone pays off an instalment or a deposit, she makes sure to thank them. Even little gestures like this can foster connection and add value to an experience.

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Balancing Family and Work

Justine Missen photos is well on its way to becoming a six-figure wedding photography business, but I was interested in what Justine thought was holding her back right now. What is her ceiling? For myself, I’m always trying to work out what the next step is. Justine says she’s not so sure; she’s interested in scaling her business and taking it as far as it can go. Justine feels like she’s the next step, because her life is so hectic. She has outsourced a lot of the things that don’t work for her schedule, but it’s always a balance. Involving her family in her business is very important for her. At the moment, Justine spends just six hours a week on her business, and she’s already within reach of six figures. She feels like she’s already there, which is the key to an abundant mindset.

I understand exactly what Justine’s talking about. I’ve made plenty of sacrifices over the past few years; although my business makes a lot of money, I pump it straight back in. But despite that, I live like I am rich because I know I will be one day. It’s not a matter of ‘if’, it’s a matter of ‘when’. When you have that mentality, the growth keeps stacking up. I have to commend Justine, because there’s not many people within year two of their business who have that mindset. The minute you live and breath the life that you want, it will come. That may sound airy-fairy, but it’s the truth.

I personally don’t believe in saving money. You’re sacrificing your lifestyle in the now. My philosophy is f**k saving. Work out how to make the money for what you want. I don’t want to put in my mind that I can’t afford things or I don’t deserve it. Justine agrees with this. Even if she doesn’t have the money for something she wants, she’ll find it somehow. She doesn’t deny herself or her business anything and it feels like money is a by-product of her following her passion. That’s the exact space you need to be in as a creative entrepreneur.

Justine’s last piece of advice is to not get in your head too much about things. When you can see someone who can help you, don’t let fear hold you back. Go for it.  If it feels right, do it.

I want to thank Justine so much for coming on the podcast today. If you’d like to check out more of her work or get in touch with her, check out her website Justine Missen Photos or her Instagram.

Thanks so much for taking the time to listen, guys! Catch you next episode.

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James Simmons Photography

Hey guys and welcome to another episode of Make Your Break! Today I’m thrilled to be talking to Western Australia wedding photographer James Simmons. He’s an incredible artist with many awards to his name; our paths have crossed before at workshops, but I can’t wait to talk to him in-depth on the podcast!

How James Simmons Made his Break

James got interested in photography when he was living (and surfing) down in the South-West. He took a lot of shots of friends out on the waves and the competitive nature of capturing the best shot hooked him. His mother was also a photography teacher, so he was familiar with the process and intrigued by the magic of the dark room.

Unfortunately, James made the wrong kind of break when he snapped his arm in two while surfing. While in rehab, he couldn’t do manual labour, so he went back to college and studied film and photography. He cut his teeth with an apprenticeship at a wedding portrait studio. It was here that he started to figure out what he liked and didn’t like about photography; he combined the arts-based approach from Uni with the more commercially driven angle he picked up at the studio.

Going Solo

He spent five years in the studio while psyching himself up for a solo career as a wedding photographer. He started booking his own gigs and eventually took off on his own, utilising all the knowledge he’d picked up.

James found that the most exciting part of setting up his business was the branding and strategy side. For me, I’ve started so many businesses and I agree with James; the first two years are always the most exhilarating. You have to be able to have fun with that kind of stuff, otherwise fear will stop you doing anything.

Getting Creative Through Playing

I’m friends with some of the best wedding photographers in the world, and I’ve found that everyone at that level doesn’t mind failing. They treat their careers almost like a game, allowing themselves to get creative and playing with their work. James agrees that this is an important thing to do in order to drive creativity. You have to let your imagination run wild. That’s the point where we start to get curious and interested in asking questions. You can’t reach this level without a fair bit of acceptance of failure. You have to keep it fun.

When you’re having a good time, you don’t worry about things so much. You’re freer in the moment and happy to be part of the process. You’re not concerned with the ultimate result, you enjoy the craft moment-to-moment. On a wedding, there can be stressful moments when you have to capture something crucial, of course. But overall, James thinks that allowing yourself to play leaves you open to more options and unique results.

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Turning Weaknesses into Strengths

A lot of people always ask me how I learned to do certain things, but I’m always playing with things; I don’t do it unless it’s fun. I only do what’s fun in both business and wedding photography. When it comes to wedding photography James Simmons agrees. You’ve got to accentuate the positive parts of the job and find shortcuts through the things you don’t enjoy. For example, when he started out, James only had one 50mm prime lens. While that might seem like a restriction, James turned it into a strength by getting creative with it. Even though he now has a wide choice of lenses, he still finds himself going back to the 50mm for a large majority of his work.

I love that James describes this as taking away the complication. I often find that business owners over-complicate things unnecessarily. But what people don’t realise is that I love restrictions. The more that I put myself in a small box, the more creative I become. This applies to both my photography and my business. James thinks that simplifying things is the key. Just the other week, James got together with a few friends, hung out and took some shots with whatever gear they had to hand. He really enjoyed having that freedom.

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Tips on Getting More Creative

I wondered if James had any tips on how to get more creative. For myself, I find that giving myself the space to think helps me come up with new ideas. The less that I do, the more I think. But if I’m working all the time, I don’t have the required space to make the impact I want to make. James finds that he’s struggled to pursue an idea because he wanted it to ‘mean something’. But he realised recently that you just have to start. The creativity comes from the process. As you start working, a lot of those concepts manifest themselves naturally.

I think that’s so true. As soon as I get to work, ideas come and things just happen. There’s no point waiting for creativity to strike, as it won’t happen every day. You’ve just got to get on with it and allow yourself to be open to inspiration and ideas as you move through the process. James thinks the same is true for business; once he gets started on the task, it can spur on other ideas. I also think that it’s important to hang out with people on the same wavelength as you. I just did a mentor session with a family photographer; at the end of it I was amazed at the amount of ideas we both came up with together that we would never have come up with on our own.

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Clearing Your Mind

Giving yourself the space to reset your mind is crucial for both your business and your craft. I’ve found that the more time I’ve taken off, the more money I’ve made and the more people I’ve impacted. Even during this pandemic, I’ve made more money and connected with more people than I ever have in my life. James agrees and thinks it’s important to get that kind of clarity about your business and life in general. I take an hour walk everyday to try and organise my thoughts. I’m such a big believer in taking the time to focus on your thoughts and unlocking the potential to get what you want. It’s all in there; you just have to organise it the right way.

Future Plans

I remember James once told me he’d like to start  his own James Simmons brewery some day. As he mentioned an upcoming photography project with a brewery, I thought I’d ask if he was still keeping the dream alive. He could easily transfer the entrepreneurial skills he’s learnt over the years to another business. James would never say never, but he views brewing (and drinking) beer as more of a hobby at this stage. He thinks he needs the right contacts before launching that kind of business, but he loves doing it as a hobby.

Starting over in another business is scary, just as starting in the photography business was scary at the beginning. But once you educate yourself and figure out all the details, it becomes a lot less intimidating. At the moment, James is still pushing his photography business as far as it can go. In this pandemic downtime he’s focusing on revamping his James Simmons wedding photography branding and creating more content. He wants to create a website that can add value for clients, offering them info and tips around weddings. He’s also keeping a close eye on how the wedding industry is evolving during the course of the pandemic, and how that might play out into the future. For example, as weddings get smaller, photographers might have to shoot two or three weddings on a weekend as opposed to one big one.

Even though the landscape is changing, you just have to figure out how to add value and be the first to do it. In the end, it’s all playing; you have to figure out how to make the best of the situation instead of dwelling on the negatives.

I want to say a huge thank you to James Simmons for coming on the podcast and chatting with me. If you’re interested in seeing more of James’ work or want to ask him any questions, you can check out his website, Instagram and Facebook.

Thank you so much for listening guys; please take the time to leave a review if you enjoyed this podcast, I’d really appreciate it. I’ll see you next episode!

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Hi guys and welcome to the Make Your Break podcast. I have an awesome episode lined up for you today. I’m talking to wedding photographer and educator Fer Juaristi from Mexico. Today’s interview is one of my favourites in a long time. Fer’s tagline is ‘be grateful for what you have and fearless for what you want’. This really sums him up perfectly! Honest interviews like these are one of the main reasons why I started this podcast. So let’s get straight into it!

The Stigma of Money

Fer Juaristi is an amazingly successful wedding photographer, but it took him a long time to come to terms with the idea that, as an artist, it was acceptable to make money. The stereotype of creatives is that they’re going to end up living with their parents. Money doesn’t have to be a scary thing. But Fer feels it’s very hard to break out of that mindset, especially in South America. Going to workshops in the U.S. and expanding his horizons has helped Fer empower himself and his art.


The Willingness to Fail

Fer believes you have to be willing to fail in order to succeed. Instead of thinking of life as a game where you only have one life, think of yourself as having four, five or six lives. Give yourself the space to fail. It was also important for Fer to rise above the embedded ways of thinking in his culture. For example, instead of changing his car every two years like the people around him, he made do with the same car for a number of years.

Mexico teaches people to be humble all the time, which Fer feels is connected to the strong religious presence in the country. He also points out how many people in Mexico love soap operas and thinks that they could spend their time watching TED Talks or listening to an awesome podcast. There’re no excuses anymore. But too often education is seen as an expense, rather than an investment.

I totally agree. Not all spending is the same. We like to spend money on instant gratification, not on long-term investment like website design or your brand.


Wedding photographer Fer Juaristi

Making Sacrifices

Sacrifices in any kind of creative career are hugely important. Would you rather get to where you want to go even if you have to make a small sacrifice, or would you rather stay where you are right now? Change in your life will require a sacrifice. Fer believes you have to have faith in yourself. In Latin America, people are content to sit back and watch their heroes as opposed to being the hero themselves. But it’s about making a movement from this mindset. Conferences can be a great place to expand your contacts and creativity; I actually met Fer Juaristi at one of these events. I was impressed by his work beforehand, but I was also impressed by how he took the time to chat with me.

When Fer started his wedding photography, he found the older generation were jealous about the upcoming photographers and closely guarded what they knew. He wants to change that and inspire the younger generation instead. He doesn’t want to ever stop learning; he’s learned to shut the f*ck up and listen more (even though it’s hard).


Art Vs. Business

Listening and acknowledging other viewpoints while reconciling your own is definitely a skill. Fer used to go to conferences and see other photographers discussing business. He used to think these people didn’t know what they were talking about, but as time went on, he realised the business side was as necessary as the creative side. He’s still trying to make peace with that and finds it a constant struggle.

Business practices all over the world had to change thanks to COVID. Fer has seen more educational courses crop up in recent months, which is great. I love the idea of people being able to access educators they can emulate. They don’t have to waste a lot of years in college, they can go straight to the source. College is not always worth the huge expense, especially when you can access so much awesome info for free in the form of podcasts.



So many people are at home right now losing business. For many people, it’s their first recession. I was interested in what kind of challenges Fer has faced during his career, and what kind of resilience he’s had to show in response. Fer thinks that the first step is to have the courage necessary to chase the goal and take the first step. When he was first starting out, he and his family didn’t have the income to provide for themselves, so they had to stay with Fer’s parents-in-law. You have to rely on your family to support you. Value people on their energy and aspirations.

Another big change for Fer was changing his website from Spanish to English, even though his peers thought it was a bad idea. He has also forged strong relationships with wedding planners who appreciate his work. Fer Juaristi has been a wedding photographer for 14 years now, so he’s experienced many failures and many successes, as anyone who strikes out on their own must.


Wedding photographer Fer Juaristi

The Biggest Event in Fer’s Life

I was interested in the biggest event that’s defined Fer’s life or his career. In Mexico, you ask for a 30-year loan to buy a house. His wife told him that they were going to own their house in two years once he started on his path to being a wedding photographer. Although he didn’t believe her at the time, he worked so hard over those two years and his wife’s prediction came true.

Fer finds his biggest challenge is to believe in himself. He finds it easier to believe in other people. That resonates with me so much, as I have the same relationship with my own wife; she believes in me more than I do most of the time. Everybody wants to make the right decisions, but you also need the willingness to take the wrong ones, because these are the ones you learn most from. Fear can paralyse you or push you.


Wedding photographer Fer Juaristi

Rolling the Dice

I really liked Fer’s gamification metaphor from earlier in the chat. It’s something I also believe wholeheartedly, that we have more than one chance at life. I was wondering if that’s how Fer also views his own career and art. Does he like rolling the dice?

Fer was never used to the good life, so he’s never chased luxury. He still feels weird when his wife takes him to a fancy restaurant. Because he has very specific goals for his business, he wants to keep everything as low cost as possible so he has room to experiment with his craft and art. This is how he chooses to roll the dice. I love that mindset and it’s something I implement in my own life.

The hardest thing to change is survival mode, in Fer’s opinion. If you leave your ego behind, you can shift this mindset. You should do whatever it takes to give you peace of mind. Social media is like high school in a way, but no one fundamentally cares what you do. Fer doesn’t want to monetise his talent on every job. He finds a balance between doing what he loves and what is necessary.


Wedding photographer Fer Juaristi

Defining Success

I recently closed down my studio as we’re under lockdown in Australia. Someone asked how I could be successful when I couldn’t even open my studio. But all I could see was them projecting their anxiety on to me. But with a shift of mindset, you’ll see that no one cares about you. They care about themselves.  You need to let go of that ego and learn to thrive instead of survive.

You also need to redefine what success means to you. It’s a huge challenge, but Fer thinks we have to take that risk. He knows rich people who are not that happy, and also poorer people who always seem delighted with life. When Fer realised this, it allowed him to switch his mindset. Waking up with a smile and empowering other people gives him much more gratification than another zero in his bank account.

I define my success as my willingness to do and fail. I think about this all the time. If I organise a workshop and no one turns up, I’ll still have a smile on my face because I put myself out there. That’s why I create so many things with the aim of helping people. I always face failure with a smile because I know it’s all part of my success. Knowledge doesn’t represent mastery. It is far better to try and fail, instead of not doing anything at all and simply commenting on the efforts of others.

Fer’s final message is to not be afraid to contact the people you admire. He finds the wedding photography industry to be one of the most humble he’s known. Try and honour that. Don’t be a bad human, don’t ask for things; instead, try to solve each other’s problems.

If you’re interested in hearing more from Fer Juaristi, you can find him on his official websiteInstagram, Patreon and Facebook.

I want to say a huge thank you to Fer Juaristi for sharing his insights and stories with us. Thanks for listening guys, until next time!


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Hi guys and welcome to Make Your Break. You all know I talk a lot about mindset; it’s so important for a creative entrepreneur. I’m delighted to welcome a very special guest on the show today; An Award-Winning Leadership Strategist, Harvard-trained coach and member of the esteemed Forbes Coaches Council, Shadé Zahrai is a specialist in building a success mindset, self-belief and self-mastery for business professionals, and enhancing people-centric cultures.

Finding the Right Mindset

Even in lockdown, I’ve been finding time to accentuate the positives and keep focused on my business and personal growth. I was wonder if Shadé had any insights into keeping a strong mental framework during challenging times. It’s a scary time at the moment, especially for entrepreneurs, with COVID-19 raging around the world. While fight-or-flight may naturally kick in, Shadé says that isn’t a useful response.

Shadé left the corporate world in March of this year, deciding to focus solely on creative entrepreneurship. Her and her husband were going to move to South East Asia, but a week before they were due to fly, the main COVID restrictions hit. This has given Shadé a chance to implement the mindset techniques for herself that she usually teaches to others.

Shadé Zahrai

Defining your Mindset as a Response

With live events and speaking engagements up in the air, Shadé Zahrai decided to experiment with different methods of reaching an audience. She went online, started up a TikTok that in three months had clocked up almost 250,000 followers. It’s opened up a huge audience that Shadé never would have thought she would reach. When you conduct yourself with the right mindset, the right people align themselves with you, and opportunities seem to pop out everywhere.

Yes, revenue and projections have been hit hard in the current circumstances, but Shadé has been using this time to make sure that she’s well placed when things open up again. By reaching an audience through new channels, she hopes she’ll be the first one they think of when business is back to normal.

Growing a Following

Since focusing on her online platforms, Shadé’s reach has grown significantly. In addition to TikTok, she also has almost 16k Instagram followers. The important element to this growth is a genuine desire to help people, as opposed to trying to sell them something. Add as much value as you can. Your thoughts shape how you feel. In turn, they influence your environment. This is a strange, uncertain time, but the people who are reframing their mindset are faring best. It allows them to regain some control.

Demonstrating Mindset

Shadé shares a story she often uses in her keynote speeches. Two English shoe salesmen were sent to Africa in the 1900s to conduct market research. They did their job and sent a report back to the U.K. The first salesman said, ‘unmitigated disaster. No one here wears shoes’. The second said, ‘glorious opportunity. No one here wears shoes’. Two people, in exactly the same situation, with the same amount of information. Their mindset alone made them difference.

I would call myself an opportunist, because I identify opportunity all the time. My revenue was hit by COVID, but I saw an opportunity to expand my reach online and focus on my podcast. Shadé agrees; you’ve got to actively choose to see the opportunity. It comes down to a concept in psychology called cognitive appraisal. Basically, it’s the mental process we go through to assess the world around us. When you identify something as a crisis or a threat, it physically drains your energy. Your body releases noradrenaline, which constricts the muscles around your blood vessels, resulting in less blood flowing around the body. This leaves you more susceptible to negative thoughts.

However, when you see a situation as an opportunity instead of a threat, it changes everything. You physically get more oxygen; you can breath more deeply and you have more mental acuity. This is the power of our thoughts and the result of what we choose to focus on. If we wake up feeling negative, this will influence everything in your day, and more broadly, your life. Your mindset can physically affect your body.

Influencing Your Thoughts

I was interested in knowing whether you can change your mindset over time. For example, if you’re a naturally negative or narcissistic person, but you take the time to meditate and be grateful every morning, will that have an impact in the long-term? Shadé Zahrai says yes, for two reasons. One, the research backs it up, and two, she’s seen it in herself. A thought pattern is simply a neural pathway in the brain which is being activated. We can create new pathways in the brain through practise. When it comes to riding a bike or driving a car, you don’t think about what you’re doing, it’s muscle memory. The same thing applies to thoughts.

Some recent research from Georgetown University reinforces this view. When you speak your thoughts, they have far more impact than if you keep them within your head. In this scenario, negativity acts the same way, but more powerfully. So when we talk about being positive, it’s not about fanatical positivity. It’s about constantly reinforcing a positive view in the face of difficult or trying circumstances.

Dealing with Negative Emotions

I’ve been practising emotional intelligence for the last number of years. If I’m experiencing negative emotions, I allow myself to explore those feelings instead of just dismissing or denying them. Shadé agrees that this is the correct practise, because if you don’t do it, you’re denying the human experience. You should ask yourself questions in response to these emotions, and try to figure out why you’re having them in the first place, rather than repressing them. Shadé was once told that emotions are like data, or information. We choose what we do with that information.

Shadé Zahrai

The Five Types of Critical Voice

Our internal critical voices become louder in challenging times. Much of Shadé Zahrai’s psychology-based work has been helping professional women navigate their business world and improving their mindset. Through that, she’s identified five critical voices that are lurking inside our minds, waiting for an opportunity to speak.

The first is the classic judge, which we use to berate ourselves for not doing enough. The second is the victim, which is a pessimistic, powerless voice. Many people find themselves listening to this voice in the current circumstances. The third is the protector, which wants to protect you from harm. It keeps reminding you that you might fail; but in trying to keep you safe it holds you back from positive action.

Next is the ringmaster, which tells you that your value is based on how disciplined you are. It makes it so that your sense of self worth is proportional to your output, and if you slow down just one little bit, you’ll feel like a failure. Last is the neglector, who tells you that everyone else’s needs are more important than yours. Shadé finds this one is more common in women, who have internalised a ‘carer’ role. All of us have these five voices within us; they can emerge at different points in our lives. But they are not us, they are sub-personalities. We can acknowledge they’re there, while still trying to rise above them.

Supporting Women in Business

I find most of my audience are female, as men are often too stubborn to learn new things. Ego gets in the way. When I do my workshops, I want to make sure that everyone steps up to table equally, instead of advocating initiatives like ‘girl power’, which doesn’t sit right with me. Shadé has always believed that men and women are two wings of the same bird. Women are more likely to focus on what they lack. When you start to identify what you’re missing however, you’ll start to see more and more things that you lack. In the long-term, this will hold you back.

Studies have found that men apply for promotions when they satisfy about 60% of the job criteria. Women will wait until they satisfy 100%. We’re never going to feel completely ready or know everything, so engendering confidence in yourself and your skills is hugely important. You have so much to offer, but if you don’t recognise it, no one else will either. Even though Shadé’s work is geared towards women, she finds that men often reach out to her too with confidence issues. It affects both genders, but women do struggle with it more.

Shadé Zahrai’s advice is to focus on your strengths instead of your weaknesses. Early on in her career, she realised that she was one of those people who focused on the things she couldn’t do. This held her back and prevented her from stepping into her power. Create your own momentum.

If you’d like to hear more about the work Shadé is doing, you can find her on Facebook, Instagram, TikTok or on her website. She’d love to connect with you!

I want to say a huge thank you to Shadé on behalf of my community and myself for taking the time to talk to us and inspire us with her insights. See you next time!

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Hi guys, today I have a very special episode on the Make Your Break Podcast for you. I didn’t have much in the way of education; all of my learning came from me going out there, rolling up my sleeves and gaining that all-important lived experience. I love teaching from that space. So on the podcast today, I wanted to invite on another wedding photographer and educator India Earl.

I really connect with India because I identify with her strong work ethic. She’s an industry leader, but she’s always out there, giving back to the community. I think she’s a great fit for the podcast and I can’t wait to chat with her. Different points of view and perspectives are hugely important in this game! Let’s dive in and see what insights wedding photographer India Earl can give us.

How India Made Her Break

India Earl lives in Salt Lake City, Utah. I’ve noticed that a lot of creative entrepreneurs and industry leaders come out of Utah; must be something in the water! India is 25 and first took up photography when she was 14. She used her Mum’s point-and-shoot at first then upgraded to a DSLR with an actual lens. She was into surrealism and self-portraits at first and edited them heavily. When she was 15, she started doing photography professionally, taking family photos and senior photos of her classmates.

India Earl Wedding Photographer

Turning Pro

India started shooting weddings at 16. She tried college, but felt she didn’t click with it; even though she did a photography course, she didn’t feel like she was learning anything. She dropped out for one semester, and focused on her business. She put all of her time and energy into it, shooting 70 weddings over six months for very little money. She once shot two weddings in a day, but always made sure she was up to date on edits. She learned so much over this one summer.

I think one of the hardest parts of building a sustainable photography career is balancing the craft side and the business side. Most people focus totally on the craft and forget the business.


Going It Alone

When India was first starting out there was no such thing as photography workshops. The mindset was very much competitive as opposed to community. In fact, she distinctly remembers a time when she asked an established photographer for some basic beginner advice and the photographer flipped out on her, accusing India of trying to steal her business. She had to figure it out herself, which is why it took her 11 years to get her business to where it is now. These days, with access to workshops and online groups, she sees beginning photographers covering the same ground in three years or so.

India Earl Wedding Photographer

Hard Work Meets Luck

India believes that because she’s only 25, people think she’s had a couple of easy leg-ups. In fact, her success is the result of 11 years of hard work. There’s room for some luck, and yes, some people do get lucky. But without that foundation of genuine hard work, you will never be truly successful. She actually feels she has never really gotten lucky in her career.

I was listening to a podcast recently on the same subject. They were talking about how people sometimes get lucky, but are unprepared for the opportunity and don’t know what to do with it. I do consider myself lucky, but luck is such a small part of my life and business. It took a lot of free weddings and uncertainty to get to where I am today; that’s the stuff that people don’t see.


The Rise of Online Courses

The popularity of online courses and community-based learning in the photography industry has been amazing to witness in recent years. It’s also showing people that in trade and creative industries, college isn’t always necessary. There’s so much knowledge out there, a lot of which is available for free on the internet. People can work from home, at their own pace. In-person workshops can sometimes overpromise; the value is in the community you build, as opposed to what you’re learning from the Powerpoint presentation.


Industry Festivals 

In 2017/18, massive conferences became popular, with hundreds of attendees and numerous speakers. I feel as if they’ve kind gone out of vogue in recent months (coronavirus hasn’t helped matters). India has spoken at a couple in her time but feels like you can’t really connect with an audience because there are so many people. While conferences helped India grow her education platform, she prefers one-on-one mentorship or intimate programs.

I love getting up on stage and teaching at big conferences, but I also find it hard to make a connection, both as a teacher and as an audience member. I prefer mentorship situations because you can learn specific and personal things which can instantly transform or improve your craft.


Creativity Vs. Business

I think India’s creativity is one of her greatest strengths. I was wondering whether she feels it helps or hinders her business side. ‘Creative’ is actually one of the last things India would describe herself as. She can work a camera, market herself and make people feel comfortable; but when it came to being artistically creative, she never felt like she was. She felt she needed to redefine creativity; she now sees it more as freedom of expression. India feels she’s best at connecting with her clients; so she put that at the forefront of her business and made it a constant theme.

She found herself in situations where she was copying something ‘creative’ that someone else had done, but found the resulting work was just a lesser version of theirs. That’s when she started to reframe ‘creativity’, making it about connection. From that, she gave her business a unique identity and started creating meaningful work, which other people interpret as creativity. Play to your strengths and acknowledge your weaknesses.

Wedding Photographer India Earl


India used to turn up to a shoot and force creativity, but it found that it took her right out of the session. The less she tries to be ‘creative’, the better she does. She also feels that everyone struggles with burnout and comparison to other photographers; the two often go hand in hand. India reckons it’s okay to have burnouts; they’re inevitable. They play a role in forming and informing your business and lifestyle.

I agree that burnout is an important educator. As you get wiser around business, you find the less you do, the bigger an impact you can make. Put less on your plate and you’ll get more out of it in the long run. Don’t focus on what works for other people, focus on what works for you.


Getting Out of Your Comfort Zone

India tries to do this now and again to stop the repetition. She’s trying to branch out into new areas. She used to hate the idea of maternity shoots and shooting family sessions. But because of COVID, she’s had to shift her focus away from weddings because she can’t count on them. She’s tried to shoot more family stuff and being okay with doing stuff she hasn’t previously been comfortable with.

India’s also been on the other side of the camera a lot recently, which is also way outside her comfort zone. But it’s been useful for her, as it helps inform her work with her own subjects. I think as a photographer, making people feel comfortable in front of the camera is one of the most valuable skills you can have. Empathy is one of the best ways to achieve this.

Wedding Photographer India Earl

Diversifying Your Skillset

For photographers looking to add income streams to their business, India suggests reaching out to past clients and offering your services in new ways. You have an established relationship and they trust you, so it makes sense to let them know you’re available. Market your prints and albums. You don’t have to aim this at new couples; they can make great anniversary gifts a few years later. Creating online print shops of some of your hobby photography can also provide great passive income that doesn’t require much extra work.

I often hear that people only get married once, so as a wedding photographer you’re constantly searching for new leads. That’s not strictly true; you have a huge contact list of past clients who already love your work. Yes, they might not be getting married again, but that doesn’t mean they won’t work with you on other commissions. They’re the easiest people to sell to.


India Earl’s Online Courses

India has her own online education platform for photographers of all kinds. It was initially just India, but she has brought on other teachers who she’s connected with and responding to. It’s a total online resource for photographers, featuring products, online courses and editing tools. India very kindly made a discount code for my listeners: enter in JAI10 at checkout to avail of 10% off your purchase.

I want to say a huge huge thank you to the wedding photographer India Earl for chatting with me and taking the time to talk through her early days, her process and her business.

To check out India’s work, head over to her main website or give her a follow on Instagram.

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Hey guys, today we’re gonna chat about developing your own black and white film. This is a great way to be 100% involved in the entire process of capturing a photo, from shooting your image to developing the final product. Also, sending your film off to a lab can be time-consuming and expensive, so it’s cool to be able to do it yourself. 

I wanted to create this IGTV episode and this post because when I’ve searched online for information on this topic, and I’ve found it’s difficult to get detailed instructions on developing your own film without a darkroom.Everybody ready? Let’s dive in!



OK, so even though it’s kind of an old-school process, it doesn’t mean that we can’t use technology to help us along the way. There are some really useful smartphone apps that make the developing process so much easier because by breaking it down step-by-step and eliminating the guesswork. 

My favourite app is Massive Dev (you can grab that on Apple or Android for free!); it’s the world’s largest film development chart and comes with a multi-step timer and darkroom support. 

The app has development times for over 18,000 combinations of black and white films and developers. You can also adjust film development times by temperature, store lists of your most-used film and developer combinations, modify your preferred agitation schemes, and find the volumes of liquid that you need depending on your developer dilution. 

Massive Dev allows you to achieve consistent results and its notifications allow you to agitate your tank accurately.

Jai Long Film Photography


For this example, I use 4×5 Kodak TMax 400 sheet film. 

If you’ve already downloaded Massive Dev, head to the app and choose the size of film that you’re using and the developer. In this case, it would be 1-part developer to 25-parts water with ISO 400 film. The app walks you through the steps on the dashboard, and there’s even a darkroom format if you have access to one. 

Once you get started, you’ll want to make sure you have an even spread of developer. You might want to try some test shots to ensure you’ve got the perfect amount of water and mix of developer. 

The app tells me that for this process I want 30.8ml of developer and 770ml of water. It will also let you know the ideal temperature for your water. If you don’t have a thermometer, you can estimate the temperature in the room, which in this video is about 20°C. (Don’t worry too much if the temperature is not absolutely exact – I’ve never had an issue with the temperature having a negative effect on my end product.)

Use a smaller jar to measure out your developer but be careful as it is highly toxic – make sure you’re in a ventilated area and be really careful when handling the product. Play safe!



OK guys, now the really fun part! Pour the 30ml of developer into a jar of water and mix it together. Then put your sheets of film into the developing tank using a darkroom tent. Pour the developer straight into the tank and hit ‘Start’ on the app. 

Massive Dev will show you exactly how to mix everything up. You’ll want to agitate the tank to make sure that all of the developer gets on the film. Follow the instructions on the app for the rest of the process, which includes a stop bath with fresh water to rinse out the negatives and a fixer bath for five minutes. 

You’ll also need to use Hyper Clear, which is a cleaning agent that cleans the negatives and agitate for two minutes, as well as a final wash for another two minutes.



As long as you follow the instructions on the app, your photos should turn out great. I know that it can feel like a lot of work when you’re going through the development process but once you open up the tank and pull out the film, you’ll be able to hold a tangible result of all of your hard work in your hands…trust me, it’s worth it!

If you want to see how your image turned out straight away, you can use another called Film Developer. Basically, you take a photo of your negative and then you can instantly see a clear, positive image of how your photo turned out. 

After drying out the images, you can take the negatives to get scanned – oh yeah, sure to communicate really clearly with the lab so that they can work with you to get the exact images you’re after.


I hope this has helped you better understand how to develop film at home – check out more photography tips & tricks in my other Instagram videos! 

Today I want to talk to you about shooting 4×5, or ‘large format’ film. It isn’t that popular amongst photographers today but that’s exactly why I want you to learn a bit more about it. Shooting and then developing the film yourself can be a really rewarding experience, so in this article, I describe the process of shooting large format film and why I love it.



First, I just want to make sure you understand what I mean by: ‘Large format film’ – it literally means ‘big film size’ and large format cameras use 4×5 film, so a lot of people alternate between calling it large format film and 4×5 film. Simple stuff but best to make sure we’re all on the same page!

Since shooting in 4×5 film is analogue instead of digital, it means that when you blow up the image from the negative, it can’t pixelate. Why? Well, because it’s analogue, it doesn’t have any pixels! That’s why a lot of people use 4×5 on big campaigns to make sure they get high resolution imagery…and as I think I already mentioned it’s actually so fun to work with.


I use black and white sheet film, usually the Kodak T-MAX 400 standard film that’s easy to develop. You can get 50 sheets in one box and you don’t even need a darkroom to develop as long as you have a tent – it might look a little sci-fi, but it works great! I use the tent as a ‘film changing room’, basically to get the film into the film holders and also to get it into my developer tank. 

Here’s a really important tip: When you’re loading your film into the film holders, make sure to note the top of the film. There should be a white border – this means that the film hasn’t yet been exposed. Once you’ve taken the photo, that border becomes black so you know that it’s ready to be developed. 

And another one: If you’re in a darkroom or can’t see because of the tent, put your hands in and feel along the border to find little bumps that tell you if the film is ready to be developed.

And another one: It’s really important to label the film with a piece of tape so you don’t forget what you’re shooting, especially if you’re not going to be coming back to the images for a while.



OK, so let’s climb into the tent (not literally) so you can start developing these photos.

In your tent, you can transfer the sheet films (usually six images at a time) into the developing tank and seal it with the cap so that no light can get in. From there, you can start pouring in your chemicals to start the developing process. This process is perfect if you don’t have a ton of space because it can all be done nice and easy in the tent or in the developing tank – I usually do it in my laundry sink at home! 

If this process sounds a little too time-consuming, you can always post or take the film to your local developing shop. However, this can be pretty expensive and some shops don’t process 4×5, so it’s best to call ahead to confirm as well as shop about to get the best price. 

One other tip: When you’re out and about taking shots, remember that you’ll see everything upside down and backwards. Keep this in mind and you’ll get better results. The camera also allows you to shoot both portrait or landscape photos, so it’s pretty versatile. After you’re done, take out the dark slide and make sure your lens is closed so you don’t ruin the piece of film and waste an entire day’s work.



Shooting and developing large format film can be a lot of work… Especially if it’s just for one photo. But, I enjoy this process because it is the exact opposite of digital photography – it’s tangible, challenging and really rewarding. 

If you go out and do a whole shoot for only six images, the effort you put in to those six images will make you feel so much more excited to get home and develop them than if you shot 600 images and just have to go back and delete 594 of them. 

And yes, it can be expensive and time-consuming but it also gives you the chance to fall in love with the images that you’re shooting. It’s good to try and appreciate photography as an art form and not just a job…. Just like when we all start out with our first camera.

Jai Long film photography


I believe that large format film lets you to think differently compared with when you’re just clicking a button on a digital camera. Even the tripod that you’ll usually use for capturing large format film can create a unique energy, since you won’t be used to using it.

Getting out of your comfort zone and practising different types of shooting is a great way to change your same routine, and shooting and developing large format film is my favourite way to do this.

After saying all of that, this type of photography won’t be for everyone. You don’t want to buy a camera, film and developing supplies just to find out that you don’t really like the process. So if you want to try out 4×5 film without spending too much, you could try to ask a friend to borrow their camera and just have a play before making any big purchasing decisions.


If you want to get a better idea of what it’s like to shoot and develop large format film, check my video on IGTV where you’ll learn all about my camera, its parts and how I use it. And don’t forget to check out my other videos and Rangefinder articles for more tips and tricks on photography!

Jai Long

Hi guys, today’s episode is something I really enjoy talking about; how to handle negative reviews. As creative entrepreneurs, we create and sell our art. This can be hard to do in front of an audience, especially when we fail. You will experience negative reviews – you can’t please everybody. Not everyone has your best interests at heart and some might just be unhappy in their own lives. 

It’s not about the negative feedback though; it’s about how you react to it. That’s what I want to talk about today. How to turn a negative into a positive and not take it personally. I get positive and negative reviews daily, so I know a thing or two about them.

How We React to Negative Reviews

There are three main ways we react to a negative review. First, we ignore the review and pretend it never happened. Secondly, we tell the reviewer to go f**k themselves and get into a back and forth debate. And thirdly, we react instantly and take action, resolving the conflict with empathy and open conversation.


Constructive Criticism Vs. Negativity

I recently got a review of the podcast which wasn’t overly positive, but it didn’t come from a bad place. I looked at this review as constructive criticism because it’s telling me where a problem might lie. In this case, the reviewer found my podcast too scripted. I can learn from this, get better and grow. You need both positive and negative reviews to get to that place.


Two Types of Negative Reviewer

Let’s look at two types of people who might leave a negative review or feedback. One is from your fans. These are your clients, customers, or those who engage with your content. People who don’t have anything to do with your brand or aren’t invested in you are internet trolls. The way you react to these two people are totally different.

If I get an email or DM from a troll telling me they hate my podcast or Insta page, it doesn’t really affect me. It’s not someone who’s in my world or who I have a connection with. I ask myself the question, ‘is this shaking my truth?’ If not, I can easily ignore it and move on from it. The other type of negative review will come from a client or customer. When someone does this, there’s definitely a good reason behind it, as it takes courage to publicly shame someone.


Your Business as a Ship

A good exercise I often do in my workshops is to imagine your business as a ship. You need to disconnect yourself from your business. I am not Free the Bird Photography, even though I built it and I’m proud of it. When you separate yourself from your work, it helps with negative reviews. You won’t view them as a personal attack. Instead, I think about it as a problem that needs to be solved. There is a leak on my ship somewhere – and I have to fix it.


Why Do People Leave Bad Reviews?

The first reason is that people feel unheard for some reason. They want to leave you a review to make sure that their voice is heard. They didn’t get the value from you that they were expecting. This ties into the next reason: expectations were not met. That’s usually your fault for not setting expectations as this allows people to make up their own. In my workshops, the first day is about creativity, while the second is about business. I make sure to set these expectations right at the start so people know what’s happening. Another example: if you’re not able to respond to emails for a while, set an auto-response so people know what’s happening. 


My Personal Negative Reviews

I’ve had only two negative reviews on my Free the Bird Facebook page, and both have been pretty brutal. In the case of the first one, I was very, very busy.  I was so busy that I only took bookings from people who paid a deposit, which I thought was fair. This means that I would sometimes have to email couples and tell them that their provisional date was taken by a paying client. I was being reactive to the problem. I had to apologetically email a lovely couple and tell them that I wasn’t available for their provisional date because someone else came through with a deposit for the same day. Tragically, one of my best friend’s passed away that weekend, so I wasn’t in a good headspace when I got the negative review. Really bad timing. 

The review said I was arrogant and a scam artist, and that I didn’t give the couple enough time to make a decision. It was really hard to read, but it also made me realise that there was a big problem in the way I was booking people. They didn’t have a bad experience with me personally; they had a bad experience with a system on my ship. I apologised to the couple and shared the review on Facebook. From there, I had a big open discussion about how to fix the broken system on my ship.


The Second Bad Review

More recently, I got a second bad review that I shared on my social platforms. At the end of the day, the couple’s expectations weren’t met. It was a really hard wedding to shoot, but their expectations were almost untouchably high. Afterwards, they left me a harsh, really personal bad review. I had to get past the hurtful comments and look at the review with empathy. The couple weren’t being heard. I apologised for their experience with me and shared it on my socials. No business is perfect, but I’m not my business, so these bad reviews don’t shake me. I know deep down I’m doing my best.

I also had a negative review with my photobooth business, Heartbreak Hotel. This was a hard one to deal with. I talked to the couple personally, as they were accusing us of ruining their wedding (though I’m not sure how a photobooth could ruin a whole wedding). In this case, it turned out the Roman numeral prints on the photos were missing an ‘I’ and were the wrong date, even though the couple had approved them prior to the wedding. I couldn’t get through to the couple as they were screaming so much. In the end, I fixed the problem, but only after I allowed the couple to feel like they had been heard.


Negative Podcast Reviews

I get a few bad reviews for my podcast. There are three main reasons why people don’t like it. Firstly, educators think that I’m giving too much away. But that’s more to do with them than my content. Secondly, people think it’s too scripted. This is a valuable point, and it’s encouraging me to talk off the cuff more. Thirdly, people think my content is too basic; the total opposite to the first point. My point is, if you’re putting yourself out there, people will have an opinion on you and your work, and it’s not always positive. 


Questions to Ask Yourself 

When it comes to negative reviews, the key is to be unmovable and unshakable. You achieve this by being separate from your business and knowing the worth of your content. 

Here are some questions to ask yourself when reading a bad review. 

1 – What is the truth? Does this negativity undermine your truth? If you’re being authentic, why would this review shake you?

2 – What outcome do you want? How can you make the best of this situation. We can all turn a negative into a positive.

3 – How can I see this review in a different way? Whenever I get negative feedback, I look at it subjectively. I look for ways that it can grow my business.

4 – What can I be grateful for in this moment? Think about all you’ve built and all the fans you’ve gathered along the way. Don’t allow bad reviews to move you. 

Finally, remember that people who are doing big things with big ambitions will never bring you down. I call them high-frequency movers. You too can be one of these people. Don’t get petty or egotistic; try to be as selfless as possible. Be confident in your business and in yourself.


I hope some of these insights have helped you out. I now see negative reviews as positive; if you can train your mindset to look for the opportunities within them, you’ll be able to as well.


Thank you so much for tuning in and checking out the podcast, guys. See you next time!


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Jai Long

Hello and welcome to podcast number 32! Well guys, if you asked me a month ago whether I thought the whole financial world would come to standstill in four weeks, I wouldn’t have thought it was possible. Today I’m chatting about the ongoing madness with Dan O’Day. Dan is an award-winning wedding photographer (and self-proclaimed ‘best photographer in the universe’) who’s here for a relaxed conversation about how to manage stress during a crisis. Our goal is to make these tough times a little lighter.

The Perfect Time is Now

But first I want to talk to all my listeners who dream of becoming creative entrepreneurs but feel like they’re stuck in a job they can’t leave. It can be hard to predict the perfect time to break free and go it alone. Well, chances are that right now, due to current circumstances, your job may be on the line. You may have even lost it already. There’s no better time to cut free, start your own hustle and make your own break. It’s more risky trying to be safe right now than it is to take a risk. If you’ve already lost everything, then there’s nothing left to lose – don’t let these losses define you. Don’t leave your livelihood in the hands of someone else. The perfect time is right now. Step outside your comfort zone and take that risk. Life is lived in that place.

Taking the Time to Reflect

Dan’s an interesting guy to talk to at this point in time because he started his business in 2009, right after the last big global crash. At the moment, Dan’s feeling relieved about the lockdown, and glad the world is finally taking the crisis seriously. On the personal front, the last year and half has been intense for Dan, so he’s enjoying the opportunity to slow the cogs and catch his breath. I think the same way; I’ve been so busy recently that I’m enjoying the chance to relax at home a little bit. Even though there’s a serious side to the virus, Dan reckons that we shouldn’t pass up the chance to reflect and be grateful for everything we’ve got going on.


Impact on the Wedding Industry

Like myself, Dan is a wedding photographer. When it comes to shooting weddings, he currently has the next 28 weeks off. While only one of these has actually cancelled and the rest have postponed, this is the longest break Dan has ever had in his life. He’s looking at it as a chance to reset and spend some time with his family (although he acknowledges he might feel a little differently in four weeks time!).


How Dan Started his Business

Dan started his business in 2009, so I was interested to hear how it evolved from that point all the way up to where it was just before the virus hit. He admits he was a little reckless in the beginning and had an overly optimistic attitude compared to now. However, he thinks that attitude helped him out in the early stages. This pandemic is going to test everyone because it’s not the same as the Wall Street-induced crash. You can go hyper-creative or you can choose to give the creative part of your brain a break instead. I agree – when I first started, I had that same reckless attitude because it’s easy to be bold when you have nothing to lose. I think the people that have just started their business should be the least afraid, compared to people who have built something up that could topple very easily. Dan feels like the slate has been cleaned.


Prospects for the Future

Dan thinks we could see the busiest year ever in 2021, as everyone who has postponed will all be looking to get married. There are going to be more weddings than high-profile photographers can manage, creating space for more work. People aren’t going to stop getting married. You should adopt a long-term view, and while he acknowledges that cash flow in the short-term is important, Dan thinks you should spend this time preparing for the big comeback in 2021. I think a lot of creative entrepreneurs struggle with projecting into the future. It’s easy to understand when you’re living in the moment, but a crisis can put that into perspective. When something like this happens, of course there’s a very serious side, but on the business front all I see is opportunity. It’s important to be aware and optimistic, although getting the right balance between these is a delicate process. 

Dan thinks this could be a good opportunity for taking the creative side out of it to focus on the business side of things. Opening spreadsheets and working out some numbers can help you feel like you’re not getting left behind.


Finding the Car Park

I’m good at business, but I don’t thrive looking at spreadsheets and stuff. I’m using this time to reflect on myself and take comfort in the fact that I have knowledge and capabilities that I can fall back on. Dan likened this to location scouting for a wedding shoot. He found that going into a wedding with a plan gave him the confidence and freedom to explore new creative options, knowing that he had a fallback if things fell apart. I don’t location scout anymore because I feel it hinders creativity, but I do take the time to check out the car park of a new venue. As long as I know where to park the car and that I won’t be late, the creativity comes easy. Dan uses second shooters for this same reason. The practicalities are just as important as the creative elements. 

How Can We Stop Ourselves Becoming Victims of our Own Circumstances?

Dan thinks we can achieve this by focusing on something other than ourselves. There’s a lot of anxiety-inducing stuff that he could carry around in his head, but he’ll be much more productive if he can acknowledge that without focusing on it. Finding someone or something else to focus on helps to declutter and empty our brains. Dan also advised me to take a little break from my constant work schedule. It can be hard to ask yourself for a holiday. Dan always defaults to painting when he thinks of something he wants to do for himself. However, he always has to remind himself to switch off the part of his brain that wants to ‘monetise’ something. Dan thinks that business is a creative venture in itself, which I also believe. It can be hard to separate the creativity from the strategising.

People associate business with transactions, and ‘business’ itself is something of a dirty word in some creative circles. I think many creative entrepreneurs haven’t put the link together to see how creative business can be. It becomes limitless. You have to have so much creativity to bring it to life. Dan agrees and thinks that we use blanket terminology and that’s where a lot of the good stuff gets lost. 


That’s going to do it for this one, guys. Thank you very much for listening as always – we’ll be back next time with more insights and conversations!

To See Dan O’Day’s work, head over to his WEBSITE or INSTAGRAM


Dan O'Day with Jai Long
Jai Long

Hi guys, today we’re talking about recessions. How to build a business that will see you through a recession and some tips to help your business survive a recession. Most people are terrified of them; especially business owners. People hate change in general. Yes, a recession can wipe out a business and your savings, but today, I’m going to bring you a perspective on recessions that you won’t hear anywhere else. What goes up must come down; sometimes when things are going good, we forget what it feels like when things aren’t as easy. But it’s all a cycle.

What is a Bubble?

A bubble is an economic cycle characterised by the rapid escalation of asset prices followed by a contraction. As a wedding photographer, I know that weddings are in a bubble that is just about to pop. Here’s how I know; in 2013 the average Australian wedding cost around $25,000. In 2020, the average wedding costs $65,482. That’s an increase of 260% since I’ve been a wedding photographer. This is one of the main reasons why I’ve been moving towards education. During a recession, people move away from luxury and towards skill-building. Everyone will be affected in some way, but it’s not necessarily a bad thing. It’s a natural cycle. People with the most knowledge will rise to the top.


Recession as Opportunity

A recession can be the single biggest opportunity for you to get ahead. Don’t be scared of them. There is a lot of wealth to be made in recession times and there’s opportunity in all markets. Personally, I have a lot to lose in this coming recession, so if anyone should be scared it’s me. But I’m actually really excited. Right now, everything is expensive and ballooning. A recession gives all the underdogs a leg-up. Yes, I’m scared of losing a lot, but I’m excited to see the adventure it leads me on.

Having said that, I always say don’t leave anything to luck. Be intentional. Set up your business so that it has the best chance to survive during recession.


Questions to Ask Yourself 

Here are some important questions to ask yourself; please be honest when you answer them. How long right now can you last without any income at all? How much does it cost you to run your business week-to-week? How much are your personal living expenses and are you living within your means? Do you put business or personal expenses on a line of credit? When a recession hits, you need to answer these questions and understand the fundamentals of your business.


Here’s How to Help Your Business Get Through a Recession:

1 – Card Expenses and Tracking All Outgoings

Having debt is the fastest way to run down your business. A line of credit is not your money – it’s a liability. Debt puts your whole business at serious risk. I don’t have credit cards or personal loans. It took me a long time to get there and it’s hard to achieve but for me it’s an important step to make my business recession-proof. How long can you sustain your business if there are no jobs coming in? Where can you save some money? Once a year, I cancel my debit card and see which emails come in. This gives me a better idea of how much I’m spending on subscription services. It also gives me the choice of asking if I really need the service and cancelling it if necessary. 


2 – Get Innovative

During a recession, you need to get more innovative and creative than your competitors. This applies to all aspects of your business. Don’t stay still or you’ll get out-innovated by people who are rising to the top. Experimentation is important because a recession brings in a new market. Understanding your new market is crucial. It will help you stay innovative and creative. Get out of your comfort zone and hit the ground running.


3 – Add Value, Not Price

People don’t want to pay a lot in recessions. Landing a job over a competitor will usually come down to price. Moving your prices down or up isn’t usually a good idea. Instead, add value. Do something that other people aren’t doing. Look for any way in which you can add value to the services you provide.


4 – Staff

As an employee in 2020, you have more rights than ever before. As an employer, it’s becoming increasingly harder to create a work environment that everybody’s happy with because everyone can go out and hustle for themselves. You have to give employees a purpose-driven role. It can be a hard line to tread. You want to look out for your staff and your business at the same time. I also think that staff need to look after their employer. Talking things through honestly with your staff is always a good idea. During a recession, the workforce becomes more competitive because of business closures. It can be a great time to hire talented people.


5 – Don’t Stop Learning

When times get tough and work gets scarce, keep learning. That’s going to be the difference between you and somebody else. The reason I’m excited about the upcoming recession is because I have this well of knowledge that I’ve been building up. The money doesn’t disappear during a recession, it just changes hands. You need to prepare yourself with education so you can be part of that transferral and not a casualty. There are loads of ways to educate yourself: never stop learning.


6 – Diversify 

Look at offering products and services that have a quick return on investment. Offer things that you don’t usually do, or maybe that you don’t necessarily want to. You have to get a bit scrappy in the face of a recession. I don’t allow pride or ego to get in the way of my business. People are afraid of looking like a failure, but you have to learn to adapt at all times. 


7 – Get Creative 

When you’re in a recession, you won’t have a lot of money on hand for marketing or for growing your business in general. You need to get creative with your message and your brand. What you will have is time. Put more time into getting your brand seen and visible. Do it in creative and innovative ways that will make you stand out. 


8 – Scale Back

Scale back your services or products and think about offering services that have a quicker return on investment. You don’t want stock sitting on your shelves. You want cashflow during a recession. You don’t want to be relying on credit during a recession. Reign your business in and rely on the core of your brand. Start growing slowly from there.


9 – Don’t Cut Back on Marketing and Education

In recession times, you can get a leg-up on your competitors through creative marketing. You can also do it through education by understanding money and cycles. These things will help your business and your mindset. They will also help you prepare for the future. Scale back on everything – but these two things would be my personal advice.


10 – Negotiate Better Deals with Suppliers

If you’re a product-based business, it’s time for people to get competitive. You can negotiate anything, from interest rates to your phone bill to your property rent. Work out how you can save money in all facets of your business. In a recession, every dollar means something. You should try and make every single dollar have the biggest impact possible. 


11 – Use Your Savings to Invest in Your Business

Once you’ve applied the ten previous tips, pour your savings into your business and fuel growth. There’s no better time to be investing. There’s an old saying, ‘don’t buy until there’s blood in the streets’. People often think recession means the end of everything and the markets will never recover. But it will always turn around. Everything is undervalued in a recession. There are many bargains to be found. Your goal is long-term investment. In the future, there’s a high chance you will make your money back, plus more. Do the opposite of what everybody’s doing.


You can’t be attached to what you have, because we have nothing. You have to know when it’s time to let go and pass it on. In life, everything is in motion. It all comes and then it all goes. Allow things to move around and be thankful for it. With this mindset you don’t need to fear a recession. I love change because it’s where life gets exciting.


Thank you so much for listening guys. If you know of someone who’s worried about the upcoming recession, please feel free to share the podcast around! See you next time.


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 Hi guys, it’s pretty crazy to think I’ve already put out 29 podcasts! It’s blowing my mind how many listeners I already have and I’m definitely getting more comfortable and confident in front of the microphone. In this episode, I want to talk about how to improve your blogging. Blogging is still a really important and relevant tool for your business, especially if you’re online. I want to walk you through a few different reasons why a blog is a good idea, how to present information in your blog, and how to keep it interesting. 

Reasons to Blog in 2021

A blog will help you connect with your perfect audience that little bit more. It will help you educate your clients, and add value to their experience whilst they’re interacting with your brand. It can be useful as a marketing tool, and can also help your site rank higher in search engines. Blogging helps you show off your brand a little bit more with the information you decide to post. I think it’s a very important tool even today, and I’m going to talk about how to come up with great content for posts, as well as nine tips for improving your blog.

A blog post is what I call a ‘slow burn’ marketing strategy; you can’t expect to get value from it straight away. It takes a little bit longer, but it’s worth it in the long run. 


Why is a Blog a Great Idea?

I do a lot of blogging, with three businesses that I regularly blog for,, Free the Bird and Heartbreak Hotel. I’ve had so much success with my blog posts; a lot of sharing, a lot of feedback and a lot of positivity. This all results in more visibility and influence for me and my businesses. I’ve been blogging for a long time and it’s resulted in many clients and bookings, with hundreds of people browsing my content every day. 

When I first became a wedding photographer, I noticed that all the other photographers just posted blogs about weddings. I changed it up and added value by educating clients through my posts. This helped me stand out and provided value to potential clients.


Jai Long Co


Things to Consider When it Comes to Your Blog

Before you launch your blog and start posting regularly, there are two main points to consider.  First of all, what is your message? What are you trying to achieve? Secondly, who is the blog post for? Who are you writing it to? I envision a perfect clientele so I have a very specific vision for the intended audience. 


Obstacles to Blogging

Blogging is time-consuming and many people think they don’t have the spare time to write one consistently. You can always outsource your blogging and get specialised copywriters to write them. Whenever I have a new idea, I write about that specific topic without editing or deleting. Once I get it all out, I send it to a copywriter to help structure and clean it up. Another obstacle can be that you don’t know how to write that well or communicate your thoughts. Outsourcing can be a great way to solve this too. There are different types of copywriters, so if you do reach out for one, make sure it’s the right fit for you. They need to be able to translate your voice through their writing.

We sometimes feel like things have to be totally polished before we put them out. I’m not the strongest at grammar or spelling, but I’d rather make a big impact than worry about making something perfect. I don’t allow these imperfections to stop me from making the biggest impact possible with my audience. Try and write with a specific audience in mind; don’t write for Google rankings or algorithms. You know your fans – write to them.


Jai Long


What Is Your Blog Post About?

When I’m deciding what to write about, I ask the question, ‘what is my perfect client having a problem with?’ You can do tutorials and how-to guides relating to your specific industry or niche within the industry. You can write about the latest industry news. There are always trends, equipment or supplies to talk about, and there might be no one doing that in your area. You want to create valuable content that’s unique. Give people a reason to come back to you. 

You could also write about current events in your industry. Controversial subjects are also good for generating visibility and getting your voice out there. You can write posts based around checklists in your industry. Listicles (a piece of writing presented in the form of a list) are always popular and do well on social media. Case studies, interviews and features are also good options for posts. People love reviews, which also work great for SEO (search engine optimisation). Comparisons are a good structure for a post; they can be educational and controversial at the same time.


Video Blogs and Audio 

It doesn’t always have to be words. Video blogs are another option, and they don’t have to have a high production value. You can shoot them on your phone and read out your blog post; it’s just a different way to deliver content. Some people might prefer a video. You can also do a simple audio reading to allow people to dive deeper into the post.


More Blog Ideas

Problems and solutions is a great idea for a blog topic. You can also bring people behind the scenes of your business and show them what it looks like behind the curtain. Any given day at my studio is packed full of interesting moments, which could make for great content to send out to my audience. Inspirational stories are also valuable. People appreciate being inspired; they want to read about and share it. They also like to laugh. Humour can be a valuable asset to your content, making it more lively and bringing a bit of personality through. Frequently Asked Questions can be a highly valuable post, allowing you to automate questions you regularly receive. For a final idea, just do an occasional rant. It’s your blog post, you can write what you want! People will love to get an insight into your personality, especially if you’re an industry leader. 


Guest Bloggers and Gallery Posts

Guest bloggers are a great idea; you can curate other people to write on topics for you. They add so much value to both them and you. Reach out to industry leaders and ask if they’d like to blog for you. They’ll get their own platforms shared with your audience, and you’ll get a lot of value out of these posts with a different perspective. Gallery or album posts can also make good posts now and again, especially if you’re a photographer. These aren’t as useful as written posts, but it’s another way to connect with your audience. Even playlists you like/create can put your personality across and get your voice heard.


Ideas for Content Creation

Coming up with something to say is tough, but we all have to start somewhere. You can monetise your blog by putting ads on it if it gets really popular. The more specific you are, the better your chances will be of success. You can have affiliates, so you get paid to write about other people’s products. While it’s not the reason to create a blog, there is that opportunity. You have to keep content interesting. Think about the way you’re delivering the content. Videos, graphics and photos are fantastic to communicate your point and keep the post engaging. Break up big blocks of text with anything you can.

You don’t have to call it a blog! Try a different name like a diary, a journal, stories, chronicles, anything that makes it more appealing. Don’t create content just to rank on Google or because you feel like you should. You need to create content that’s going to convert your traffic into fans. Make your content unique so you stand out. 



How To Improve Your Blogging as a wedding photographer






9 Tips for Creating Better Blogs

1 – Write more than 300 words. People like to read, so don’t rely on photos. Tell the story of the photos you include. Create more meaty content. 

2 – Enable and encourage comments. Comments not only add to the word count and provide links, but it shows that other people are engaged with your posts. 

3 – Enable social sharing. Not everyone is fluent with the internet, so you need the social share buttons at the bottom of the post. 

4 – Use Videos and Graphics. These keep it more interesting for the reader. 

5 – Use pull-out text and pull-out quotes. Get to the punchline, pull it out and put it at the very top of the post. This gives the readers an indication of what the post is about. 

6 – Use images and alt text. Images are important to keep your posts dynamic. Alt text is relevant for search engines, and basically refers to a literal description of the image, 

7 – Link to the things you’re talking about so they’re easy to find. People will want to engage with what you’re talking about and make sure they open up in a new page. Internal links are also important, leading back to your own pages. 

8 – Use SEO plug-ins like Yoast. These make SEO easy and will push your post higher up the search engine charts. 

9 – Create shareable content. Write something that people love so much that they can’t help but share it. You can also share your content on other platforms. 


So that’s it for today guys, hopefully, all that information is helpful. My biggest takeaway would be don’t allow obstacles to stand in your way; just get started!

Thank you so much for listening and I’ll see you next time for Episode 30.


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Do you have any extra tips for blog posts? Would love to hear them in the comments below!


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Hi guys, on this week’s show I wanted to discuss some practical tips and tools that you can implement right away in your creative business. Building on last week’s discussion on social media, today I want to focus in and narrow it right down to Instagram. I’ve recently completed my two workshops and got a lot of good feedback, so I’m feeling good; it was great to get offline, go and meet people and connect about their successes.

Doing these workshops is a great way to see what people struggle with when it comes to Instagram. There are a lot of different reasons for this, so I want to talk specifically about five different ways to use Instagram and do a deep dive into writing captions, creating content, using the features and using Instagram for marketing in 2020. 


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how to better use instagram

1 – How to Get Followers

Across my five Insta accounts I have around 140,000 followers, which is not that many in Instagram terms. A lot of us can feel self-conscious when it comes to followers, because it feels like the number that legitimises us in the digital world. Your follower count can say a lot about your business. It might make the difference between someone hiring you or not. But they have to be the right followers, otherwise your marketing voice is being diluted. A lot of the time, gathering followers can be a case of getting offline and connecting with people in real life. I’m always collaborating on shoots and bringing value to people. You never want to be a taker, you want to be a giver


Would You Follow Yourself?

It’s also important to ask yourself the hard question; would you follow yourself? Sometimes, the honest answer is that you wouldn’t. If you’re posting from a place of anxiety instead of inspiration then it might be time to give up that platform. In 2020, people don’t want perfectly curated images. I follow accounts when they’re true to themselves and they inspire me. People value their time; you have to give them value back. Come from an authentic place and you’ll attract your perfect tribe. You also have to create remarkable content with a unique voice; this is not easy to do, but it is extremely important. People will come to you, and you won’t have to put as much effort (or money) into marketing.


2 – How Instagram Can Help With Marketing

I separated my Free the Bird personal account from my Free the Bird Weddings account. Every two or three months I’d put a wedding photo on my personal account and get a huge positive response and some work inquiries. On my weddings account, my followers were used to seeing wedding photos, but on my personal page they really stood out and attracted people’s interest. 

You want to make sure that you stand out in your industry and cut through the noise. Every creative industry is competitive. What makes the difference is how people are going to connect with you. You want to build an audience in a unique way before you start selling to them, otherwise you’ll get lost in the crowd. No one wants to follow someone who is just selling. You want to follow people who add value to your life. Don’t compete with anybody. Make your competitors irrelevant.

Don’t forget about geotags too. They can help get your name out there with people who are doing general searches. Hashtags can be important, but try and find unique tags with a smaller pool of photos for the best results.


3 – Content is King

Instagram is a visual medium. When it comes to photos, you should think about how it makes your audience feel. Is it on-brand? Will people comment on it? Share it? These are all questions that should become second nature. Ask how it makes you feel first. Don’t post for expectations. If you don’t love it, your audience won’t love it. This extends to your captions, too. I want to know the journey and connect with you on an emotional level. Don’t be afraid to be vulnerable.

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Use IGTV to Educate

You can post to inspire your audience but you can also post to educate people. IGTV is great for this. I put up IGTV videos of the recording of my podcasts. Whatever your industry, you can use Instagram as a platform for education. This sort of content creates high value and encourages people to share it. Any kind of content that can potentially start a conversation with your audience is valuable to both you and them. 


4 – Workings of Instagram 

Your profile photo is important when it comes to presenting yourself. I usually only follow accounts that show their face in their profile, as I like to follow people instead of faceless companies. It allows me to connect with them on a different level. It’s important to summarise what you do and get your brand across in your profile description. My description on my personal page is ‘F**k being a struggling artist’. I treat that like a mission statement and it lets people know what I’m about right away. That tone filters down through all of my business and how I put myself across. I use Linktree to consolidate all my platforms in one place; it allows me to quickly navigate through all my numerous projects and businesses as efficiently as possible. If you’ve got a lot of things going on, this is crucial. 


5 – Engagement 

Engagement is the single most important thing when it comes to Instagram. Social means connection; you want to connect people to you and your business. It’s a fantastic free tool; I try and share as much as I can and link to as much as I can. I’ve made a lot of friends from social media but it’s also resulted in tonnes of work and opportunities for me. You really need to work on building your audience to engage with you. 

Getting rid of your ego is the best way to do this. I make sure to respond to as many comments and DMs as possible. This has helped me to grow an engaged audience over the years. You can also share stuff that’s inspired you and put it out there to the world. When you do this, you’re curating content for your audience and engaging with them in a different way. Whether it’s through posts, stories or comments, look after the people who value what you do.

Here are links to some of the Instagram accounts I’ve grown – feel free to connect with me on there (preferably the top one!):


I really appreciate you listening, guys; if you’ve got any questions or if anything resonated with you, please give the podcast a share on Instagram or reach out to me. I love seeing where these episodes get to all around the world. 

Thank you so much for tuning in and see you next episode!


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How to better use instagram with Jai Long

Hi guys, I have a special episode for you today. I’ve just finished Day One of my two-day Sydney workshop and thought that I’d get my tape recorder out to bring you an insight from a panel of photographers who have a busy, engaged social media presence and talk about some different perspectives on this popular topic.

Learning from the people around you is one of the best ways to progress. So after a long day of workshop teaching in Sydney, I chatted with Claire, Josh M., Josh J., Usamah, Keegan, and Ryan to get their thoughts and opinions on social media in 2020.

If you want to find everyone on the podcast, I’ll put their Instagram accounts at the bottom of the page, along with details of our sponsors – our favourite copywriters PepperStorm Media and our very own Posing & Lighting course which is out now!

Which Platforms Should You Focus On?

It can be hard to decide which social media platforms you should focus your time on. One of my biggest pieces of advice is don’t go on every social media platform out there. Choose the ones that resonate with you and focus on them. So I don’t use Facebook but I love Instagram.

Josh J. agreed with this and added that it depends on what you’re trying to accomplish. As a photographer, Instagram has been the biggest return on time investment and has resulted in a lot of destination work for him. He mentioned TikTok as an example of an up-and-coming platform that generates a lot of engagement. When it comes to Insta, Josh thinks interaction is key. He tries to engage as much as possible, putting a lot of time into his captions as well as the photos. These can make or break a post and allow an audience to invest in an artist and their work.


The Benefits of Making Your Own Videos

Ryan agrees that Instagram is the most beneficial for photographers. For him, Insta stories and YouTube are the areas he’s focusing on. He may go a few months without posting on Instagram, but has found it doesn’t change his engagement with potential clients. However, he’s constantly putting up Insta stories, and offering advice and behind-the-scenes videos on YouTube. He thinks it’s important that people see that you know what you’re talking about. You can also send out tip videos to clients over email; it’s very easy to put together a two-minute piece and your clients will thank you for it. Ryan tries to shoot one video a week and thinks that they’re useful to stay visible with potential clients. He also repurposes them for his Insta stories. 

Personality Vs. Profession

Keegan explained that putting yourself out there on Instagram is a smart strategy. In the past, he’s just used it as a photography portfolio, but is now trying to make it more personal. He put a lot of effort into his hashtags to create a bigger audience. He’s trying to put himself into more Insta stories without caring about what people might think, as it’s important to show what you’re passionate about. Josh M. thinks it’s important to highlight that every creative person is going to have a different personality. So the way creatives show up in their business and on their socials is going to vary.


Is Facebook Still Useful?

Josh M. thinks Facebook can still be valuable for photographers, especially when it comes to tags. There is more chance of getting tagged on Facebook than Instagram. When you’re starting out, Facebook can still be very useful. You may not get big numbers, but the numbers that you get can potentially be worth more. Each platform has its pros and cons. It depends on the creative and how they use it to their advantage.


Are Insta Stories the Future?

Usamah also thinks Insta stories are the next big thing. People are leaning towards videos more and moving away from pictures, even on Instagram. As wedding photographers, Usamah thinks it’s a good idea to incorporate video into their socials. Claire admits she gets a bit anxious about posting on Instagram. She thinks that finding a unique, creative style through stories is key, as opposed to regular posts. She gets more engagement through stories because she puts her own flavour into them. I’ve also found that you can get a sense of someone’s personality through their Insta stories. 


Social Media Anxiety

Claire thinks that there’s a lot of pressure around social media channels. You feel your work might not be good enough compared to other photographers. When you’re building your audience, it can be hard to engage people in your life and work. Josh M. thinks you have to be true to yourself.

Social media has led to a rise of copycats, so being true to yourself and your work is important. In time, this will lead to a unique style. The most artistic shot might not appeal to the masses, but you should post it anyway. Do what makes you excited. When I look at Josh M.’s account, I see his personality come through. I always try to do the same thing. Josh J. finds that this pays off too. Couples he’s shooting often mention specific things he’s posted on his socials, which is proof that people are connecting with the content.


Serving the Audience

I always think it’s important to make your content for someone, as opposed to the general audience. This way, by the time you interact with clients, they get a sense of who you are. Josh M. thinks you have to keep your ideal client in mind. You’ve got to know who you want to shoot and who you don’t. Josh is always posting things that are clearly aimed at a specific audience; this is smart as it probably means he doesn’t have to adapt his style too much on shoots unless he wants too. 

Usamah agrees, but also thinks this can be hard when you’re first starting out. You can’t always choose clients. Josh thinks you should always project into the kind of photographer you want to be, even if it means having a leaner year at the start. Josh J. underlines that there’s a lot of competition and noise in the industry. You have to cut through the noise and make yourself distinct. Thinking about future clients is key.


Social Media Interactions

Claire loves it when people interact with her posts and work. I recently got a thank you message for sharing something, even though the guy had millions of followers. I learned that it’s important to always keep the smaller interactions in mind and show appreciation when you can. Claire thinks positive engagement takes away some of the social media anxiety. It’s awesome when you know your work means something to someone.


The Rise of Podcasting and IGTV

I really enjoy listening to podcasts because I don’t have to spend my downtime looking at a screen. Keegan thinks podcasting is definitely the way forward. It’s great to zone out and not be bombarded by visuals. IGTV is also interesting because the content is so digestible. I always feel like I’m getting a lot more from it. Ryan couldn’t agree more. He finds himself scrolling more and more on IGTV and plans to make more content for it. He wants to focus on education. Josh M. sees one of the benefits of giving content to couples is that they’ll remember you. If they have a bad experience with their photographer, they might come back to you to book a shoot. So even if you don’t immediately get the job, you’re still in the back of their mind.


How Do You Get More Followers?

For me, it’s about connecting and putting out content consistently. You’ve got to have hustle in you and take every opportunity you can. Josh J.’s goal wasn’t just growing his following. He prefers a smaller following with high engagement. Consistency and authenticity are key. Positive engagement with other accounts snowballs into a bigger engagement for you.

Josh M. agrees that quality over quantity is important. You want potential clients as opposed to just followers who think your viral photos are epic. Too many followers can give the impression you’re too busy and keep clients away.

Social media can be manipulated almost like a reality TV show. I think you can overshare and be too self-absorbed, but sometimes people tell me they wish I posted more. For Keegan, numbers aren’t a big deal. If you’re showing the value of what you do, that’s the goal. For him, he tries to keep his Instagram grounded in his work, as opposed to his lifestyle.


Dealing with Negative Reactions

Putting yourself on the line with a strong opinion can repel people. You can get negative reactions, especially if you have a lot of followers. When Keegan first signed up, he wasn’t engaging with clients. He was worried about how people would perceive him. But he thinks it’s worth getting a plan together and defining your end goal. With that in mind, he started posting more to appeal to the local market.


Wrapping Up

Instagram is still relevant, but we need to learn how to use it better. We need to engage with our audience more, specialise more and use video as much as possible. It’s also important to understand how people are digesting content and keep an eye on rising platforms like podcasts. Dig in, keep connecting with your couples and ultimately better serve your audience. 


That was such an awesome conversation and I hope it brought you some useful pointers that you can use in your own social media strategy. If you want to connect with anyone you heard on this podcast, here they are on Insta:



And a big shout-out to the listeners who have been leaving me reviews on the Apple podcast app – I love reading these and it helps this podcast reach more people and be as good as it can be, so if you haven’t left me a review yet then I’d love to hear from you.

Cheers guys, see you next episode!



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Free The Bird Workshop
Jai Long Photographer

Hi guys, I’ve just finished a two-day workshop and I am….exhausted! It was an awesome experience but like any big event it can be an energy-suck and takes a few days to recover. I’ve been running workshops since 2015 and have been part of so many success stories and I’ve noticed that the people who succeed are always the ones who have the right mindset. So today I want to talk about changing your mindset and challenging the habits that have been formed as early as childhood.

We all want success

We all want to live a life that’s full of purpose and passion. If you didn’t believe this, you wouldn’t be reading this blog or listening to this podcast. But the biggest difference between someone who lives their life full of abundance and someone who lives their life full of fear out of scarcity is down to mindset.

Many of us creatives suffer from imposter syndrome – we feel that we don’t deserve what others deserve. This is because of the outside influences that tell us that we can’t do something. I’ve been told this my whole life and in every business, I’ve ever started, no matter how successful they’ve turned out to be.

So how do we break out of this habit?


Scarcity Mindset

Believe it or not, most people have a scarcity mindset; this means that they often:

  • Act as a victim or a bully
  • Put others down to make themselves feel better
  • Call people out and create drama
  • Feel like an imposter
  • Feel like their isn’t enough to go around
  • Envious of their competitors
  • Feel entitled


A scarcity mindset can lead people to feeling stuck and powerless – you focus on what’s not working and all of the challenges ahead of you and blame others for your lack of success.


Abundance mindset

If you have an abundance mindset, you:

  • Are in control
  • Believe in your vision
  • Know that there’s enough to go around
  • Feel positive
  • Work on things that are bigger than you
  • Are excited about the tasks ahead
  • Are willing to help those around you
  • Concentrate on the big picture and positive outcomes
  • Are clear with your thoughts
  • Actively seek advice and feedback
  • Don’t judge or compare yourself to others


If you can understand the difference between the two mindsets and recognise these signs, you can start to understand why you act a certain way and start to improve your outlook on life.


People I’ve met with scarcity vs. abundance mindsets

As you’ll hear on the podcast, I’ve met plenty of people with a scarcity mindset, including my old boss who actually stopped me getting my Electrician’s Licence just because he was scared I was going to steal his work.

But I also had a boss who had an abundance mindset – he’d been both a millionaire and bankrupt several times over and yet he paid us well, let us do after-hours work and was never scared of running out of jobs or money. He didn’t even mind if his workers left; in fact, he’d even help us with advice and references!

His attitude was mind-blowing to me – the guy who gives and gives and gives was really successful and the guy that just takes, well, simply wasn’t. I learned from him that there’s always a way to make money in anything you’re passionate about.

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Wedding Photography Mindset

When I started out in wedding photography, I gravitated towards other photographers with abundance mindsets – and noticed that they were always more successful than those with scarcity mindsets.

I noticed that many photographers who weren’t successful always has an excuse…and it’s usually someone else’s fault.

When I started running workshops, I got accused of over-saturation. There’s only so much to go around! This is crazy to me because I don’t see competition – I’m only looking inwards and competing with myself.

As I’ve been growing as a mindset – every decision is it made out of fear or abundance? How can I help those around me, better serve my clients and create more success for everyone in my world?

Jai Long

Educational Workshops Mindset

If a business isn’t growing it’s dying. And now I’m in an educational business, the more people who succeed means the more my business grows. I’m open about this and that means that people are open when they come to me for help.

The weird thing is, other photographers seem to be scared of me running workshops. They won’t share my workshops. They think I’m taking up too much market share and have put walls up – not only will they not share my content, they’re actively blaming me and creating bad business practices. This is all coming from a scarcity mindset.

A lot of these same people are now running workshops – I’m not against photographers supplementing their income, but do you really want to learn from someone with a scarcity mindset?

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Who I want to work with

I’m happy to share and collaborate with high-frequency players who have an abundance mindset, who care about their audience enough to share all of the relevant courses and information and are confident enough in themselves to know that even if people sign up to my workshop, they’ll still buy theirs – why? Because you are the only person who can do what you do.

If you run a workshop in a specific industry, it’s actually better if there are more workshops out there. This might sound strange, but the more workshops there are, the more it becomes normal to attend one. People will attend one workshop, recommend the concept of a workshop to their friends who can then discover yours.


Unlock your potential and change your mindset

I want to give you some practical tips that can help you change your mindset to one of abundance:

  • Become aware of your thoughts – ask yourself why you are making a decision
  • Practise gratitude – be grateful
  • Think like a beginner – learn and grow
  • Limit the time you spend with people who have a scarcity mindset – even if they are close to you, talk through their decisions considering the scarcity vs. abundance mindset
  • Remind yourself – don’t let yourself slip back into a scarcity mindset
  • Be kind to yourself – this won’t happen overnight, so be patient


Thanks for listening, guys – if you want to get in touch, reach out on Insta and feel free to tag me in when you share the podcast with your friends.

And thank you to everyone who is leaving reviews – they mean so much to me and give me the incentive to carry on making this content.

I’m going to take a few days off before preparing for my Sydney workshop – see you next episode!



I’ve got live workshops coming up in New York & Los Angeles – there are still tickets left and I’d love to meet you in person and help take your business to the next level.



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Zoë Morley is a very talented photographer who uses her creativity for worthy causes. I wanted to get her on the show to talk about the challenges that she’s faced in fundraising her charity projects and how she overcame them.

This topic has been on my mind recently, especially with the bushfires in Australia; a community has come together and brought their skill sets to help people who are less fortunate than them and if you’re just seeing the finished product on social media, the process can seem easy. But so much hard work goes into these projects and I think it’s important to look behind the curtain to see exactly what it takes to run a successful campaign.

Starting Out

Zoë is a Sydney-based photographer who has been shooting weddings for seven years. She made her break in a pretty funny way. She worked as a flight attendant but had a background in photography and so to shortcut all of the grunt work of being a second shooter, etc. before she could start booking weddings on her own, Zoë put on a big fake wedding with her cousin (who’s a model), got a wedding dress from Grace Loves Lace, invited all of her friends and used the photos for her portfolio, which helped her book her first year of weddings. The really funny part is, she’d never even been to a wedding before (just like me…).


Focus on your business, not social media

Zoë used the portfolio to get 20 bookings in her first year but it wasn’t through social media – she used Google AdWords. Not many photographers know how to use this, so understanding power of Google Ads can be a gamechanger. This is something I teach my workshop students – everyone else will be competing on Instagram but if you know how to use AdWords, you can fill up your year pretty easily.

Zoë also focuses way more on running her business than racking up Instagram likes. She’s more interested in caring for her clients, packaging, getting her name out there and optimising referrals, keywords and online bookings from Google.

Zoë Morley


Zoë was born in South Africa and always wanted to give back to that community. When she was 19, she spent three months volunteering at an orphanage called Nonjabolu that cares for the children who have been abandoned because of HIV/AIDs. She had her first film camera with her and took photos of the kids; when she got back home, she raised support to put on an exhibition to raise funds for the orphanage. She managed to get a big review on the front page of the Arts section of the Sydney Morning Herald which boosted awareness and she ended up raising $20K for the orphanage.

Ten years later, she thought ‘wouldn’t it be cool to revisit that project’? She wanted to photograph the kids who were now teens and young adults and see how their lives had progressed.

Zoe Morley

The Challenges

Zoë ran a Kickstarter campaign and only expected to cover flights and accommodation but ended up raising $11K, which paid for travel and putting on the exhibition. But there were so many unforeseeable challenges in actually getting back out to South Africa and finding these kids, all of which she goes into on the podcast. She’s really open and honest in our conversation and she talks about how she suffers from anxiety and self-doubt. It didn’t matter how many people were telling her that her work was great, she still lacked confidence and doubted the quality of the images that she took.

Even though her photos were accepted in the Head On Photo Festival – a life dream of hers – as you’ll hear on the podcast, the pressure that she put on herself took a big toll on her mental health. She lost half a year’s worth of income, as she didn’t shoot weddings and outsource her editing and got so stressed that it affected both her mental and her physical wellbeing.


The Big Night

South African-born Australian businesswoman Gail Kelly opened the show and although Zoë had expected a maximum of 100 guests, on the night over 200 people showed up. Everyone was really supportive, she sold lots of books and prints and ended up raising $32K.

This money was used to change people’s lives. She split the money between the orphanage Rehoboth, an AIDS hospice and a crèche, all of which are in desperate need of funding.

Zoë Morley

What did she learn?

Even though the night was a big success, Zoë found it hard to acknowledge this and still doubted her work. It shows that creatives are often self-critical and can we can be our own worst enmeies.

I asked Zoë what she would do differently and she had three pieces of advice for anyone planning to run a  fundraiser:

  • Research – Know who you’re going to work with and check if they are happy to work with you – a good relationship with a charity will make the world of difference.


  • Get help when you need it – If you’re running a fundraising exhibition then ask for help and work with a group who you can delegate jobs to – basically, don’t do everything yourself.


  • Make sure you have a reason ‘why’ you’re doing this – Choose a charity that you’re really passionate about -in the hard times, having a ‘why’ will get you through.

I was really honoured that Zoë shared her story with me and gave us all an insight into the hard work that goes into a project like this. You can check out the photos at Nonjabolu and follow her on Instagram.


And I just wanted to say a big thank you to everyone who has left reviews on this podcast – it’s so amazing to read your feedback and hear what you’re getting value from these episodes. Please be sure to tag me at if you share the podcast on Insta and I can join in the conversation.


One more thing – my Posing & Lighting course is out now and it’s the biggest project I’ve ever worked on! I’m so excited to share it with you guys and I can’t wait to hear your feedback.

Cheers guys, see you next episode 🙂




I’ve got live workshops coming up in New York, Los Angeles, Melbourne, and Sydney – there are still tickets left and I’d love to meet you in person and help take your business to the next level.



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Zoë Morley

I’m going to continue the second part of this two-parter by talking about why it’s important to write your own story. I’ve already told you about my childhood story and now I’m going to tell you about my business story and how I’m still learning from everything I’ve been through to write my own story every day.

It’s easy to see people who have success and assume that they’ve had it come easy. It’s also easy to create excuses for ourselves and assume that  someone is succeeding because they have money, or an education, or don’t have kids… But comparing yourself to others is toxic because you simply don’t know what they’ve been through. Instead, use this good energy to focus on building your own business.


Write your own story

Last time I told you about how my cafe business had failed and I was totally out of cash. I didn’t want my failed business to not become part of my identity. At the time we were going through a minerals boom in Australia, so I jumped on an opportunity and moved up to the mines in Queensland.

It felt like a prison and my bedroom was like a jail cell. The gym had barbed wire around it and the weights were old and rusty. I spent 12 months there working as an electrician before moving to the mines near Perth, which was the most challenging job I’ve ever had. I was attacked physically and mentally. I met someone who had no good in their heart. There was even a murder.

My workmates spent all afternoon in the pub and I didn’t really want to spend my time drinking. I thought that as I’m in such a beautiful part of the country, I wanted to learn photography.

I jumped on eBay and bought a Canon 5D with a fish-eye lens. My flatmate also bought a camera and we’d drive down to the ocean and take photos of the sunset and beautiful landscape.

I put together a blog called Free The Bird and posted my images on there and wrote a few captions about what I liked about the photos. The blog was perfect because I also want to practice writing and being able to tell a story. Just those few captions on each photo were game-changing. Through the blog and Instagram, I could share my art with people who knew me.

I came back home and it was like returning from prison. I had to reintegrate myself into society. I got myself a normal job as an electrician, worked up the ladder and was given my own job site. The only catch was that Leelou and I had to move to Melbourne but this opportunity was worth it. I could be my only boss, run a team and have my own life at the same time. I really felt like I’d made it and was proud of the work that I was doing. But I knew it wasn’t going to last forever, so I needed to take advantage of the situation to build for my future


Learn about money

I needed to learn about money and understand why do some people struggle others have so much. I contacted a financial planner and studied the mindset of wealthy people. I grew up around people with a scarcity mindset and now I was surrounded by people with an abundance mindset. This was another life lesson to add to confidence is keythere is abundance.

I wanted to put what I’d learned into practice, so I took my $100K savings to the bank who then loaned me a million dollars. Just stop for a second and think of how weird it was for someone with my upbringing looking at their bank account and seeing a million bucks. I used the money to buy two houses in Melbourne and I still have them today.


Don’t sell your time

Anyone who knows me will know that I don’t want to swap my time for money. I’m always looking for ways to build wealth without having to spend a lot of time doing it. So now I had some houses, I figured I didn’t need my job and decided to become a full-time photographer. I liked taking pictures of people and I wanted creative control, so I reckoned wedding photography was right for me. The weirdest and funniest thing about this is that up until that point I’d never even been to a wedding, other than my parents’ which was held in the front room of my house.

I set myself goals for the next year:

  • Be a professional wedding photographer
  • Shoot 30 weddings
  • Teach a creative business workshop
  • Learn how to shoot in manual mode


This was ambitious even for me, so I hustled as I’ve never hustled before. I knew I had to go to the US as wedding season was over in Australia, so I put the word out on blogs and social media that I would shoot for free in return for a couch to sleep on and within a month I booked 8 weddings. Now I just needed to get myself there, so I sold my car to pay for me and Leeloou to head to America.

The weddings were fantastic but I knew I needed more content for my site, so in between weddings we would raid thrift stores for wedding dresses and I’d do a photoshoot with  Leelou in awesome locations like Joshua Tree.

We had a lot of adventures and we were so low on money but I saw it as an investment in our future. Another life lesson that I learned was that you don’t get opportunities like this by playing it safe.

When I got back I was published in Junebug Weddings and Hello May magazine, so I was now an international wedding photographer and published photographer. Oh yeah, and I can now shoot in manual mode all day long…

Launching my first workshop

Just 18 months after I started my business, I launched my first workshop. I taught the business and my friend Ryan Muirhead flew over to teach photography. It took a huge amount and of time and energy and in the end, I think I was about $5K out of pocket. Some people might see this as a failure but I saw it as an investment, as the ticket for my education. And it worked.

It skyrocketed my career. I was asked to talk at the biggest conferences, be a guest speaker at other workshops and it really put my business on the map.

In two years I had shot 60 weddings in 4 different countries, held a workshop, was named one of the 30 rising stars of wedding photography by New York Magazine Rangefinder, was Caption magazine’s runner-up photographer of the year and was published in all my favourite wedding magazines.

It might sound like I’m bragging, but I’m telling you this to inspire any creative entrepreneurs and show you that making it is possible.

And believe me, I got hate mail.

People thought it was coming so easily to me. My peers blamed me for their lack of success and one US professor of photography even sent me a 10-page email critiquing my pictures. He was actually 100% right and I learned so much from him – I’m sure that’s not the result he wanted but it proved to me that if you have confidence in yourself then no one can shake you.

People will get upset if you fail or succeed. Just do it for you and you will be an unstoppable force

And it’s not all easy. I’m still fighting every day to continue this life I’ve built. Leelou and I currently live in a tiny house with no TV. I make good money but I invest it back into my projects, just like this podcast. I get up on stage at workshops and I’m still really scared but I know I have to be out of my comfort zone in order to keep growing.


My new story

I want to finish up by talking about my new business,, which is focused on teaching business to creative entrepreneurs. It blows my mind that I can just think of a fun project and make it happen and that even thoughI’ve grown up, I still get to be a kid and play on the projects that I want to do. I make decisions not out of fear, but from knowing that I have the power to change my life, to do more, be more and love more.

Here’s what I’ve learned:

  • Self-confidence will get you everything.
  • Be resilient and don’t let failure stop you from living your best life.
  • Don’t let people who don’t have your best interest at heart give you advice or jade your perspective.
  • Trust in yourself.


Thanks for taking the time to listen to my stories – if it can help just one person then I know I’ll have succeeded.

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Cheers guys, catch you next time!

Jai Long

Hey guys, this is the first episode of a two-parter in which I want to share some super personal stories with you and talk about how they’ve shaped me into the person I am today.

First up, I just want to tell you that I have loved every part of my life, even the hard times – I learned from every mistake and wouldn’t change a thing. More importantly, I’ve never felt hard done by and I certainly don’t want anyone to feel sorry for me. These stories are how I remember them from my perspective – I don’t want members of my family to feel as if I’m calling them out; my only aim in sharing these stories is to inspire those who might be in a hard place and show you that you’re not alone and that no matter what you’re going through you will get through it and have the opportunity to make yourselves – and the world – a better place.

OK, let’s start!

You make your own luck

People often tell me that they reckon I’m the luckiest person in the world. Thinking back over my life, I’m not sure if any of my success is down to luck but more that I jump at opportunities when they present themselves…and sometimes I even create those opportunities myself. And this started at a very young age…


Things you learn from childhood

What got me thinking about this was that I’m trying to buy a house in the little town that I live and it made me remember my own childhood homes (or lack of them) and how stuff you pick up from your parents kind of sticks with you, no matter how different your life may be from theirs.

It wasn’t a traditional or easy upbringing but I loved every moment of it. As you’ll learn from the podcast, from the moment I was born there was always drama. For the first seven years of my life, we lived on the streets and slept in our car, driving from town to town and sharing tents and friends’ houses. Some people might be horrified at this but it meant that we could do whatever we wanted, whenever we wanted. Appreciating the value of freedom is something that I carry to this day.

However, this nomadic existence meant that I didn’t get a lot of schooling other than a few months here and there and a bit of home education. So when we finally settled in one place, I attended my first proper school. And I loved it. But I’d still feel ashamed of the fact that I couldn’t bring my mates over to play at my house because, well, I didn’t have one. Eventually, we made up the long, long list for a goverment house and I understood the value of having a place that I could call my own.

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Learning the importance of money

Unfortunately, the house didn’t fix all of the problems at home. When my parents would argue and fight – sometimes really vicious, physical fights – more often than not it would be over money. This imprinted on me and I just thought that if I could make enough money then everything would be better. Of course, I see now that money can’t fix everything but it did teach me about the importance of having enough money to provide for yourself and those around you.

Even though I was only about 12 years old, I wanted to provide for my family. I managed to get a job picking weeds for a local guy who – after seeing that I wasn’t the type to take ‘no’ for an answer – employed me to wash dishes at his golf course restaurant. This was one of the toughest jobs that I’ve ever had (and not just because I had to cycle to and from it every night in the dark!) but it taught me that I could take action to improve my life and that of my parents’ through earning money.


That all-important first job

Jump to the age of 16 and I realised that school wasn’t helping my purpose. I knew I wasn’t going to get a higher education – it just wasn’t part of my story. So I borrowed my mum’s car (slightly illegally) and drove to a construction site and told the foreman that I was going to work for him. While I might have seemed sure of myself, I’ve got to tell you that my heart was pounding out of my chest! But the guy saw that I would work harder than anyone and offered me $15 an hour. $15!! Guys, at that point I was working for $5 an hour washing dishes. So yeah, I took him up on the job and even though I looked about 12, I rocked up to the site and worked alongside full-grown men, saving my cash so I could send my welfare cheque to my Mum.

For the first time in my life, I felt valued by an employer. This experience taught me that confidence is everything. No matter how you feel on the inside, if people see that you’re confident on the outside they will believe in you.


Learn and overcome

I knew that I needed an electricians’ license to progress in my career but without much schooling, I knew that I wasn’t going to get very far. However, with the help of people around me, my mates coaching me and a ridiculous amount of studying, I managed to pass the test. I love that I overcame that challenge through the sheer force of hard work.

But a much bigger challenge was ahead of me.

When I was just 20, my partner and I set up a cafe. We put EVERYTHING into this – I’m talking all of our time, effort, money – and (spoiler alert) we lost it all. I go into why we set up the cafe on the podcast but the main reason was to get my Dad (who was essentially unemployable) a job. Unfortunately, he died a week before we opened. As well as losing my father, I lost my purpose for running the cafe in the first place. We fought and fought, I got a second job, we lived in a car but still finally lost everything. And you know how I felt that day we closed the doors of the cafe, just a year after opening? It was the best day of my life.

Imagine the stress that a failed business puts on you and your relationship. Now imagine that weight being lifted as you lose everything. Watching the sunrise that morning, I felt so free. I felt like the luckiest person on the planet. (So maybe people have been right all along)

As hard as it was during that year, I learned how to serve clients, lead staff, manage money – basically, a whole business degree crammed into 12 months of on-the-job experience. So now when I’m facing challenges, I look back at my life and try and remember the knowledge I learned in previous difficult times and work out how to use it to overcome what’s in front of me.


Go big or go home

The main thing I’m trying to say is that if you see an opportunity, why not go all-in? Why not risk losing everything because that’s the only way you’ll truly gain anything? What’s the point in life if you’re not living it?!


Thanks for listening, guys – join me next time where I dive into how I started my photography career, all the ups and downs of the last 10 years, and share more wild and exciting stories.

I love sharing these stories, so if you hear something that resonates with you then jump over to my Instagram and say hi!








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